im married but due to the distance i know nothing physical could ever come of it!! i just see it as a bit of spice in my otherwise pretty dull life!
2007-05-03 11:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by b_t_e_b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah it's for sure wrong if you are married. it's an emotional affair, and that's just as bad as a physical one. you are cheating on your husband.
2007-05-03 11:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it's right or wrong isn't really the issue: what you should ask yourself is why you started the texting in the first place.
When you're married, it's exciting to get attention from the opposite sex (okay, it's always exciting whether your married or single). When it's just texting it seems like a bit of "safe danger." It then quickly becomes an escape from an imperfect but real relationship with your husband. Such an escape can lead to new feelings that develop for someone new and before you know it, you WANT to have an affair.
Whether you keep texting is up to you, but first of all ask yourself if you do it to compensate for something missing in your relationship, and if that's the case, see if you find it with your husband.
2007-05-03 19:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by dallas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married of course it is wrong!. Does your hubby know probably not because you know he would have a fit!.
Grow-up and realize you are no longer available to any other guy your taken. Join a gym or find a hobbie you should not be having conversation's with another man no matter what the distance really a plane flight would get him there in less then 30 minutes stop being so nieve.
2007-05-03 19:04:00 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter that it's not physical - you still see this communication as something romantic or sexual, and therefore it counts as infidelity. If you were just friends with this guy, and the texts were totally platonic and innocent, then that would be fine... but since you see it as "spice" then you know it you shouldn't be doing it.
Try sending the naughty texts to your husband instead, and spice up the relationship you already have.
2007-05-03 18:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's wrong. It will create a level of mistrust in your relationship that could ultimately ruin it. How would you feel if you knew your husband was texting some other woman the way you text this guy? If you wouldn't like it, why do you think it would be ok with him?
2007-05-03 18:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by e_imommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, yeah, it's wrong. It might not be physical cheating, but it sure sounds like emotional cheating.
2007-05-03 18:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by mainecathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not put all that effort into creating more spice with your husband instead??if things are bad, fix them rather than looking elsewhere for what is missing
2007-05-03 18:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there is anything wrong woth it if you never intend to act on it. texting or iming someone is no different than fantasizing about someone other than your spouse..and there is nothing wrong with fantasizing. the truth is...if you are asking this question, you yourself may think its wrong and you're looking for someone else to change your mind. the real way to decide if you think its wrong is to reverse it. would you like it if your spouse was doing it. if you wouldnt like it, then its wrong for you to do it.
2007-05-03 18:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by jets1962 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes its wrong a form of cheating.
2007-05-04 00:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
still cheating. Knock it off
2007-05-03 18:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by The Voice Of Reason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋