It's really hard to know what to do. He is step dad to my 2 boys who love him and we own a massive house but are mortgaged up to the hilt
2007-04-29 08:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all you need to decide how many children you have, 2 or 3. Sulking is immature and childish, I picture a big baby who has just been weened from his mothers milk!
You need to talk about your problems your having with him, leaving him might equally be the worst or best mistake of your life. Its a big decison. Bare in mind the kids, the younger they are the more difficult.
Take Care
Good Luck
Best Wishes..xX
2007-04-29 09:47:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sahra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to leave because he sulks? And what precisely is the question lol?!
If you add more details I'll check back in later and update, but otherwise, I'm not really sure of what you're asking here : S
2007-04-29 09:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Callisto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When there is sulking, sometimes there is a lack of communication, honest and open communication, and the compromise between two people. Sadly, if both partners are not commited to working together to mediate solutions, it can be like living alone. I would tell him exactly how I feel and how it makes you feel.
2007-04-29 09:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, IF you love him try to work things out...talk to a professional...sulking.....is just his method of dealing with being hurt in whatever way....I know It's not good but maybe he can change. Don't cut and run w/o at least trying to engage him.. Tell him "It's not working....(meaning the sulking)....Tell him "you're acting like your 10 yr old...tell me what's wrong"....It's a control thing...don't fall for it...deal w/ it...
2007-04-29 09:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by prouddaddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was engaged to a man who sulks and I left him and his kids. Thankfully I had no financial committment with him.
I'd see a solicitor if I were you - best to go to one in a nearby town so no one you know (or he knows) sees you going in or out.
Good luck, I hope things work out for you
x
2007-04-29 09:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Bristol_Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sulkers are so selfish. its me, me, me all of the time. if you dont love him you should leave and start a new life.if you do love him then you could try stopping him from sulking. ignore him when he sulks. talk to your boys but not him. make sure he knows you're not getting sucked in by him.
2007-04-29 09:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by kati 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is stressed out with trying to keep it all together. Ask him to see whether he is suffering from depression. Don't give up on him yet. Start talking, it could be easily sorted out if it is just stress screwing thngs up at the moment.
2007-04-29 10:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Supergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no the feeling i have 6 kids 2 with him and he annoys me so much we are seperated at the moment i just told him straight.i have the house and he helps pay for the mortage intill we sort something out properly.good luck.xx
2007-04-29 09:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, let him have the house and clear yourself of that debt. It'll be a matter of time before he looses it anyway.
2007-04-29 09:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he suffers from depression. Urge him to see a doctor.
2007-04-29 09:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋