No strings attached.
No jealousy.
No comitment.
No money or gifts.
Just the use of your body ?
2007-05-03 09:32:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I beleive that just about any married guy who still has a sex drive would be lying to themselves if they said outright that they would not even be tempted! If the situation like that was presented, with most of the negatives eliminated, most guys would jump at the chance. It is the way that men are wired physically. Only the rules established by society have imposed restrictions on men and women, whose genetics contain sexual needs and desires that date back to the caveman, for the survival of the species. It is actually harder for a man to say no, then to say yes in a situation like what you described. If only those chances would come around more often! ;)
2007-05-03 10:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by steveheremd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, with both of you being married - I'd think it would be for the simple thrill of it all. I may consider it - but I'm a married woman, not a man. But, I would prob cheat with a married man---I'm just kidding ......but if I 'thought' about cheating I may, 'think' that he'd be a married man......then there would be less strings, you know? Like going on a roller coaster ride and then going home from the park, right? lol but this is all just hypothetical boredom talking, I mean, I would just totally NOT cheat - I would be way too scared of someone finding out. Like anybody. Not just my husband. Like anyone. So, anyway, there you have it.
2007-05-03 16:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. If there was no way anyone else would find out, I'd consider it.
I didn't have a ton of sexual encounters before I was married and sometimes feel like I missed out on some experiences. Now that we have kids, we have sex less than before.
I wouldn't go out looking to cheat, but if the situation presented itself where nobody could find out, I would consider.
2007-05-03 16:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Gallo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is hypothetical, I probably would consider it!
The problem is the strings always seem to get tied up and twisted up!
2007-05-03 16:35:24 · answer #4 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that simple. There has to be a reason, or a rationalization in his mind to take that drastic step. This isn't something you decide to do like "I think I'll have a beer..." We may be pigs, but we're not robots.
2007-05-03 19:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THINK ABOUT IT THIS WAY
get married and don,t get any physical attention or sex from the wife for three years straight and the answer becomes obvious
YES,YES,YES,YES,YES,
2007-05-04 01:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by letsfoolaroundsomemore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go looking but if she tempted enough it is hard to turn down unless something is wrong with her or one of your spouses are over posessive.
2007-05-03 16:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other thread too. I'll just re-iterate ...
I don't know if I'd ever cheat on my wife or not. But if I did, I'd much prefer with someone like you then with someone single.
2007-05-03 16:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Those things listed can never be promised and kept. Someone always get's hurt.
2007-05-03 17:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sure anyman would want a raggedy woman thats been around the block more than the trash man
2007-05-03 16:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Jenny F 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋