I make killer money, own a killer home, have a killer stock portfolio, drive 2 killer motorcycles and 1 killer truck but am empty and pissed most of the time. Whats missing?
2007-05-03
08:16:27
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helloitsme1964
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have given up on Love.....nothing but heartbreak.,.......friends are all married and out of my life. I work alone and live alone.
2007-05-03
08:22:49 ·
update #1
there is a reason I am saying killer....i have basically given up and the riches and spoils are killing me.....yeah, I know....poor me. right?
2007-05-03
08:29:58 ·
update #2
THINGS do not bring contentment. As you may realize, you merely keep mounting up on the killer items. GIVE of
yourself to someone or something. You need some satisfaction in your life.........Not $ &/or THINGS. What are your interests? How are you able to help someone?
2007-05-03 08:27:41
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answered by iyamacog 7
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Maybe love? Respect for others? It sounds as if you put far too much stock in "things". Material things are GREAT, but you need a healthy balance. Try riding that killer motorcycle out in the country for a day. Stop and stomp barefoot in a creek. Skip rocks in a pond. Smell a flower. Stand at the fence of a cow pasture and "moo" at the cows to see if they will talk back to you. Watch a sunset. Eat a PB&J sandwich while sitting on a log somewhere. Just breathe. Take in some slow, easy joy and feel happy for no particular reason. Give it a try, it can't hurt. Cheers to you.
2007-05-03 15:23:54
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answered by Sabrina 6
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A killer woman like myself to make your life whole again!!
No, really, you're thinking that these materials are supposed to be a filler for all of that empty space in your heart and mind. Guess what? It will never happen. You'll go to the ground without any of it, so give it up already. Who cares how you look to others? Does that mean a damn to you? On the outside of course, but on the inside--it probably doesn't mean jack-squat, now does it? You will continue to get old and eventually old and gray....and none of that will be important to you anymore. Quit trying so hard to compensate for the empty soul. Sounds like you need to take a killer spiritual journey to some kick-a** killer country and do some killer soul-searching, my friend, right on then, killer. Peace. ;)
2007-05-03 15:26:17
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answered by Virgo 4
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*Is there a reason you emphasized the word "killer" so much, or is that just the way you talk?
.Anyways that's beside the point, when I first started reading what you wrote, you came off arrogant and cocky.
.I never find it appealing when anyone boasts about their materials...it's really unattractive.
.Hmm...I don't know, but if this is a serious question...which I'm still debating on.
.I would say it sounds like the old saying is right afterall..."money doesn't buy happiness."
.It seems to me that you use materials to make up for what you lack. Whether it's your personality, or in the bedroom...maybe?.
*Hmm..I don't know maybe you're unhappy because your relationships always seem to fail, and the materials just don't seem to fill the gap where a girl should be?
.Sounds like you have all the material parts covered, now if you'd find a girl who isn't as shallow as a puddle to like you for who you are and not what you have...things could work out for you.
**Anyways you get back what you put out to the world...or what goes around comes around. So if you are going to have a negative outlook on your life, and you are obviously taking what you currently have for granted...then you are going to get negative feedback in general and from other people.
~be positive...and things will start to look up.~
&quit trying to impress people with materials....it's so overrated.
2007-05-03 15:26:52
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answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5
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I agree with most of the other answers...I think you might have a lot of nice, expensive things but you are feeling the void and emptiness of true love and true friendship.
These are the wonderful treasures that make us happy, and they cannot be bought.
I guess what I'm saying is this...You realize you have an issue, and you can work at it if you want it badly enough.
People do different things in order to obtain peace and happiness...You could try therapy or counseling; you could get closer to God; you could try to be closer to your family or friends...You know what you are feeling, and all I can say is I hope you do something soon because life is very short...and we all regret wasting time. Time is more valuable than money because it cannot be replaced!
Good luck to you....
2007-05-03 15:56:40
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answered by Nena S 6
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For one thing stop using the word Killer ! For another, consider the fact the being pissed OFF at the world is a whole lot better than being pissed ON by it. Learn to appreciate and be grateful for the things you have.
2007-05-03 15:26:10
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answered by worldhq101 4
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Firstly, stop saying killer when describing what you own, it's sounds cheesy and immature. And what exactly do you have to be pissed about, you have a great job, own lots of nice things and are financially secure. Heartbreak happens to everyone, get over it, cheer up and find a nice girl, and try not to say killer when discussing your posessions...
Remember, cheesy and immature...
2007-05-03 15:26:52
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answered by Innisfil g 3
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The LORD and a purpose. Look at humanity and learn to LOVE others.Think of the good you could do to make the lives of others better.Talk to a pastor sometime ( the united pentecostal church is great). GOD has purpose for your life, even if you were dirt poor you can help other people by showing them what they really need, and thats a relationship with the LORD.
2007-05-03 15:24:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop and smell the flowers damnit. You just described materialist things that mean nothing if you really get down to it. Have you ever really known love? No love can match the love of a CHILD (not a man or woman) but thelove you have for a child is the best and biggest love ever. Hell for all I know you just need a good drink or a good willy dipping. Happiness needs to come from the inside not from your purchases.
2007-05-03 15:22:40
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answered by Mean Carleen 7
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It is true that money can't buy happiness. The only thing that matters in life is love. Don't you have people in your life who bring you happiness and who you bring happiness to? Go out and volunteer for the handicapped, elderly, poor, or be a mentor (big brother) for a kid with no Dad. Love is missing. You've lost touch with your own spirituality. Find it!
2007-05-03 15:21:45
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answered by StrawberryShortcake 2
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