Marriage & Divorce - 8 May 2007

with my fiances mom, and I think I got her pregnant. Everyone automatically thinks its her husbands baby so I'm somewhat in the clear for now. Wouldn't it be funny to name the child after me, with everyone still thinking its his baby?

2007-05-08 07:23:43 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

My now ex wife who left me for a coworker 6 months ago after a 15 year marriage called me to ask me a question. We share our kids every other week and she asked if I could keep them a day longer. She told me that her boyfriends grandmother past away and he would really like her to go to the funeral. I said no problem and if she could pass on my condolenses. Did I say the right thing? I really don't mean it because he is a homewrecker but it does take two. Is that how you would have handled it? I was very hurt by her affair and still am.thank you

2007-05-08 07:10:06 · 16 answers · asked by tyler d 1

My wife has confessed to me that she carried on a heavy flirtation for a week. It involved suggestive talk, touching, but when the man asked for a meeting she called it off. When she first told me, I quickly forgave her for what sounded like a close call, but she continues to confess more details to me. She had an affair six years ago, and it took me about three years to get it out of my mind. I just don't know where to go on this anymore.

2007-05-08 07:08:25 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

store? This woman was my "store friend..she was a mere accaintence to us both but when I was married he The ex looser JO would come home and try to make me jealous! Believe me from 1-10 she is truly like -3 and I am like a 9 and I am getting married at the end of August to a WONDERFUL man who isnt a wife abuser ya know....

I put up with 10 years of BS and quite frankly she can have my leftovers ya know! What do you all think?

2007-05-08 06:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-08 06:41:12 · 15 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1

My husband wants to adopt my son , who only knows my husband as his daddy. The problem is i have no idea where to go or how to start the process. Or what to expect as far as the process. Any info would be a great help. Thanks

2007-05-08 06:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by Tiffany B 2

of people getting married,if they're going to cheat?I wouldn't stay with a man who's the cheating type.

2007-05-08 06:37:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna get married at the tulsa speedway (dragsters) and have 2 jet cars kick off the ceremony. then after the "i do's" my husband and i drive off in his race car to the end of the drag strip to a helicopter that will take us away to our reception then wait for us to take us off to our hunnymoon???? Is that cool?

2007-05-08 06:36:43 · 12 answers · asked by ashley 3

well my husband and I have been together for 6 years and all I can think about is wanting to make love to him all threw the day and night we have children together so it makes it difficult but when we do have the time I start touching him he says not right now he dosen't even hold me at night he says he does give me affection and love but I don't feel it and when we do have sex I am not completely satisfied what can help and what should I do I love to have sex!

2007-05-08 06:35:02 · 23 answers · asked by lovely 2

i'm new at my job, so here comes this guy (pretty handsome) who stops by for some small talk, we find out we speak the same second language so there's a bit of commonplace. Anyhow, one day he comes over and whilst were having what i thought was a 'normal' conversation he tells me he has a girlfriend, might have kids, not sure he wants to get married b/c he doesn't think its in mans nature to be with one person. (Ok, now i know thats out of place but when its a gorgeous hunk telling u this u forget you're at work and start spewing advice) anyway, i'm married so i tell him not to get married until he's sure,he also asked my age!, i don't think i was flirting b/c i maintained my 'professional' voice and serious expression. When he came back from vacation, he stopped by my desk and asked if i missed him? then said he was just kidding. Am I giving him the wrong impression? Sure i think he's attractive,maybe my friendliness was mistaken for something else. Now he stops talking to me?

2007-05-08 06:29:55 · 10 answers · asked by Angie 1

My husband and I were in our 30 2 prior marriages for him and 1 for me, just would like some feedback on this question

2007-05-08 06:21:50 · 14 answers · asked by Diana 5

My husband of 2.5 years, dated for 6 or 7 years prior to, as of lately has been saying he is confused about what he should be doing with his life. He has been upset because I won't go places with him all the time (though I try) or do ALL the chores around the house, that I won't hang out with some of his old friends who have stolen (alot) from us and called me several cruel names,
he has been very depressed lately ,
and even when he was going to a concert with a couple of his friends, he decided not go and said he "stared at a wall downtown all night until early morning".

What should I do, he want really talk to me, other than complaining about me not going everywhere,
though I am very ill (like cancer/aids ill, I don't have those things, but what I have is rare, but very serious, & my immune system is crap)
he has always known this,

what should I do

2007-05-08 06:20:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently dated a guy for 2 weeks. We talked about sex and I have some pain during sex, but I have never had sex with him. I enjoy using a vibrator and this guy told me that he was uncomfortable with it. So uncomfortable that he broke up with me using that as his reason. He also gave that reason to his best friend. So I know that is the reason, but I cannot figure out why he would be SO uncomfortable with it.

2007-05-08 06:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by tressijoy 1

My husbands ex girlfriend was his first love and mother of his first two kids (we have 1 child together. When we got together everyone including his family would say things like "he'll always love her" and "you can expect im to go back". They basically made it clear that she would always be "queen b" with him because she had his children first. When I accused him of cheating on me with her once, you know what everyone said? "so what if he did, thats his baby's mama" Even though my husband says its not true, I still feel second especially because even though he knows she doesn't like me he's never confronted her about it. Is it true that i can never take her place and does she have lifetime rights because she is the mother of his first child? (they were never even married!)

2007-05-08 06:16:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

We meet up at the Sturgis Motorcyle Rally every year. So we only see each other once a year. We have fun together, and it is only about the party and sex. Throughout the last 16 years I have been married, divorce, and married again more than once. So I don't see the big deal do you?

2007-05-08 06:13:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

You have been married for 2 years and lived together for a year before that. He has never brought home any income. I have finally talked him into seling his business. He is merging with another company. I am barely paying the bills, the house payment is a month behind. He received a commission off of a sale the other day and put it away in the business account just in case some bills came in that he would have to pay. Would you be angry if he didn't give you the money? You are supporting him? I have two children. I also found out he has about $10,000 in credit card debt that he has been using to try to keep the buisiness above water.

2007-05-08 06:04:25 · 11 answers · asked by browneyedgirl 2

my boyfriend was in a diving accident and he broke his neck. he has applied for everything and is only getting about 500 a month and i had to quit my job to take care of him because he was paralized. well, he cant move his right hand either. anyways, were living with my gramdmother and only have enough money to pay for the food each month. now my grandma is moving in june to go help her mother in alabama and we live in texas. we cant move with her. we are 19 years old and we need help. if anyone would tell us what to do, that would be nice. thanks

2007-05-08 05:58:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I recently separated for a week due to the fact that he had a horrible temper and would act completely crazy. We are now back together and he has totally changed in the other direction. He follows me everywhere I go. If I go to the restroom he comes in there, if I go outside he goes, if I go to change he goes... He checks my phone for number to see who I talk to. He goes through my school notes to see what I write. If I take a day off of work then he has to take it off also. He is so worried about me talking to my ex-boyfriend, it's so ridiculous.... I just want to pack up my son's things and mine and run away. I really do not like him anymore. He is like the annoying person at work who always is around but you really want them to leave. What do I do?

2007-05-08 05:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by ???EM???? 2

Thank you to the over 55 answers I got to my question yesterday about wives who complain about their husbands looking at porn, and husbands who aren't satisfied with sex once a month. So I'd like to continue this topic........

HUSBANDS...do you think that maybe if you demonstrated more effort, more interest, and more affection towards your wife that you'd get the affections you need? Or is clicking on porn late at night easier and more satisfying?

WIVES.....if wearing something sexy to bed, brushing your hair, and lighting some candles would dramatically improve your sex life with your husband, would you be willing to do it?

I think the bottom line here is that porn is not the problem. MY POINT is wives who think sex with their husbands once a month is enough really can't complain about their husbands looking at porn! And husbands who prefer porn to having sex with their wives clearly have issues! Thoughts????

2007-05-08 05:26:08 · 19 answers · asked by ? 4

She came here the other day with a busted lip and it's not the first time. I care for her but can't stand seeing her this way. She will not leave what should I do? She has two little children involved

2007-05-08 05:09:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

In Texas, After I pay the car off, I heard I can take the title to the DMV and have her name removed. Is this true? Does she have to be present to sign? In the decree I get my car and she gets hers. Our names were on both cars.

2007-05-08 05:03:28 · 17 answers · asked by phantom_texas_ranger 2

2007-05-08 04:57:39 · 18 answers · asked by Jojo D 1

I have been unemployed for 4 months and had no luck finding work. The stress is really affecting my marriage, which had problems in the first place, and I really feel we need to see someone, but we have very little money to do so. Any suggestions on "charity cases" counseling?

2007-05-08 04:43:45 · 12 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

I feel we are not made for each other. I recently went back with him, about 2 months, but I truly realize we're not going in the same direction. We have no common dreams or even future plans. I don't want to hurt him too much. It's just that when we break up he starts crying and gets all depressed.

2007-05-08 04:36:51 · 19 answers · asked by Playera 3

2007-05-08 04:36:33 · 11 answers · asked by brain beauty 2

but how many people disagree and think the disease aspect is a crock being used as a crutch

I remember watching a Penn and Teller epsiode odf Bull**** one evening and what they said made sense

Cancer , Diabetes , leukemia and Malaria are diseases , as are schizophrenia , depression etc

These are situations where the person has no choice

But alcoholics choose to drink


It is the only "didease" I can think of where the "patient" has full control over his or her destiny


Discuss

2007-05-08 04:30:54 · 25 answers · asked by banjaxed 6

He still says I love you but only on the phone, or if I say it first he says I love you too. He watches porn nearly everyday and he knows I consider it cheating. We don't make love as much anymore. When we do, I can't enjoy it because all I can think about is whether he's thinking of me or the porn. He started being really secretive recently, and added a password to his user account on the computer and won't tell me what it is. In the last couple days we've only said maybe 20 words to each other. When I try to hug him he pulls away. We can't afford a counselor, and I don't think he would go anyway. What do I do, I don't want to lose him, I love him so much? Any advice would be extremely helpful.

We also have a almost 4 year old son, he's great with him, at least when I'm at home too.

2007-05-08 04:23:56 · 53 answers · asked by DeAnna 5

I know I'm gonna get some stupid answers but here I go regardless...

My boyfriend is 28. I'm nearly 23. We've been together 18 months. If we were to get engaged and plan on marrying in say, a year, is that too young? What's your gut reaction?

No proposals have been made, but we have discussed our long term plans together with regards to career moves, ideal and expected income and even family values re. children (NOT soon). Oh yes, and I found a leaflet on customised ring design in his pocket when he lent me his coat!!!!

2007-05-08 04:15:56 · 33 answers · asked by tigerfly 4

Please LADIES give me any advice from your heart.
I was in a 3 year relationship with an incredible woman.I just didnt feel ready to get married, be with her yes. I knew in time she would be my wife. She temp went back home (she is from Europe), stayed longer than we thought, and 6 months later she tells me she hooked up with a friend, and they got married. I was devastated, really didnt understand what happened, thought we loved each other, etc.She has been married 2 months, we talked on the phone yesterday and she told me that she ONLY got married bcs she has HPV (as do I) and was worried she couldnt have babies later, and thought I would NEVER do it. He said he would have a baby ASAP. She AMITTED that she freaked out. Well, since then,she told me that she is healthy and will wait to have children. Said she doesnt love her husband, but that he is NICE, makes her happy and that he loves her. She said she is married, so must try. I LOVE her...will this last with him? I am sad!!!

2007-05-08 04:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I decided to have barbecue with his niece and her husband. I started cooking some rice and my husband was doing the barbecue outside. I decided to sit down next to my husband's niece when she decides to freestfeed her 1 year old. She don't cover up with anything and my husband walks in and he saw her breest hanging out. He looks away but it still makes me feel mad and very uncomfortable. She most of done it like 3 times when we all were there. That night I was so mad that the next day I told my husband that I don't ever what anymore people coming over. What advise can somebody give me?

2007-05-08 04:04:03 · 9 answers · asked by Patty 1