He has moved to be with her permanently. My husband left me in the same time frame. I'm not whining it's just my head is spinning from the shock. I've heard of empty nest but what the h...
2007-05-03 08:26:04 · 23 answers · asked by donnelly_1925 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can, make arrangements to be near your son, his gf and your new grandchild. Once you meet that baby, it will be everything to you...your son may not realize it, but he is going to need you more than ever once the baby is here. This child might be a blessing in disguise since you mentioned your husband just left - it will help you heal by bringing so much joy into your life...plus who knows? If you relocate, you just might meet another man!
Good luck and congratulations!!!
2007-05-03 08:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by higherlovetx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should have raised your 30 year old son not to knock up 17 year old children. Your son is no victim. He chose to have sex with a minor. As such, you're really not in a place to be so judgmental of the girl and her family. And if he did not want to get the girl pregnant- then he should have worn a condom. This girl is perfectly reasonable to want your son to marry her and take responsibility for his actions. As it is...you have nothing posted here that says you can take her baby away and terminate her parental rights. Your son can expect to pay child support for the next 18 years and the baby momma will be an terminate fixture in his life since they have a child together. In the mean time, read your post again troll and consider who really is "trashy" here.
2016-05-19 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least he's not running from his responsibilities, for that you should be proud of your son. You know that eventually he will be back some time or another.....be prepared--you may eventually move 3 people into your house.....I'd say (I know it's hard because you are alone and hurting) but take this time to start living your life for : YOU!!!!!!! You may find out that in 6 mos you're the happiest you've ever been in years! Don't give up. Everything happens for a reason and I know you know this.
2007-05-03 08:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Virgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be the best thing for you youre Husband leaving you.At least its over with and you can start again. He might have been cheating on you all the time on the sly and now it is in the open youre probably better off and you can sue him for divorce and get plenty of money out of him. As for youre Son he has Accepted his responsibilities , he is going to leave eventually anyway except it is sooner than you expected.Such is Life nothing is forever. I am very sorry for youre Loss .Good Luck.
2007-05-03 08:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by janus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear,
I totally get that your head must be spinning. Mine would be too. Obviously things have gotten a little out of hand in your world.
Listen, whatever happens around you, happens. It is not your fault. You don't have to take responsibility for it. The only one you are responsible for is you, your health and your well being. Make sure you take good care of yourself and then just surrender. Always remember that your Maker has you in the palm of His hand and that He won't burden you with anything you can't deal with. But take care, okay, take care of YOU.
2007-05-03 08:52:06 · answer #5 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he got a girl pregnant from 900 miles away? Somebody stop me, am I the only one with all these things racing through my head?
2007-05-03 12:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you are a signal women once, what's the bad in that again,
Think about it like this... Your son is a responsible young men and you have taught him will he got a girl pregnant and he will not be a dead bet father like some man out here.. so good for him.
Your husband left you... OK so move on you have to be good looking anyway so you know you can get good man like fish to water so get dressed up buy that dress and those heals that you wanted and grab a few of your girl-friends and go out and enjoy your self...
2007-05-03 08:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by smiles 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wow- I dont even know if I can see where your getting your strength from... Id be pissed!! Especially if my son got someone pregnant on spring break!! I would be more upset about that than the husband leaving- you can always get another one of those, but your son... wow...
2007-05-03 08:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this is happening to you...WOW! I'd be a total wreck...!
Please take care of yourself now. Try to eat and sleep enough, and look for therapy or have friends you can talk to.
A lot is going on right now and you have to try to focus on yourself...If you don't , you might become depressed and that is a terrible place to be in!
You will be in my prayers.....
2007-05-03 08:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur son needs to face responsibility and care for that woman he inpregnanted and baby on the way...he needs to get a job...u have to face things alone now . i know it is hard cuz i was married and divorced at one time n it is stressful, but it can be done. maybe therapy would help . i had to have therapy also.
2007-05-03 08:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by NEWPORT BEACH GIRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋