I think my wife is smoking hot, but she thinks she's fat. Other people try to tell her she's not, but she doesn't listen. Anyway, we're going on vacation to the beach this summer, and I would love for her to wear the bikini she wore on our honeymoon, but she doesn't think she'd look good in it. Any suggestions on how to convince her?
2007-04-25 22:29:29 · 16 answers · asked by 123321abc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I doubt that you will convince her. If you've told her how nice she looks and that hasn't worked, she probably won't change her mind. Once we women get it in our head that we need to cover our flaws, it's hard to change.
2007-04-25 22:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by DOT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's already had a lifetime of men staring at her and doesn't want the attention from others when she's with you.
Or maybe she's tired of you looking at other women and doesn't want to be compared to the younger generation by you.
Or maybe you need to get a man thong and a body wax, toss her the bikini and ask her to escort you out to the beach so you both can get a tan.
If she doesn't want to wear it, let it go.
2007-04-25 22:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in step with possibility you ought to have borrowed her matching bikini bra too. With that slung below the offending area you in all possibility would have stored Mr. Johnson and the lads in place. replaced into it a thong? Did absolutely everyone take photographs ? How did your spouse keep a immediately face? No that is not your wifes fault! i've got heard of bypass dressers yet that is ridiculous
2016-11-27 22:04:42 · answer #3 · answered by sardeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, do you really want her to wear it outside though if she doesn't want to and she's smoking hot too? She doesn't have to wear it outside and it will probably be a little better for you because what if she wore it and got lots of stares from other men and boys how would you feel about it. Just let her wear it inside with you, and whatever else you'll want, that way I think you'll both feel more comfortable.
2007-04-25 22:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Adel 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she thinks she's fat or has an otherwise poor body image, she's not going to feel comfortable wearing a bathing suit, much less a bikini. All you can do is tell her that you would like her to wear it but don't push the issue. She's not going to be happy if she wears it only because she feels like she has to. And if SHE ain't happy, YOU ain't gonna be happy!!
2007-04-25 22:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make her visualise the scenes u2 wud have if she wore a bikini and u wore something hot..u2 cud have the perfect day in a calm beach side..jus the two of u..in short, stick her foto sumwher she cud c and pretend that ur drooling ova her pic and tell him the dream u had-(the scenes said abov wud b betta)..have a great trip..Good Luck
2007-04-25 22:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she does not refuse to wear bikini,and if you are very particular she will be willing to,if you allow her to wear only within your bedroom.you and you wife, both would be satisfied.just tell her you wanted her to wear bikini, and that to for your eyes only.just like that.O.K.
2007-04-25 22:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by dpkdrj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, she is obviously not comfortable enough to wear it, at least out in public, but maybe you could ask her to wear it in private for you! You have to respect her comfort zone, so don't ask her to be uncomfortable on the beach.
2007-04-25 23:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oooohhh. girls/women are stubborn especially when it comes to their bodies. no matter how much u try to persuade her to wear a bikini and she thinks shes fat, good luck. she wont listen. we women are just that way.
2007-04-25 22:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her and when she says no, punish her, but make her like it. then bring the bikini dont tell her and when you get to where your going, Make her put it on as another punishment for saying no. all respect to you and your wife, but maybe she'll get into it. It works for me. *grin*
2007-04-25 22:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋