If you were cheated on and you ran into the homewrecker at a store or somewhere; what would you say to her?

Answer 1

If she participated in the affair, knowing that we were married, then I'd tell her just what I think of her. I wouldn't behave in a way that demeans me, but I'd say what I need to "get off my chest," in pursuit of resolution, and to release that poison from my system and leave "her part" just where it belongs, with her!

We must each be accountable for our choices and actions. When someone violates a person in that way, it isn't just about that incident. The shock and sense of betrayal colors many other aspects of our lives. It is no less than THEFT. If we have public accountability for stealing a person's car, why shouldn't there be the same for stealing one's committed relationship?

On the other hand, if the other woman didn't know my spouse was married, I'd say to her that I don't blame her, that we were both betrayed, but that I would appreciate it if she'd stay away from my spouse. enuff said

Answer 2

Don't say or do anything that could cause you legal trouble. ?These days people sue for just about anything. Work on your marriage. If he has stopped the relationship with the "adulturing HUSSY" Try to find it in your heart to forgive him. Make sure she doesn't have a hint of pain coming from you. And look confident. Because you are confident, even if the marriage is over, maintain your sanity and get some counseling if it will help. Talk to an older person, that will keep your business in confidence. Cry, let it out. Start a new hobby, spend time with your husband like you did in the beginning, if your both willing to work it out. Go out on dates. Take walks, write love letters to each other. Cook dinner, feel pretty, look pretty. Take a class, build yourself up. This WILL happen to the adultureous woman, in time, she will know how it feels some day. But forgive her too! He may have lied to her. sorry you had to go through this.

Answer 3

In my case, the "homewrecker" was supposedly my "best friend". Sadly enough, I found out too late that my husband and I had been played off of each other for a long time by her. After he left, her love for our children also disappeared once she had him under her control. But, no matter what she did, he made the choice to have the affair, walk out, and listen to her. I have nothing to say to either one of them. I hold both of them accountable for being as low, mean, vindictive and as nasty as they were and continue to be to this day. I have seen her, and I ignore her as though she does not exist, because in my world, she doesn't exist. The first 2 years it was hard to do that and feel that, but with time and healing on my part, it is now a breeze. My son and I went to the grocery store where she was shopping with her son. My son and I walked by and as we did, we both spoke to her son because we like him and care about him. She turned around and as she did, my son and I walked right by her as we said goodbye to her son. It felt wonderful.I held my head up high, acknowledged her child, and continued on happy with my son to the other side of the store. Saying nothing to her, not acknowledging her and maintaining your self-respect, dignity and good nature, is by far the best thing to do as far as I am concerned. she was left hanging wondering what I thought and felt. She will never know. I think that is the best revenge or whatever that I can meet out to her.

Answer 4

She's not the homewrecker. Married people wreck their own homes by not dealing with problems.

I'd say nothing. What's the point? She didn't cheat on you. Your ex husband did.

Answer 5

Its not the homewreckers fault. Its the homewreckee that did the wrecking. No need to be angry with that person.

Answer 6

I was cheated on. And if I ran into that ugly, moraless slut I would ask her if she had always looked that way or had she been washing dishes with her face for the past decade.

Answer 7

well as a dude i actually had this happen.

i had been dating this girl for about 6 months. then i find out she had been cheating on me and having sex with this dude.
i broke up with her. i never made a big deal about it untill he came into the restraunt that i used to wait tables at. bare in mind he never knew who i was nor had he ever met me but he did know my name.
anyways, i waited on his table. i took his order and delivered his food. after he had ate his meal i went back and asked how his meal was. he said it was fine....... soooooo i then asked "so i tasted pretty good???" and handed him the bill with my name written on it. his eyes got realy big. he didnt stay long after that. he didnt leave me tip but hell just the opportunity to get inside his head was good enough.

Answer 8

Walk with your head high and keep on walking.....there is nothing to say because this person is a heartless selfish _____and all I can say is they will never be happy from creating someone else's unhappiness

Answer 9

The best revenge is to live well and let her see u happy! She would probably get great satisfaction if u were upset then she knows she won

Answer 10

I wouldn't say anything to that floozy. Just ignore her and maybe get some revenge on her (ex. take one of her cans out of the basket or cart). It's petty but you deserve some sort of revenge. lol.