Without you? Why or why not?
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2007-05-03 09:37:42 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I honestly let my man go to strip clubs. I have no problem with it as long as we trust each other. I really don't know why but it doesn't bother me one bit. That's just something most men are going to do whether you give your approval or not and I don't think its nothing to make a big issue about. I personally don't go to stripclubs because I think they're gross. I'm not turned on by a nice sexy man in a "thong"! But like I said, it doesn't bother me and its not like he addicted to stripclubs. Now if he went everyday, that would be an issue, but every once in a while, I don't care at all.
2007-05-03 09:58:17 · answer #1 · answered by Slimliness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strip club-no way! What would be the reason he would need to go to a strip club by himself? Now a bar...it depends. I have no problem with my Fiance going out with his friends once in a while. He even will go by himself once in a blue moon if we are arguing really badly, he'll go to get away. I have full trust in him that he wouldn't cheat on me so if you have complete trust in your man then let him be.
2007-05-03 09:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know--my husband will go to strip clubs every once in awhile if a friend is getting married and that is a part of the bachelors party. It just doesn't bother me, probably because he tells me about going, the girls are dancing to make money, the men act like idiots when they are there. So its an escape for them, that's not going to disrupt my life or ruin my marriage... & we have been married for a LONG time!
2007-05-03 10:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by quilt-babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping your man on a leash is a sure fire way to damage your relationship. I would never tell him where he can and can't go. I'm a live and let live type of person. I feel like people need to maintain some individuality when they're in a relationship. Everyone needs a little down time with their friends without restrictions.
2007-05-03 09:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gilligan: I go to strip clubs a few times during the year...My girl likes going to strip clubs herself...It's okay to have a little excitement and entertainment...there's nothing wrong with that...
Violette: Strip clubs are fun to go to...it's a place where men can be free and do what they want...We go out to do our nails and the salon..they go to strip clubs and drink...
Gilligan: at both places you give tips to the worker
Violette: Never thought of it that way
2007-05-03 09:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by ewllita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No . I am in the business, you have alot to worry about on what goes on there. He should spend the money on you and not another woman. I can't stand the fact that so many people are married when they propostion a female within a heartbeat and not to mention they use there company info. for a tax write off. It's time women stand up for what they believe, don't trust your husband to go there . If a man truly loves somebody then they'll pay attention to what they have at home and spend the money on thier children's education. This is the truth. I am making my boyfriend prove himself to me, with a polygrapher. It's different when a guy is single and not married though.
2007-05-03 09:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by mindy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll give another male sided answer....
I don't need to go to a strip club...My girlfriend has brains, beauty and sex appeal and a smile that could make a man feel like he went to heaven.
Why go see a stranger dance naked when I could spend that time ill never get back holding a woman who would make any stripper look like Rosanne Bar...and holds my heart in her hands on top of it?
2007-05-03 09:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Shaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with it. I trust my man totally and really, no one should have a problem with it either. It's not like he's going out to pick up other girls. If he wants to go out to a strip bar, let him.
2007-05-03 09:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Proud mommy of 2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think its an issue as long an nothing happens there. Also how much money is spent. Both should be able to go and enjoy the show but as long as nothing else but watching happens then whats the problem? If you do not want him to go you should strip for him.
2007-05-03 09:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I trust the men I date, and the second I don't I dump 'em. I have been to the strip club before with my man, it is entertaining. He used to love it, it turned him on more with me there with him than if he went by himself.
One thing that made it even more okay, was that it was a very rare occurence and usually only for special occasions!
2007-05-03 09:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋