i am working away from home now and my last communication w/ my husband was a day b4 i left.but b4 this, there are already alot of problems between us( specifically financial) were 7 yaers now but he was never a good provider and supportive to our kid in all aspect., but i try to deal with it and do things on it for us to be a whole family but he' s not doing his part w/c i think is unfair.b4 i leave i ask hium to see and visit the kids once in a while( i leave them to my parents ) but still he didn't do anything even going to school to check them and all...now we don't have anycommunication. ( am 2 years away from home now) i will b home in a couple of months and i am planning to get separated from him totally, the fact that he's not doing his job as a father/ husband so i yhink its no use to have him....need ur advice. am turning 27 and so is he
2007-04-29 19:19:41 · 4 answers · asked by twinx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's actually much easier raising a child alone. Because you actually will have one LESS child to care for......HIM.
Hold your head high, discipline your child with love so that she/he will grow into a strong adult.
2007-04-29 19:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have known this for along time now. Since you have been doing this on your own, doing it own your on by paper is going to be the same. I am 29 and have felt the same thing about my hubby of 8 yrs. I do almost everything because we are a family. That is how we were raised right? Well what our p's didn't tell us that its going to cave in one day and you will be left there in the rubble with fingers pointing at you. I just wish for his sake that he realizes he needs to be their for the children and can atleast mend their little wounds. I wish you the best of luck!
2007-04-30 02:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, you both are the parents of the kids, and will be for the rest of your lives. Don't do anything that interferes with the relationship between the kids and their father. If the father is a jerk, let the kids find out about this on their own. Don't point it out to them. If you want to dump him, do it but don't make it a fight about the kids. Leave the children out of any fights between you and him. Good luck.
2007-04-30 02:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is one of the things that we would never be prepared for but the good news is that with experience we learn. This is not an easy thing to do but you would learn a lot and it gets harder and harder. Hang in there and good luck!
2007-04-30 03:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋