Why do you think some married men and women lose interest in making love.
2007-04-23 12:55:51 · 14 answers · asked by John M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think they lose interest because of the time and energy that is put into a day such as:work,babies,cleaning,etc.I dont think they lose interest,its just that these things(work,babies,etc.) in life are more important.
2007-04-23 13:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that with women's rights and the injustice of the family courts that the man no longer feels the responsibility of being 100% in charge of keeping the marriage interesting and by rights is correct. Equality is given and 50% of the woman is also charged with keeping it 50% interesting but the funny thing is that women keep it interesting by cheating with another man so men are just following the lead of women. You get what you ask for. Marriage is such a wonderful thing now that women have demanded such prestige as being half of the voice of the marriage. We follow your lead and look at what we have , astronomical divorce numbers and a government that is out of control capitalizing on the divorce so much that they have decided to not even make divorce anyones fault. God have mercy on our souls.
2007-04-23 13:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you lose interest in making love, you lose interest in loving that person. Why? No communication is always the first item that all psychologists attack. However, I think that when the romance slips away, so does the interest. Unkind words slip in, then become common place. Next we start looking to see if everyone is suffering like this. That's when the "eye candy" screws up everything. I guarantee, you keep romance in the marriage, it won't die easily! Use it only to get something like sex, is the same as manipulation. Make it common place in your life and you will be the ones that others wish their marriages could be like.
2007-04-23 13:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by delux_version 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
BECAUSE IT'S BORING. Women lose interest in sex because men can't keep it up - men lose interest cause the wife is a big fatty. Sometimes they lose interest because they aren't creative enough with each other to make it interesting, new or different. Why is this important anyway? Good luck.
2007-04-23 13:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they are living in their every day routine life and don't know or don't want to change their life. Also they are not living in natural life and boring from their old life. That way I think they lost interest in making love.
If they change their life and making new every day or want to do something new I think they will again back for making love for their whole life happiness and the interest on both are continue for ever.
2007-04-23 13:19:55 · answer #5 · answered by Alexius T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did when it no longer felt like making love just sex....no emotional connection or affection just for love and I need that to have interest in sex...Also agree with other answer no help with kids so I was too tired...The answer below says it so much better but it is what happened in mine...
2007-04-23 13:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by JustWant2B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Job
* Kids
* Bills
* Housework
* Kids
* Bills
* Housework
* Holidays
* Trips
* Birthday parties
* Tired
* Kids
* Late payment charges
* Interest rates
* Kids
* PTA meetings
* Babysitter cancelled
* Work
* Kids
* Dry Cleaning
* Oil changes
* Yardwork
* Kids
* Bills
2007-04-23 13:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you have to make it interesting and make it fresh...Alot of couples dont comunicate about what they like or dislike to there partners about sex.. Sex is natural in a relationship and there should be comunication in the bedroom and out......You might be surprised, she might be interested in trying something new...EX: roleplay, striptease, erotic massage, the list is endless.......use your imagination...
2007-04-23 13:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by nghtwsl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coworkers!
2007-04-23 18:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is not the glue that holds a marriage together.
2007-04-23 13:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋