I am supposed to be getting married at the End of July. This is a second marriage. I already have two children. I just found out that I am pregnant a couple of weeks. THat means I will be almost 4 months along by the time of the wedding. I am very slim girl, but in late thirties. I don't know if I will be showing yet or not. Should we just elope now and have a party after the baby is born, or would you go ahead with the wedding and hope that I am not showing. We wanted to include the girls, 6 and 8 in our ceremony to make them feel included in the wedding etc. I don't know what to do!!
2007-04-25 02:18:28 · 11 answers · asked by 22marie22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go ahead with the wedding. You are not a child so why be ashamed of being pregnant in a wedding dress?
2007-04-25 02:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 4 months along and nobody could tell. We didn't hide it, but we didn't announce it at the wedding either. I would just make sure you get a dress that is a little big, maybe a size or two, so it can be altered to fit. 4 months isn't that far, and unless you go crazy with the food, you really shouldn't gain too much weight.
Congratulations on the wedding and the baby.
2007-04-25 02:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think any of this will change once you're married? Get out now while you still can. Marriage needs to be 50/50. He is obviously not contributing his share. Sounds like he's more worried about his own finances and that's why he's using your money to make sure his don't go away. If he is truly trying to change, great. However, I think it's wise to have him move out and to also postpone the wedding. Problems like this need time to resolve, especially when trust is involved. And I don't mean his trust issues with you. You need to seriously start questioning his actions. Good luck. You sound like a strong, independent woman. Don't ever let a man change that.
2016-05-18 02:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by latrisha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends.. chances are if ur slim ull be showing in 4 months. if u dont want anyone to know that ur pregnant elope if u want everyone to know then wait for the wedding. u and ur fiance have to decide on that. all i can do is give u suggestions. although if u elope ur gonna have to explain to his and ur family y u eloped. but if it was me id just go on with the wedding unless they r very very religious and dont believe in pregnancy b4 marraige. good luck
2007-04-25 02:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats on your pregnancy. Bring forward the wedding date so you wont feel ashamed abt it. At the same time, your girls can help out with it. If not, change the design of your wedding gown to hid your tummy. Congrats on your wedding.
2007-04-25 03:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is 2007, don't be ashamed of being pregnant. People do it everyday.....go ahead with the wedding.....there's very little chance you'll be showing anyways. Hope you have a happy day!
2007-04-25 02:27:50 · answer #6 · answered by dsjan1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not change the date of the wedding?
Have a ceremony now, don't elope and cheat yourselves and your families,
This is your second marriage...you aren't children....you can do what you want.
Breath.....it will all work out.....
Best wishes
2007-04-25 02:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by travelingirl005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with the wedding I did and no one else knew i was prego other then my mom and dad. aroud four months you will start to show but not much.
2007-04-25 02:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by ebonykittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do know what to do! Get married now, and spend the time on your family. It's not the time to be thinking about the big party.
2007-04-25 03:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares even if you are showing. A baby is a time to celebrate and you should combine both blessings and have a wonderful day. Congrats.
2007-04-25 02:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋