I left my ex boyfriend about 2 months ago because he stopped showing me that he cared (he hardly ever calls and never comes to see me, I would always have to take the train to see him and he has a car), and he never called me, I recently found out that he is talking to somone else, and its really hurting me because I still love him. I just don't understand why he can't just call me? I mean we were together for 2 years. What should I do?
2007-04-23 15:19:11 · 20 answers · asked by KerryAnn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he has moved on.You will have to do the same.Your heart will heal with time.If something causes you tears it is not worth the effort to begin with.
2007-04-23 17:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ liz ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit being a fool he doesn't love you if he did he would of already called. He's a loser so just take the the time to get yourself together and go out and meet new people or just hang out with friends. As time goes by the heart will heal there are other guys out there who probably already have an eye on you.
The right one will come along so be honest and true to yourself first and just have fun.
2007-04-23 15:27:18 · answer #2 · answered by Betty R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by leaving him! Good for you, but stay strong sister!
Some advice...
*Get out and do something fun!
*Take good care of yourself.
*Don't let people tell you what he is up to - that has nothing to do with you.
*Have a little faith. You sound very smart and knew when to let him go... you are opening a space in your life for someone very cool.
*In the meantime have fun being single again. You get to flirt with boys again, go out with girlfriends more often, watch what you want on TV (no sports if you don't want to), etc.
*Write a letter to the Universe and ask for the perfect man. Be very specific - tall, funny, responsible, smart, kind, etc. Then say a prayer and burn the letter.
Trust me, you will be fine very soon. Girl Power!!!
2007-04-23 15:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by twinsmama06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. He doesn't care to be in a relationship anymore. You deserve better. I know u care, but the sooner you realize things are over, the better off you will be in the long run. He's doing you the favor so you can find someone that really does care.
2007-04-23 15:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is worth your tears. Try you best to move on. He clearly isn't what you are really looking for. You need to find someone who will give you the attention you crave. Get out among people and you will find that special someone. I know your heart is breaking now but it will get better. The first few months are the worse then it does get better.
2007-04-23 15:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jodi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried the same thing, hoping that by letting him go he would come back. Wrong answer. He found someone... married her... and they just had a baby. I know that doesn't make you feel better but, if he is looking.... maybe he is over it. But then again, i waited and never told him how i felt. Have you ever told him why u split with him??? he maybe just trying to play it cool????
2007-04-23 15:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him the call and ask him whats going on. if he turns a$$ on u then he's not worth it. just move on and look for a better guy. i had this problem too but my bf and me only talked on the phone when i said we could cause it wasnt my phone. he dumped me. now im seeing someone else and my ex is an a$$ about it. i hope it works out for u.
2007-04-23 15:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's really hard. But believe me your not the only one. Look at me I am going through a divorce just because my wife chose her parents over me. I know how you are feeling , emptiness, lonliness, broken heart, anger and etc. It's all their and it's their because you let it to be their. I know it's hard to let go, maybe you dumped him because you thought he might realise things, but it didn't help. Sometimes you try so hard but at the end you just get nothing, if they really like you believe you wouldn't try so hard. My advise let it go or your going to be stuck there forever and youll be misriable for rest of your life. Find someone that likes you for who you are and don't do more to please them or you will drain yourself. Every one that once to be loved deserves to be loved they just hafto find the right person to find that. Obvously he wasn't the one. Good luck and remember there are over 5 billion people in this planet and your not the only one.
2007-04-23 15:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should goto a club where he chills and start dancing up on a good lookin dude like me he'll be jealous but to scared to talk ****. The next day he'll call you to see what's up!!!
By the way if you need someone to go with I will styllllll!!!! but its gonna cost u 10 points
2007-04-23 15:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by some potential so a good distance, i've got on no account had my heart broken, i've got continually completed the heart breaking...it is such as you stated now and lower back worse for me reason I truthfully tend to sense mega accountable and stuff....my final boyfriend thoroughly fell aside as quickly as I broke up with him, he did no longer wanna permit me bypass, so as that became no longer straightforward to handle.... :)
2016-12-16 13:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋