s cheated on her ,lied to her , broke her and still she stays ..she pays all the bills ..for everyone ..even though he makes big money she never get any of it ...he go by himself back to vietnam for three months at a time ..leaving her to do it
he has a house and land there ..but its not for her or the kids ..its only for him ...now i ask you this ....why oh why doesn't she run like hell????
2007-05-03 15:11:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love is blind
2007-05-03 15:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by naenae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been wearing the same pair of shoes for so long that she's afraid if she takes them off she may hurt her feet. May be you should help her find a new pair of shoes. Most people don't realize they're mistreated untill someone else comes along and treats them like king/queen.
2007-05-03 22:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by moosies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably scared and doesn't feel like she has anywhere to go or anyone to help her. There is alot of help out there for single moms to move on with their lives. Help her gather some resources and make the first step. Good Luck!!
2007-05-03 22:16:31 · answer #3 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word...security. It's easier to stay with something familiar rather then risk the unknown. 19 years is a long time...I know. Until she's decided she's had enough she'll stay.
2007-05-03 22:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she is use to it all, and just to say to you, you may not know the whole story either. If things are really how you say, and there is no other side to the story, when her time comes and she is fed up, she will leave.
2007-05-03 22:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by miss voe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is the million dollar question and I've yet to become a millionaire...
2007-05-03 22:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she loves him and she has kids with him it is hard to leave a marriage .it's going to have to be up to her when and if she leaves .your job as a friend is to stand by her decision and support her
2007-05-03 22:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure,afraid of failing without someone to blame. she needs to relize she can do bad by herself if she ever took that first step she would find that she should have left his butt years ago
2007-05-03 22:17:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because shes scared she wont find anyone else, or the fact that she dosent know how to leave, or how to get out. but you should encourge her to leave, stuff
2007-05-03 22:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she loves him so much?. Or maybe she is too afraid to divorce?. There must reason for her. Do you ask her why?
2007-05-03 22:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by sun&moon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is probably scared. she is probably jsut trying to keep her family together and doing what she can. you dont have the right to criticize her for trying to do what so many have been unable to do.
2007-05-03 22:14:30 · answer #11 · answered by lacy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋