the type which won't kill you, but will get another man who loves you, killed by another man who loves you, and who you love? Because I think posessive and obsessiveness is a part of love. Anyone who agrees? And if you love someone, how can you lewt them go to someone else so easily?
2007-05-03 10:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have a boyfriend, and also, i'm thinking that you can't love someone and let them go so easily or it wasn't love. You want their happiness. I used to believe if you love someone and they would be happy with someone else, then you should let them go. Now I have a view that people who say this do not understand love. Love is a contradiction. It's powerful. It's not thought out as a feeling, it is more powerful than common sense.
To the person who says my grammer is messed up: I agree, it is. I was writing the question in a hurry.
2007-05-03 10:34:44 · update #1
Easy, if you truely love someone, then you have to be willing to sacrifice your feelings for them. If they are happier with someone else, then you must let them go, or you cannot say that you truely love that person. If you did you would want them to be happy, even if its not with you. Understand?
2007-05-03 10:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by syns_pleasure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obsession is a part of LUST. In love you have desire,commitment, respect, honesty, faithfulness. Yes you are very attracted to the one you are with but really obsession is a word to describe a abnormal relationship and is even used to describe stalkers. If you love someone that is one thing but if they do not love you the same way then you might as well be trying to start car without an engine it won't work. People are not posessions either they are human beings and most people who think this way are controlling idiots. You grammer is messed up but hopefully this answers your question.
2007-05-03 10:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa stop stop stop...
if it's destructive...and it tears apart your life, then no...its not a part of love. Love only makes what you have better...it doesn't create personal happiness from despair...it enhances it from the happpiness you already have. If it seems to be effecting your life in a bad way it isn't love its obsession with a person or romantic infatuation.
have a bit of time without a partner and have a good long think about why you're behaving like this, because you will suffer more than anybody if you allow yourself to keep repeating this behaviour pattern.
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2007-05-03 23:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
perchance that is extra of a lack of popularity. is going contained in the military the only thanks to fulfill your dream? How about operating as a civilian at a base or in a VA health facility. or perchance arise with a sparkling dream? if you're satisfied in what your doing, obsession or not, there is not something incorrect with it. Your deep emotions might want to stay with you for existence. in the experience that they don't seem hurting then you dont worry about it, merely keep doing what you adore.
2016-12-05 07:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by woomer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it can get out of hand really quick and obsession and jelousy is a diffrent thing jealsouy is a part in every relasonship but it can also get out of hand everyone gets jealous time to time but if some on want to kill someone over you the guy has major issues and most likely will become possesive and maybe abusive. is your boyfriend like this?
2007-05-03 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO obsessiveness and possessiveness are not apart of love. If you lose someone and its meant to be then it will happen. You can't force love you can end up pushing the other person away.
2007-05-03 23:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by Stacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm..no. i don't agree. Letting someone go when they want to leave is part of maturity. Possessiveness and obsession are part of immaturity. Love is best left to people that are responsible enough to handle it.
2007-05-03 10:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is part of love the crazy part some people have it some people dont and if you love someone it is never easy to let them go to someone else never and yeah it is normal to cause anger in you but to kill someone that is crazy because that could get you in alot of trouble and nobody is worth risking the fate of your life because no a days you would get caught and go to jail so if you are thinking about it dont its not worth it
2007-05-03 10:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
obsession is not love,it,s a mental state of mind,posessiveness,is owning someone or something,there is not a normal partnership that has these ingreidients,a bit of light jealousy however, as some of us may say will keep your partener on their toes,
2007-05-07 09:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by paul49177 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obsession is just love but exceeding the top limit
2007-05-03 10:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋