here what it said -Tom how are you?it was nice to see you again even if you gave me the cold shoulder.Sara is so big!sue-
ok now sara is his child from his 1st marrage(the one sue broke up)sue may or may not know of me and the email was sent to my bfs old email account that i use now(thats how i found it)now my fiance never told me he ran into her somewhere and the only reason i worry is they have quite a long past together.Does it sould like shes tryng to stir up old emotions?
2007-05-03 12:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by karenmoore768930030 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it might be that she was happy to seem him again but it also sounds like she is trying to stir things up again..so just as long as he is telling you the truth and you know everything is fine, i wouldnt worry about it
2007-05-03 12:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be hoping to get back with him. However, once she has time to think about it, she will realize that 1) he gave her the cold shoulder because he is not interested and 2) not answering the email is another form of giving her the cold shoulder. Hopefully she will have enough self pride to move on! Good luck.
2007-05-03 13:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Maiden Fair 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on the net and send her an email sighned from your fiance saying. Look...don't email me ever again. I gave you the cold shoulder wasn't that enough to tell you it wasn't nice for me that I ran into you? Well I have a beautifull fiance and we are getting married real soon and iv'e never loved anyone the way I love her. I found my soul mate and I have never been happier........so will you please not email me again I would appreciate that.......Tom
Honestly ....he probably didn't mention running into her because he could care less.....he is marring you so just let him be about it.....don't even mention it! Just srnd her this message and you probably won't be hearing from her anymore. Congradulations on your up coming marriage.....wishing you both a great life together.
2007-05-03 14:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, maybe she was bored? And maybe he didn't tell you b/c he thought that you would freak out or think that you shouldn't trust him (something you're kind of doing now). Waite a while and see what happens. Don't base your whole relationship on this one happening. And beside there probably wasn't even a discussion (by what she said he gave her the cold shoulder). so don't worry you got your man's heart.
2007-05-03 12:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by black queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is alway nice to see and old flame
but if he gave her the cold shoulder, like she said, u have nothing to worry, I guess
Now she did not broke his first marriage, HE let her in, think about that
2007-05-03 12:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like that at all. She is saying that he gave her the cold shoulder. so I really dont think you should worry all that much about. If they talked then she would not have sent the email like that..
2007-05-03 13:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You failed to acknowledge the single most important part of the e-mail. "even if you gave me the cold shoulder." He didn't tell you because he totally blew her off. It pissed her off and she more than likely sent the e-mail hoping you would find it. She knows about you. Bet on it! He didn't have anything to tell you about. Don't waste another minute worrying about her.
2007-05-03 16:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by trace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're mental, the email clearly stated he gave her the "cold shoulder" so why are you worried about him not telling you anything....he doesn't want to talk about it or about her.
You have a good man and are trying to turn nothing into something.
2007-05-03 14:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you could be on your way to being ex number 3;
here's what you do, reply to the email, and nicely say, hello Sue, I'm so and so, just thought you'd want to know this is no longer just Tom's email address, I'll tell him you said hi.
Then tell him.....and go from there....keep an eye on her
2007-05-03 12:58:28 · answer #9 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything was meant by it...and it also says that he gave her the cold shoulder..He probably wants nothing to do with her. so I wouldn't bring it up or think anything about it...good luck though...I don't think there is anything to worry about...obviously he is not hiding anything from you or he would have deleted the email for you not to see...
2007-05-03 13:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by queenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋