Marriage & Divorce - 3 May 2007

My hubby and I are having issues and I told him we need counsling and he said he would go but he don't think it really does any good. He says everyone he knows that has went has divorced anyway.......

2007-05-03 00:46:39 · 13 answers · asked by lillorikay 2

Hi i have been with my partner for 8 happy years we have been engaged for 3. We have 2 beautiful children aged 2 and 1. However he says that he doesn't believe in marrige as it is only a piece of paper and he doesn't need it to prove how much he love's me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me.I would never think of leaving him over something as silly as this, but it has been my dream since childhood to get married.
It's not that i want to be the centre of all the attention either because i don't like being made a fuss of.
I just want to be part of his family as he is now part of mine. i think i want to be known as his wife and not just his girlfriend and the mother of his two children.
it hurts as my younger sister is getting married in october and i feel that i am always going to be the bridesmade and never th bride.Should i keep onto him or just let time do its handy work and see if his attitude towards marrige changes?

Afterall isn't it just a peice of paper?

2007-05-03 00:41:10 · 19 answers · asked by emma13583 2

i already have 2 beautiful children and would love one more but not sure if can financially afford it.

2007-05-03 00:17:05 · 31 answers · asked by angel 3

I tried sitting down talking to my husband letting him know how I feel but, I'm still getting nothing. As I said before we had this problem over an ex of his who recently passed away. Just yesterday I was online playing around and he accidentally left his email page up. I saw where he had been talking to this woman the entire time he was deployed in Afghanistan and he was saying how much he loved her and missed her and that they would be together when he got home. He came home November last year, and she passed in December. I feel like if she was still here, he would find an excuse to get out of this marriage even though he got me pregnant in December. He claims she told him she was pregnant around the time we got married so he said he thought it was the right thing to do to keep saying he loved her. I guess his strategy is to get women pregnant, leave them, and move on and fall in love with someone else to get away from responsibility. Can someone tell me what to do??? Please??

2007-05-03 00:06:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous