She knows how I feel about her .Her boyfriend treats her like a maid . My marrage is very rocky I think my wife have a boyfriend but I'm not sure .HELP !!!!!
2007-05-03 09:51:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What do you need help with? What is the question?
Surely you know that looking for others when you are married is wrong. If you are having issues with your wife, work with your wife on that. Don't be checking out this girl you work with, at least not until you are single.
2007-05-03 09:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You should never start a new relationship w/someone else while you're still in the old one.1st.,end the old r'ship. it can only cause problems in the new one if you don't.then you'll be w/out both. w/out the old one hanging over your head,you'll know the new r'ship is right for you & not just a way out.Whether your wife is cheating or not,if you're not happy w/her, get out.Otherwise you'll spend years(wasted,precious time)on what could have been.Life is so short,it's a crime! Do yourself & that girl a favor,don't get involved until you've made some progress towards a divorce.That means separate.You can find a nice affordable place to call your 'stress free zone'. Divorce is alot easier to get now-a-days.Alot of states have no-fault divorce laws.Which means you don't have to have any particular reason for wanting it.You just want out plain & simple. Act like a man & do it right.Even if your wife is seeing someone else, 2 wrongs don't make a right. If you do act responsible & go about it in the right way,you'll land on your feet no matter who you end up with. And you'll get your Do-Over.good-luck.
2007-05-03 17:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even if your marriage is rocky it gives you no reason to be looking or contemplating something with another lady. Your married it is wrong if you do not have feelings for your wife
and do not care for her anymore if you having these feelings then let her go. If you have already thought about cheating on your wife then you have feelings that this marriage is dead already. I do not support divorce but I think you should not cheat on anyone, let the person go before so you are not hurting there feelings by not being able to keep it in your pants.
Get some counselling and therapy it appears to me that you have a problem with sex and are making excuses!
2007-05-03 17:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The time, money and effort that you would invest in developing a relationship with this new girl would be better used to improve the one you already have with your wife.
All relationships take work. Do not attempt to move on simply because you have found someone attractive to admire. Be a man! Stand up to your responsibilities!
2007-05-03 17:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by LovablyMe 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to honor the commitment you made to your wife. Confirm that she is messing around on you - suspicion is not good enough. If she is having an affair and you do not wish to continue your marriage, then get divorced and pursue this woman you are speaking of. Until then, stay out of her pants!!!
P.S. It's probably not such a good idea to strike up a relationship with your co-worker.
2007-05-03 17:01:59 · answer #5 · answered by higherlovetx 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why the hell don't you spend some time worrying about the wife you have instead of making up excuses about her so you can screw around on her! You'll probably work with a lot of attractive girls! That means you can ditch them for whatever made up excuse your little peabrain can come up with in the future. God, I hope your wife does find someone mature enough for her. You are a complete idiot!
2007-05-03 17:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by ann m 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Fix yourself man. Don't cheat. Deal with your problems and get out of your marriage if you want. If your wife is cheating let the nasty hoe! Be better than that be free and clear when you meet someone new so you can give them what they deserve.
2007-05-03 17:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by db14 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just divorce her so you wont have much of a choice not! really,dont go there, if u are not feeling the relationship let her know and try to work things out. Remember your vows. You don;t even know if she is seeing someone else. Even if she is, two wrongs do not make a right. It' snot worth it. Stay strong
2007-05-03 16:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
solve the issues with your wife. We are all tempted by the fruit of others, but sometimes you take a bite of that fruit and it is so rotted that you have to spit it out. But then you have already been injected with its poison and there is no turning back to the one who is still clean.
2007-05-03 16:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by Virgo 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Don't even go there, look to the bible for the answers. I have been there on both sides and you are married that is the bottom line, put all you have into your marriage, if she leaves you so be it. But you need to come out knowing you did everything you could, and I mean everything or you will always have the "what if", the "I should have",
2007-05-03 16:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by buttaflyladee 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋