this is alot like my friends question who was with me in a very bad incedent. I've done some bad things in the past that I regret but it keeps happening. I've atempted to joy ride a golf cart, stolen things from a store, and gotten in fights at school. How can I fix my issues?
2007-04-23 17:56:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
simple. You GROW UP and stop doing assinine things. What, you actually need someone to tell you that?
2007-04-23 18:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by myjamsandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason for these things to be happening is that you like this sensation of stress, adrenalin, etc. You seem to really need it. Well, try to find things that exit you as much but that are legal and less risky. I can't tell you what exactly, because different people react to things differently. Some people skydive for this very reason. You know what I found helpful for myself? When I need such stress, I just take a very, very cold shower. It gives me so much stress that I forget about those urges. Just don't risk your life.
2007-04-23 18:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by a girlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind that you want to be a better person. Try to find a role model--someone that you can pattern your life by. Learn to consider other people's feelings, and respect their property. Remember that these people work very hard for what they have. It is unfair of you to steal or damage their property. How would you feel if someone did those things to you? Just knowing that you need to change is a very positive step. I hope that I have helped you. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 18:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, recognize that you're a teenager and will do some dumb **** occasionally.
Why did you do those things? Was it your idea? Did someone pressure you? Think about these things before you do them, and the consequences should straighten out.
If it becomes a real problem, talk to your parents. Maybe counseling would help. Just don't let this get too far.
2007-04-23 18:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out a professional respected therapist and find out the reasons why you do the things you do? You can mend these areas of life! Also, Prayers do work and turning to God in times of difficulty would also help! Best Wishes and God Bless!
2007-04-23 18:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you might try is change the people you are hanging out with. Stay home more and help out. Slowly start trying to make some reputable friends. Good Luck
2007-04-23 18:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The definition of insanity is doing the same things but expecting different results!! Do other things! Are you drinking and using drugs? If so get help and then you will stop your crazy behavior. If not get some counseling!
2007-04-23 18:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Gidget 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know, understand and believe all your actions have consequences...for the bad , bad will come back to you...for the good that you do , good will come back to you...sooner or later...want the best out of life more than anything else and you will know it can only happen if you stop doing bad things and start doing good...it really is simple as that...be patient and observe the truth behind these statements.
2007-04-23 18:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you like the "jolt" of danger - maybe try focusing your energy on legal but thrill seeking alternatives - extreme sports - skate boarding, bikes, roller blades, sky diving, SCUBA, etc. Good luck.
2007-04-23 18:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by JannahLee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with me about these things. You'll be able to stop all these things; we just need to get to what's actually making you do these things. We can help this situation, so please e-mail me. My e-mail address is eckm0032@umn.edu. You can also instant message me. Just let me know. I'll work with you on this.
Heath
2007-04-23 18:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by heath e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋