I dont care if we watch it together. Otherwise im not for it. I dont watch it. Its might just be my pregnancy hormones. But he mixed his own video too.
2007-04-25 15:31:59 · 40 answers · asked by ~desi~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The video was of others. We have made porn together. We have sex atleast a couple times a week. Depending how much i work. And i work over 40 hrs a wk, pregnant, n still put out. Thats what i dont understand
2007-04-26 11:15:50 · update #1
There is nothing wrong with men watching porn. You are big with a baby so he needs something good to look at.
2007-04-25 15:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by MAGA2020 3 · 4⤊ 9⤋
I have never really talked about porn with my husband, he is a Marine stationed in Camp Lejeune, NC until Septmeber 2008 so I am sure he watches it every once in a while, lol.
In my opinion, I think if watching it together makes you want to get all wild and freaky like they are then go for it. Or watching one you've made together is even better. I personally don't watch it to just watch someone having sex, it just reminds me of the last time we were intimate and gets me in the mood to take care of myself, for when he's not here. (I know that sounds disgusting but 15 months without sex....come on! lol)
Pregnancy hormones can definately effect the way you feel about sex, or anything for that matter. What do you mean he mixed his own video? Of the two of you, or someone else?
2007-04-25 15:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You pose a serious question that needs a serious answer. Here are some thoughts for you:
1. Some guys are "addicted" to this type of material and it really is beyond their control. It is a medical/mental condition.
2. Not all porn is degrading to women and quite a lot of it is created and controlled by women!
3. It can be educational to both sexes, both in a "mechanics" way (how to do it) and in philosophical way (what to do). This won't work as well if he is the only one watching, but maybe he is hoping for ideas on how to spark his love life with you.
4. Some of it is interesting in a philosophical way, and just more fun to watch than TV. But, it is bad if he wants to do it by himself and hide it from you.
5. Your hormones are probably affecting your view, but, for things to get better, you need to get things talked out with him about this.
2007-04-25 17:16:29 · answer #3 · answered by David A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't watch porn and i won't be comfortable with my boyfriend watching either. But i think that people will watch if they want but for me i made a decision that i will not watch that garbage. I know a lot of people watch it with their husbands and that is their choice but not in my house. It is nasty like come on you need a magazine or movie or women and men that aren't even real to get you off? If my boyfriend was watching we would have a serious misunderstanding that is not something i will put up with. I demand dignity and respect and that is not respectful.
2007-04-25 17:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
"how can i know what he be questioning as quickly as we are having intercourse." you are able to not. you are able to in no way somewhat know what yet somebody else is questioning. in my opinion, i've got self assurance that in case you somewhat "know he loves me very plenty and he's marvelous husband of 7 years and father of our 5 year old son. He would not cheat on me he's a kinfolk guy who's continually homestead with us, helping me cook dinner and sparkling while he would not paintings etc.." The porn (even with what type - barring of direction, youngsters) is an extremely inane reason to get divorced. adult men watch porn. some adult men are into the incredibly criminal element. i don't think of it incredibly is a stable reason to throw away a satisfied kinfolk yet curiously you do.
2016-11-27 21:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men watch porn, it doesnt mean they have feelings for other women or do not want thier partners. However if it bothers you, tell him so calmly. Communication, love and respect make for a good marriage, and yes, running hormones do make for stronger emotions at times :)
2007-04-25 21:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Socrates 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't have a problem with it, as long as he comes and takes it all out on me when he's done watching, and not tiring himself out. Since he is making videos as well, maybe you need to sit down with him and discuss why. Maybe he has you up on that ~Mommy~ pedestal. Some men get queered out when their wives are pregnant, don't know exactly how to react, afraid of hurting the baby etc. Been there.
2007-04-25 15:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by I Dream of Genie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with you. I forbid my husband to watch porn alone because at one point he was on the verge of porn addiction and would rather have that than me.
2007-04-29 13:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When we were just dating and fooling around then i didn't mind if he watched porn or went to the strip clubs. But when he asked me to marry him he was commiting to me and only me. His brother wanted to take him to the strip club 2 days before our wedding, i told him he could go but he better not show up to marry me if he did. I don't feel he should be looking at other girls and getting off to it when he made the commitment to love me and only be with me.
He respects that and so far i haven't caught him :)
2007-04-25 15:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by ilovemykids 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I could care less if my husband watches porn. It just gives him more ideas on how to be wild in bed.
It is only a problem if he is watching porn 24 hours a day or you have to squeegee off the TV.
Good Luck.
2007-04-25 15:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Oh, hells no.. mami... no en mi casa! I mean lets make our own, but what the hells the need to watch some other woman? Am I not good enough? I have never had this problem with my husband and hope I never do... allthough I know of someone's husband jacks off in the bathroom and can't get it up for his wife! Crazy!! Cada cabeza es un mundo... I mean every head is a unique world. Good luck and say how you feel, especially in your stage!
2007-04-25 15:40:06 · answer #11 · answered by JLO 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋