Married men only ,please.I am married with two children .I am shy but I want to sleep with a man who is?

Question

married and has no idea I exist.I have seen him taking walks around the park.My question is if a woman disease free wanted to sleep with you.Would you do it?

Keep in mind ,I don't want any money or a relationship .I just want to see what he is like in bed? I have never done anything like this before.

How would you respond if a woman just came up o you and asked to sleep with you?

I am attractive but shy.I don't know how to even ask.

Answer 1

I've never cheated on my wife. I haven't considered it in a general sense, but have considered under what circumstances I'd consider it.

I guess I'll just say I see three possibilities:

1) he says yes. Most likely if he's allready cheated before.

2) he says no. Somewhat likely if he's never cheated.

3) he says he needs to think about it. Or he says no, but asks for your number. You've been thinking about it, he hasn't. Maybe he's not happy. Maybe he is interested. But he may need a while to decide whether to go through with it or not.

Whatever he answers, don't take it personally if he says no. Its not a slight on you. Whether or not he takes up the offer of no-strings sex will primarily relate to his own relationship, and very little to how attractive he finds you.

My suggestion would be to just pretty much bring it up, recognizing he might not have an answer. If you wanted to dig first, you could comment on how attractive he is, how lucky his wife is, how they must have great sex all the time. Try to read him. If he's a habitual cheater, he might just take it from there. But if he's just an unhappy guy, and you push things, I suspect he'll find it hard to hide his bitterness about his current sex life. At that point, you could express what a shame it is, and then make your offer.

Incidentally, I understand completely why you'd want it to be a married man. You're married, and intend to stay that way. You're looking for someone else who is also in the same position, who'd want the same things, and nothing else.

Answer 2

Ist. married man A is giving you the usual BS that married men give girlfriends. Sex for pretense for themselves and "others". What others?. Does he go to work and say "we had sex last night?" Also "together for the kid"s is just another line men use to make you feel important and that you have a chance at a future together. 2nd. married man B would not ask you if you were sleeping with married man A if he didn't have a reason to ask. 3rd. Men are just like grown up boys in the locker room. They love to talk about their conquests and both A and B might just be having a good laugh at you since they both know they are both having sex with you. Its kinda a challenge with boys/men. I did it and the other one says so did I. Sorry. 4. You are in a bad position at work and also in your personal life. At 23 you need to grow up and act like an adult and take care of your child and your job. You haven't been with this company long enough to establish anything except a bad reputation. Time to end both relationships and look for a new job. This sounds exactly like where my BF (52) works. The guys all compete to see if they can sleep with the young girls and brag about their conquests and the young girls think it is them they are interested in. He works with my 26 year old daughter and hears all the same story as you just told. Unfortunately my daughter is one of the "conquests". She has this idea that she will get better work if she does this. When he walks in the back office the conversations will change but he still hears the stories about my daughter.

Answer 3

You are traveling in dangerous territory and it is probably more stimulating than the relationship you are in.Isn't there some thing you can do to wake that fathead hubby of yours up???He probably needs you more than you think and has no idea that you are so bored.He needs an imagination, stimulation and kick in the *** to get all that going.The best deal maker is "tit-for tat" and I don't mean that improperly.Just set up a vacation for the 2 of you and do it.
There are all kinds of "good in bed"and each person likes one or another.If you are already married everything you do will have 2 people involved..that means if you are out doing it with someone else, sooner or later your hubby will be involved.You will turn on him, he will find out, you'll get bored with him,you'll get an imfection...something.Don't make some dumb move you'll regret.

Answer 4

Just work on the talking to him. After you get that done ask him to stop by or go home with you to look at something that needs fixed. Just like talking to women tell him the things that you wish you were told more often. for example after talking the first time tell him that he would look great in some tight jeans or what ever you prefer to look at a man in. Next time if not the courage to ask let him know that those pants that he would look good in would look better next to your bed. You will get there just start talking. Instead of something being broke just ask him over for a cold drink.

Answer 5

Last time I checked, this was a question site, not a pass judgment on others site. Shame on all of you who have called this person names and judged them. They are not you and you are more than entitled to your feelings, beliefs, and convictions, but do not pass judgment on someone you have never met just because you don't agree with them. This person asked for advice, if you have nothing to say but name calling, please refrain.

Now, as for your question, the first place you have to look is within, see why you are having these feelings, is there a problem within your own relationship you need to deal with first, and second could you live with your feelings after if you were to go through with it. Honestly answer these questions first then see how you feel before you approach him.
Good luck

Answer 6

i am not a man but i know how to solve questions like this i have recieved every BEST ANSWER for answering these kind of questions. So lets get started so if you know your attractive then just wear some revealing clothes and when you see him taking a walk then walk near him and say hey nice day right then just make up something and say there are mice in my house can you make them go away and when he comes over there act sexy and flirtatious and then take him to the bedroom and just pretend you fall on the bed with him and lock the door and etc,. good luck

Answer 7

Sounds more like a fantasy than a situation. Just because he's there doesn't mean he's looking. It takes more than just being clean to stray. Personally, a question like that would make my day, but I'd still want to get to know her first. A guy that says "sure, let's go" probably has a little surprise for you.

Answer 8

Wow! I saw you in the park but I wasn't sure you really noticed me. I thought you looked shy and I too am quiet in public. If you really want to get together, stop me next time and ask me this coded question ... "Would you please come home with me and bang me silly?" I will recognize the code and we can act all innocent as I follow you to your house, undress you and make a real woman out of you! See you at the park! Have a great day!

Answer 9

No such thing as a shy whore......that's what you are if your married and so is he. What makes you want to ruin the life of the one person that loves you more than anything and also ruin the life of some inocent woman that you don't even know? Not to mention if kids are involved, you would be ruining their life too. Makes you one selfish whore.

Answer 10

I would wonder if the woman had any self respect and how many other men she's done this with.I'm married and have been approached many times,but I have enough respect for my wife to not do anything like that.Stop and think about if you was his wife and there was another woman doing that to your husband,how would you feel?