cheating *** wife?
So here is the situation. My so called wife cheated on me after about a year and half of marriage. I guess she stayed with me cuz i was sponsoring her and her mother.I was very trusting as I was always at work and trying to build for our future. I dont think she received her green card yet so. What can i do to relieve myself of this problem.
2007-04-23 16:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by TDUNCAN2121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here is the kicker I gave her 100k to open up her own business and found after a year that she was cheating on me with a 20yr old guy when she was 27. The thing that sucks the most is that Ive had many chances to cheat but Ive never once strayed out of respect for our familes. As I couldnt live with the guilt. I guess there is a sucker born every moment
2007-04-23 16:26:11 · update #1
Also Im not even mad that she cheated as I know you cant force someone to love you. Im only mad at the way she let me find out. Ive always told her that if there ever comes in a point in time that she wanted to be with someone else I would not stand in her way to be with who she wants to be with. I would've of gladly still done my best to help her in any situation if she was honest. As I feel that even if someone doesnt love you u shouldnt stop caring. Ive only asked from one thing in this relationship RESPECT. Ive tried to live most of my life trying not to be selfish and believing there is good in people. I guess it makes you rethink how low people will go.
2007-04-23 16:46:32 · update #2
Well, you can file for divorce and once it's final call INS. It may be a good idea to get a lawyer first. Good Luck
2007-04-23 16:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer, file for divorce, and notify the INS. Time to move on. She has - and she will be moved right beck to where she came from. The karma train is an ugly ride.....
2007-04-23 23:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lili Montegue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is to file for divorce and she wont receive her green card and will be issued a deportation letter
2007-04-23 23:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the INS and tell them that you are filing for divorce and no longer wish to sponsor either of them. Then, divorce her.
2007-04-23 23:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw her *** out or i saw a video on break.com where this guy in your very situation says there is only 1 thing to do do the mom and let her know you are doing it
2007-04-23 23:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by john w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. you can **** her, do not help her to get a green card especially if she doesn't respect you.
2. help her to get a green card. make her feel guilty and divorce.
be fair to yourself and think abt yourself first bec everyone deserves 100% love, not 99.9%
2007-04-23 23:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by tsf_michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divore, deport, move on and get a better wife that respects u like u do to her
2007-04-23 23:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, she cheated and didn't respect you
2007-04-23 23:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her deported and move on. You can do better.
2007-04-23 23:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
divorce!
2007-04-23 23:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by jkl; 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋