Marriage & Divorce - 3 May 2007

he needs time to think about it keep in mind we have a house together and a 2yr old we share everything and he says he needs time before we get married should i wear my ring???? he totally ruined the moment when he asked me i was so happy and proud no im embarresed when people ask when im going to get married.

2007-05-03 15:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by justme 2

My hubby has no problem staying gone when Im pregnant. I left in the beginning because I didn't want to miscarry with all the fighting. But now I want to work things out and he is saying that he has drifted apart from me..which is weird because every weekend we were together with me spending the night and everything. But today when we were to start the counseling he wouldn't show. And he is saying he wants to move on..but its so easy for him too, I can't move on because I have his baby in my belly and I love him so much..Why do you think its easy for him or is he acting like its easy but its hard? I'm pregnant and emotional, and confused..FYI he wants everything to do with the baby just not me..he is taking the classes with me and going to be there for the labor, but why not the relationship????Any advice?

2007-05-03 15:20:47 · 11 answers · asked by ERICKSMAMA 5

My wife just called me stupid because I shouted for joy that we paid all of our bills off. She wasn't joking when she said it. I just said she shouldn't talk to me that way. What would you do?

2007-05-03 15:16:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't been able to get through to the ex... we're separated and I know it's for good, I'm moving on. He's not sure about what he wants. He talks about how he misses the kids etc, but we never talk about anything. Just things here and there but nothing concrete, we end up arguing or he'll just blow it off. He's living with his sister and I'll be moving soon because I can't afford to keep living in my current home. Well I have been trying to talk to him as to what's going to happen with the belongings. I've tried to talk to him about a visitation schedule so we can have a routine going. So far it's been a weekly things with the visitations, meaning he'll show up when he wants and well I'm fed up with it. Since we don't get far in talking I wrote him an email. Explained to him that we have some resolved issues and well that I'm tired of the one always having to resolve everything. I feel he just dumps it all on me.

2007-05-03 15:13:12 · 14 answers · asked by shorty_5600 1

s cheated on her ,lied to her , broke her and still she stays ..she pays all the bills ..for everyone ..even though he makes big money she never get any of it ...he go by himself back to vietnam for three months at a time ..leaving her to do it
he has a house and land there ..but its not for her or the kids ..its only for him ...now i ask you this ....why oh why doesn't she run like hell????

2007-05-03 15:11:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I work in the day time. When he gets home all I want to do is spend time with him but he plays video games instead. What can I do for him to want to spend more time with me than his xbox360?

2007-05-03 15:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by acer7 2

Will she want sex when she gets home...I wouldn't mind.

2007-05-03 15:07:53 · 12 answers · asked by Chad S 2

I have been married for 2 years. I broke up with my boyfriend because my parents didn't like him. Now I regret it. I love my husband but I feel like I only fell in love with him because I was on rebound from my boyfriend who I loved. I saw him a couple months ago and he said he still loves me and I couldn't smile at him unless I wanted to get divorced. (he loves my smile I guess) he didn't tell me at the time we were dating. My husband is divorced and has slept with many people...I have only slept with him. He told me to sleep with someone else just so I know what its like but I don't think I can do it. I'm afraid of what it will do to our relationship. My husband says he ruined my life but I feel like I ruined my exboyfriends life. i just don't know what to do I'm afraid temptation will get the best of me and I don't have any friends that won't blab in our small town. I see my ex almost every day and if I don't I can't stop thinking about him.

2007-05-03 15:02:42 · 6 answers · asked by togobackintime 2

My fiance works for the railroad. He calls me when he leaves for work, when he gets to the town he travels to, when he leaves there, and when he gets back home. (He works all different hours, on call). I recently found out he calls him mom every time too. It bothers me because why would he need to call her every time like he does me? He says it's because she wants to know he's okay and didn't get in a wreck or something but he calls me so if I didn't hear from him I would know and could tell her myself. I just think it's unneccesary. He says he's always been close with his mom but I think that's a little extreme. I'm close with my mom too but I don't call her every single day. I just feel like there should be some things that he only does for me... like I'm the only one he calls when he's going to and back from work. I just think it would be ridiculous to do once we get married especially. It's hard to explain because I don't really have a reason for why it bothers me but it does.

2007-05-03 14:56:17 · 39 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2

2007-05-03 14:22:06 · 46 answers · asked by angeleyes 1

If you live near your mom and she is alone on mother's day because her husband works far away, but you are married and have children, who do you devote your time to? One wants help cleaning out her basment all day, which the other does not want to spend her day doing.

2007-05-03 14:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by so.good 2

I have a white boyfriend and we have been going out for almost 2yrs now. We both meet in school and we spend nonstop time together, even at work. We have became so involved in each others lives that we don't know how to separate even if we tired. We both feel that we are right for each other; however, my whole family is against it. They would like for me to find someone indian.
Let me tell you more about the past. This guy comes from a family where his parents passed away when he was 9yrs old and was raised by his grandmother. He has gone thru a lot, and all he wants in life is a family to call his own. He is one of the most loving and carring individual I have ever met. My family is a tipcal indian family, but we have no relatives in america. We have a few friends, but no one that we can look for support on.
I am fustrated because of this situtation. I did not go out looking for an white guy, it just happened! All I want to know is should I take my family side, or the person I love?

2007-05-03 14:11:31 · 33 answers · asked by mny 1

I feel so connected to my best boy friend.. I like him a lot.
I am also married and love my husband alot.
I feel that I am love both of them alot. any advice or suggestion?

2007-05-03 14:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-03 14:01:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I spend more time getting angry then laughing with my soon to be wife. We have had sex 2 times in the past 6 months; believe me i have tried. She gained alot of weight, went from a 4 to a 10 in 1 year. I tried to help her get back on track, but that just back fired into I think she is fat and unattractive. I want to stop being so angry and let things roll off like in the beginnin...help wedding in 1 month.

2007-05-03 13:56:09 · 12 answers · asked by nucmed guy 1

Ever since my wife started taking Kung Fu she has lost interest in me as well as the house. She is always tired and we hardly have sex anymore ? and if we do, is like she is being forced and complaining. Any suggestions ?

2007-05-03 13:12:33 · 18 answers · asked by Rafael R 2

2007-05-03 13:02:22 · 34 answers · asked by neeras 1

here what it said -Tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if you gave me the cold shoulder.Sara is so big!sue-

ok now sara is his child from his 1st marrage(the one sue broke up)sue may or may not know of me and the email was sent to my bfs old email account that i use now(thats how i found it)now my fiance never told me he ran into her somewhere and the only reason i worry is they have quite a long past together.Does it sould like shes tryng to stir up old emotions?

2007-05-03 12:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by karenmoore768930030 1

Ok...I'll start off by saying I have absolutely no intention or desire to leave/cheat on my husband.

I have two male friends, both of whom I've known for many years (only one I've dated...in high school). Since I've been married however, and I'm also pregnant, these two men have decided to tell me they love me, and one even asked me to marry him. Obviously its made being friends with them awkward it definately makes my husband uncomfortable, as well as myself. I've told my husband I would stop talking to and/or hanging out with the two friends, but he insists he trusts me and its OK to continuing being friends with them. I'm just curious...can any men out there explain what they were thinking in deciding to tell me all this now? I highly doubt it was because they were afraid of being turned down. I just don't get it...

2007-05-03 12:41:00 · 19 answers · asked by ME 2

Ok here it is My husband has a son that just turned one today and we have a 4 month old and another one on the way. I love my husband but because of his stupid a$$ ex he has not seen his son since Jan. Well anyways his birthday party was this last Saturday and she went behind our backs and invited his whole family and is trying to be involoved with his family well ours since I am married to him.How should i feel about that? Shouldn't his family love and support me since I am the one that is married to him and the one that he loves? Also how should I feel since as soon as him and I broke up once before we got married and worked stuff out his ex called and asked to marry him and live with him and be with him. How do i know who he really loves and wants to be with? I do not want him to have contact with here since I know that this is going on and in our marriage vows it states that you forskae all others. Please help?

2007-05-03 12:08:48 · 8 answers · asked by kmylander03 2

I am 26 and was involved with a 34 year old man from Italy in a long-distance relationship. We met about two years ago and last summer began our relationship. We had been good friends up to that point and his mother and I have always been close (she introduced us).
I went to see him for New Year's and he proposed marriage. I was thrilled, believe me. Well, he gave me a ring and when I got back to the US, the stone fell out twice. He told me he spent 300 Euros on it; naturally, I was hysterical.
When I got to the jeweler, they refused to repair it. Why? Because it was only worth $20. I called him to tell him I knew the truth but the phone line cut. This was Feb. 8 and we have not spoken since-- he won't answer the phone.
I have spoken to his mom several times, even today. She said he said he thought I thought all he wanted me for was US citizenship-- NOT true. He also thought I got it appraised on purpose-- NOT true. She says "if they are flowers, they'll bloom." What do you think?

2007-05-03 11:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by Windflowers03 2

im married but due to the distance i know nothing physical could ever come of it!! i just see it as a bit of spice in my otherwise pretty dull life!

2007-05-03 11:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1

2007-05-03 11:16:05 · 17 answers · asked by stevenzepke 1

and I are doing a great deal better. As some of you know we have had a LOT of problems and you can just tell by most of the questions that I have asked. I want to thank everybody for their advice and concern. Things are for back of better words "just working". I told him on a day that we were getting along and not fighting so that he knew that I wasn't just saying it out of anger that I don't feel that he loves me anymore. When I told him that it really seemed to hit a nerve and things have improved not 100% but I would say about 70%. Most of you know that 100% perfect relationships just really don't exsist. I hope that some one out there reads this and it helps them too.
Thanks all!!

2007-05-03 10:48:20 · 9 answers · asked by GIRL 2

2007-05-03 10:42:46 · 27 answers · asked by Chicka B 2

I have the best husband I could ever ask for. He is sweet, sexy, gentle, honest, selfless, hilarious, and more. I'm just an average person who got a great catch, but how?

2007-05-03 10:42:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So many times in the past I want to forgive so that I can be free and move on with my life without this baggage....

2007-05-03 10:42:17 · 28 answers · asked by wiser 1 3

Just wondering about some ideas that I can use my bras that dont fit me anymore because i lost someweight and there still in decent shape and wondered if you girls or ladies have any sexual ideas i could use with my husband like maybe tie him up with or what not. Any Ideas?

2007-05-03 10:40:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

to my BF and he responded by saying that we argue alot and we need to work through that, because that brings up doubts in his mind on whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. Yes, I do bring up arguments mostly from the past and my insecurities. But do you think his answer was too cold or to not read into it as I usually do. Is he saying he is not sure I am the one???

2007-05-03 10:40:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anabelle26 1

I have this really hot boss, but I 'm married and he has a girl. I'm only looking to flirt not actually get in his pants. Is it ok to flirt (harmless flirting) with him?

2007-05-03 10:34:40 · 37 answers · asked by katagrin 1