Marriage & Divorce - 3 May 2007

If two people are in love and truly love each other. But one was married, but had never loved their partner, should a divorce take place and the two in love be together?

2007-05-03 10:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by Monkey Dancer 2

2007-05-03 10:20:33 · 21 answers · asked by Robert J 2

i m depressed taken xanax and one night i saw them chating at 1 in z morning telling her that im sleeping and he can chat but she respond that she doesn't dear so i went into z conversation and told her that she have 2 be shame and go away . she send me an email telling me that there is nothing between her and my husband . but really i can not support her anymore . and my husband insist 2 keep a good relation with her and her husband . and me im dying more depressed .but he told me that he wanted 2 ask her about me cause i was unhappy and she good help me .but since 7 monthes im telling him u have 2 put a limit with u and her but nothing. now 4 summer we r planning 2 go 2 our country and i do not want 2 see her but my husband still very freindly with at least her husband .but really i cant see her i might kill her

2007-05-03 10:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by J 2

i'm 42 and don't have one...not sure I want one but keep options open. I'm doing things backwards....I'm making my fortune first so I don't have to worry about the money end.

2007-05-03 10:08:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend wants to relinquish her custodial rights to our newborn baby. Here is the catch..... She WILL VOLUNTARALY sign over her rights to me, only if i marry her. The reason for this whole thing is because "quote on quote".....IF.... someday we decide NOT to be together... or she dont like me.....or vice versa.....I myself and only myself will have the child in my possession without the RISKS of any court of law granting her full custody and making the "man" pay child support and stuff like that. Everyone knows that if you get "broken up"..."divorced"..."whatever"....THE WOMAN most always gets the kid!...........Well heres the question...... If she was to sign over ALL HER RIGHTS TO ME reguardless of her reasons, and then lets say 4 months down the road the both of us get MARRIED, can she ever try to get the kid back later on down the road? Thats like saying if i already had a kid then got married to someother girl, the new girl has nothing to do with me kid, Ya follow me?

2007-05-03 10:07:50 · 11 answers · asked by bvzhandson 1

the type which won't kill you, but will get another man who loves you, killed by another man who loves you, and who you love? Because I think posessive and obsessiveness is a part of love. Anyone who agrees? And if you love someone, how can you lewt them go to someone else so easily?

2007-05-03 10:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am getting married in aug and i was packing stuff in my fiance's room because were moving. I found a lot of old love notes and pics and things given to him by his ex. Do i haev the right to ask him to get ride of it since were getting married?

2007-05-03 10:01:09 · 15 answers · asked by Mommy to be of a little Boy! 2

She knows how I feel about her .Her boyfriend treats her like a maid . My marrage is very rocky I think my wife have a boyfriend but I'm not sure .HELP !!!!!

2007-05-03 09:51:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband told me today when I went home for lunch that he wants a divorce. His reason is b/c he says we argue all the time. (Which has been true in the past but far from true recently. Things have been better that ever... or so I thought, which is why I'm in shock.)
He is going to move back home to Wisconsin (I, personally, think he's a homesick mama's boy) and we have a 2 year old son. He got out of the army in March and is still unemployed.

Can him being unemployed help me during the custody trial? (If we are both good parents.)
I'm a good mom and have had my job for 8 years and make good money so there's no reason a judge would let him take him out of state, right?? That little boy is my world.

2007-05-03 09:49:38 · 45 answers · asked by Nina Lee 7

Would you have a long distance relationship with a 25 man whom still lived at home with his parents, works at a fitness gym as a personal trainer(for two years) but never has any money, but he's taken on a job as a drummer for a restaruant for extra money, hangs out on myspace all the time, has been at a junior college for four years and yet still isn't half way finished to getting his A.A. Degree.I know it's totally up too me and I know that, but I have a degree,and I have money, but I don't see us really balancing each other .what do you think

2007-05-03 09:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by Drea B 1

Without you? Why or why not?
thanks have a good one :)

2007-05-03 09:37:42 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous

No strings attached.
No jealousy.
No comitment.
No money or gifts.


Just the use of your body ?

2007-05-03 09:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

He and I are both married but he has no idea I exist.

2007-05-03 09:28:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a mistake about six months ago. I did not cheat on my wife, but I had not been conducting myself appropriately in the least. The bottom line is that I let my wife down and hurt her terribly. Never in my life have I wanted to make something up to someone so bad. She has mentioned the vows that we took when we married and how I disrespected them. I want her to know that my actions that caused this will never be repeated, that I love her dearly, and that our vows mean everything to me...I want another chance and a clean slate. How can I propose this to her in the most special way? I'm sick with guilt and feel absolutely awful and just want to make things right with her.

2007-05-03 09:27:06 · 22 answers · asked by BeatTheGib 2

married and has no idea I exist.I have seen him taking walks around the park.My question is if a woman disease free wanted to sleep with you.Would you do it?

Keep in mind ,I don't want any money or a relationship .I just want to see what he is like in bed? I have never done anything like this before.

How would you respond if a woman just came up o you and asked to sleep with you?

I am attractive but shy.I don't know how to even ask.

2007-05-03 09:25:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

So we started dating March 13, 2006, engaged on Dec 24, 2006 and moved in together along with our children (his and mine), but he won't commit to a date. There is always something, oh I don't want to put to much on the kids at one time, oh I want to make sure this is what you want (HELLO I WOULDN"T HAVE SAID YES), the most recent is I want to make sure you can deal with the situation with my ex (which is a whole other story, she is super manipulative and difficult to deal with)...what do I do?

2007-05-03 09:19:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-husband moved due to job reasons and left our child with his mother. She is turning 15 tomorrow. I went to stay with her and could not adjust because I was staying in my ex-husband's house and my mother-in-law was interfering.

Well, now my ex-husband has accused me of taking things from his house even though I did not.

He is also telling me to come back and stay in his house until our daughter graduates from high school. He has had several offers on the home, but has not accepted them.

He is very worried about our child as I am. His mother is halfheartedly doing things for the child.

I am getting dragged into a situation that I know is not healthy or good for me. Yet, I feel tempted because I don't have much going for me in my life now.

I basically go to work and attend a divorce recovery group once per week and do errands and work out on the weekends.

Any suggestions to not pulled back?

2007-05-03 09:19:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

My husband and I have been together for 6 years married for 2. I just found out he took a woman on a cruise and cheated on me. He has admitted this, and also said it wasn't the first time. He is crying and telling me he wants to work it out. I WANT REVENGE!!! What is the best way to do it?

2007-05-03 09:12:29 · 26 answers · asked by ulovlee@sbcglobal.net 2

My sister in law and mother in law are the jealous type so they dont like it my husband pays more attention to me or if we dont include them in everything :( but he wont tolerate if i complain to him about them so what do i do to stop them troubling us and getting between us

2007-05-03 09:11:10 · 15 answers · asked by Sagittarious 1

If I finally catch my husband with this other woman he claims he only called "twice and nothing happened", does Ca honor the at fault rules.
I came from nothing, statred on welfare and within 7 years was earning over 40k annually, and bought a nice house for my family, while my husband was on "workers comp" and only making $450.00 so he did not contribute anything to the purchas eof our house. Being that I did all of this in good faith that my husband would neer cheat on me, shouldn't I be able to keep all assets and profit from the sale of the house. If I have proof for the judge, I mean.

2007-05-03 09:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Confusious 1

the church my dad attends turned a guy away cuz him and his wife was getting a divorce and he did not want to get back w/ her. i know the bible teaches that you should not divorce but should the church judge him and tell him he cant come into the house of god?

2007-05-03 09:04:08 · 16 answers · asked by thehendersons_3 2

2007-05-03 08:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by Looking for the REAL answer! 3

I sometimes get lonely for a wife and kids but most the time I just look at all the miserable couples with kids out there. Yes, there are exceptions but most couples with kids are too busy to sit back and enjoy life........for now I am staying single.....i'm 40ish, never married and no kids and loving it. How bout you?

2007-05-03 08:42:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does she keep on emailing my mom?
I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 5 years about 6 months ago. Immediately, she "reconnected" with an old friend and they were married 3 months later. So she is now married 3 months. it was a bad breakup, lot of emotions, crying, etc. I am still in love with this woman and sadly she never gave us a chance to work this work and realize that "you dont know what you have until its gone." I feel sick that I have lost her, it is too hard to describe the pain.

However, since then she has been constantly emailed my mom, she SAYS that she is happy, but that she suffers for me, as she knows I am upset. She said she cries as well for me, bcs. she feels bad that I am sad. Also said "you cannot understand how bad I feel for all of this." Actually, she even writes, trying to justify why she married this other guy, "why did he do this to me."
Why does she email SOOOOO much? Is it just guilt? Does she miss me? Should I do anything? I love herLadies help!!

2007-05-03 08:32:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I noticed quite a lot of women do it.

2007-05-03 08:28:03 · 24 answers · asked by dothejitt3rbug 2

He has moved to be with her permanently. My husband left me in the same time frame. I'm not whining it's just my head is spinning from the shock. I've heard of empty nest but what the h...

2007-05-03 08:26:04 · 23 answers · asked by donnelly_1925 1

I make killer money, own a killer home, have a killer stock portfolio, drive 2 killer motorcycles and 1 killer truck but am empty and pissed most of the time. Whats missing?

2007-05-03 08:16:27 · 24 answers · asked by helloitsme1964 1

i knwo everybocy has a worse day. what is yours??

2007-05-03 08:11:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have already filed a case and it is open but they need his social. i don't have it. what else is crazy he is in the system in many ways so its not like they can't get it.

2007-05-03 08:10:28 · 21 answers · asked by JESSIE G 1

2007-05-03 08:08:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous