Marriage & Divorce - 29 April 2007

She went to bed, and I came across a girls picture I know, but haven't seen in months. She came down and caught me masturbating with that girls picture up. She said she wanted a divorce last night, but ended up staying the night. However today, my brother coincidentaly said something about the girl while my wife and I were over for dinner. She immediately said take me home, didn't say a word the whole way home, just cried for a minute. Then immediately left and I believe went to her ex boyfriends house..( from a little over a year ago). Does anyone have any experience with such a stupid thing, or do any of you girls have any advice on how I should handle this? I can't believe how stupid I am, and it will kill me to lose my wife over something like this...please help

2007-04-29 09:39:18 · 37 answers · asked by Need serious help 1

It's really hard to know what to do. He is step dad to my 2 boys who love him and we own a massive house but are mortgaged up to the hilt

2007-04-29 08:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wondering if someone could help me with some answers ? I have been married for less than a year and want a Divorce. The only thing I am afraid of is my truck. We bought it from Sam Swope less than a year ago both of our names are on the title. He sold my grandfathers truck for 1500 which went toward the down payment on the expedition. The payments are behind a little , but what has been paid was all paid by my grandmother and grfather. She keeps all of that info. in her check book where she wrote out every payment and amount. Will I be able to get the truck for me and my children beens he never made payments and is he legally aloud to drive off with the truck anytime?

2007-04-29 08:39:59 · 4 answers · asked by aj07link 1

I do everything in my means ( and sometimes beyond our means) for our daughter. she totally dis respects me. When I try to make her mind it does no good. my husband can be standing right there and will not say or do anything. Then when he does say something he makes me the one to blame. I dont know what to do, I feel so alone.When I went to bed last night I prayed that I would not wake up this morning, but unfortunatley I did. I just do not know what to do!!!!

2007-04-29 08:35:30 · 10 answers · asked by sandrajj67 1

I have known a man who's been so nice and so very good to me but the minute I told him that I am married, he started acting strange and nasty. I greatly appreciate your answers. Thanks!

2007-04-29 08:26:14 · 20 answers · asked by desolate woman 2

2007-04-29 08:11:05 · 7 answers · asked by nanisocrazy 1

If you have any facts or sources, that would be extra helpful (but not necessary).

2007-04-29 08:05:17 · 28 answers · asked by JudasHero 5

My husband & I r seperated & due 2 financial situations we still live together. I've heard on here 2 move in with parents or friends & that is NOT an option at all, we have two children & no one that we know r in a postion 2 take in either of us. Our home has been an emotional wreck 4 the past 10 months, days sometimes weeks w/ us not saying a word 2 each other & either there is a HUGE argument or we start 2 get along for a couple of days. This is absolutely the worse situation 2 be in, I hate it, my poor chldren have seen so much anger & pain & they just dont deserve this. I honestly don't know what to do now. I've lost my job so any hope of getting out of this sooner has been stalled. Our kids have school issues that he doesn't handle because he "hasn't checked his email" 2 see that the teachers are needing 2 talk 2 us or commuicate about whats going on w/ our kids. I'm just so tired of all of this. I'm not sure if I'm really even asking a question, just venting.Hey its 2pts.

2007-04-29 07:52:32 · 17 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

2007-04-29 07:52:09 · 11 answers · asked by scholar 2

do I have to say "divorced"? I'm mostly talking about when I fill out forms and things... I guess "single" implies never married. But, I'm a Christian who's divorced after domestic violence...I REALLY don't want to have to get into all of it with people - BUT...I don't want to be deceitful either. Never ever thought I'd be in this place and not sure how it all works. So - some ettiquette would be helpful (hmmm did I spell that right? ha ha). How do I introduce myself? My church also sort of kicked me out because I chose to keep myself safe and so I'm looking for new churches and am afraid to tell them about my past for fear they, too, won't accept me. Help! (Please be nice...I don't really need any teasing right now - honesty is fine...meanhearted jabs are not, please). Thanks!! :)

2007-04-29 07:42:12 · 14 answers · asked by Jazmin 2

I know how they determine child support for other situations, but I cannot find any information on if you are dealing with someone who owns the business. Any information would be helpful!!

2007-04-29 07:39:59 · 21 answers · asked by MILF20 1

2007-04-29 07:39:38 · 16 answers · asked by Sopwith 4

Can someone previously married in a christian or COE church re marry in a catholic church. One person is divorced and the other has never been married but is a baptised catholic . Is this possible for them both to marry ??

2007-04-29 07:32:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some days I get all melancholy, and that's why I feel like talking to you out there? We had our differences, and she left me for our Lord, at a bad time, in our volatile marriage, You out there, please hug your partner, before time moves on?

2007-04-29 07:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by denis9705 5

if your spouse male or female cheated and you forgave them please tell me how and what steps you took to get things on good terms again. my husband has done the unbelievable, but I don't want to give up the marriage, so if you made it past this point please help me make it too.

2007-04-29 06:09:05 · 16 answers · asked by Mr.G's wife 5

I heard that it is enough to give an add in any newspaper, so is that true?

2007-04-29 06:05:57 · 6 answers · asked by thomasmazzoni 2

how do u do it..... i do it for the kids people ask how i can... because i love them..... anyhow if u do have this same sit. to deal with how do u do it???

2007-04-29 05:28:17 · 4 answers · asked by mldaod1 2

2007-04-29 04:58:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

online chatting with other females. He is overseas, waiting to immigrate. Chatting includes webcam, all nude, sexual acts. He wants to meet too. He is into tons of porn.
What you think of this? Is this cheating? Should she divorce him before he gets to immigrate to US?

2007-04-29 04:45:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
I wanted to know if after your divorce/separation if you co parented? How did it work? Still debating if I will end up doing that with my kids. I personally feel that they wouldn't have one place to call home if they spent part of the week with me and the other with their dad. So I'm asking you for your opinions. I only want to know for the people who have co parented or are co parenting now.

2007-04-29 04:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by shorty_5600 1

good question so i asked this.. ok i know its cheating i shuld say is it fair

2007-04-29 04:12:47 · 24 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2

I am married with young children, we have been married for some time nearly five years in fact. But i love someone else! I have met someone who makes me feel so warm inside and although nothing has happened in a sexual way it is very clear about our feelings for each other. I love my children dearly and would hate to be seperated from them - What do i do??

2007-04-29 03:56:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is a man really able to fight his feelings? my Fiance and I are having big problems with his divorce,it just draggs on forever and since I'm in Germany while he is in WA it's pretty tough..I can't spend time in the US all the time simply because I dont have the money to fly over all the time,because of my son and because he's living with friends of his.Now he's giving up on me because he says even when the divorce is finally done (and nobody knows WHEN that will be) it still takes 6 months for me to come to the US for good due to the Fiance Visa..He tells his family and friends he loves me and doesn't want to lose me,but yet he refuses to even speak to me.He said it would hurt him too much to see me leave again and made me cancel my flights.........Can a man really fight his feelings because problems are getting too much to deal with and theres no light at the end of the tunnel?????

2007-04-29 03:48:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-29 03:46:01 · 18 answers · asked by dipavyas 1

2007-04-29 03:30:31 · 28 answers · asked by cleo_alter_ego 2

I lack self astem which is making me jealous when my husband & I are out with friends.

2007-04-29 03:09:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok about a month ago I realized that spiderman 3 was coming out. So I asked my husband about it and said why don't the three of us go and see it (me, husband and son) on the friday it comes out. However, it actually comes out thursday/friday at midnight. Well, going with the fact that we planned to go see this, is it dumb of me to be a little upset that he is going to see it at midnight and that I wish he would just wait to see it on friday with me and our son. I just got mad because I feel like it kind of ruins the time we PLANNED for just because he likes to see the midnight show. Is it wrong that I wish he would not see it at midnight? He says he could have seen it and not told me at all and that is why he doesn't want to tell me because I am being unreasonable. I guess I just wanted him to ask me...say that I know we planned this but I really want to see the midnight showing too...is that alright. Is it wrong for me to at least expect this respect? I know...maybe stupid..

2007-04-29 03:06:51 · 22 answers · asked by superwmn315 2

We have been happily married for a year. He only seems flirtatious with one of our friends who is engaged. I know deep down he would never cheat on me but my mind wanders & thinks the worst. I dont like being the one in our relationship to always have a problem with jealousy & start the arguments. I want him to be more attentive when we are out with friends to boost my confidence.

2007-04-29 03:06:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-29 03:06:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My uncle was 7yrs dead now, and he has 2 adopted sons, wife left. Is there any possibilities that I am his legal niece have an authority or rights as heirs too..?

2007-04-29 02:54:42 · 6 answers · asked by carol p 1