What is the point..............?

Question

of people getting married,if they're going to cheat?I wouldn't stay with a man who's the cheating type.

Answer 1

because people think they can handle the pressure if the opportunity to cheat ever arrises. It depends on how mature the person is when they ultimately make their desicion to cheat or not.

If someone is cheating before the marriage then you are just setting your future up for failure and you should in that case leave. You can't change anyone, and there is nothing in the world that you can do to make them not cheat.

Marriage is too big of a commitment to just overlook the other partners cheating. You can't really start a good marriage off that way.

Answer 2

Alot of women will turn their backs on the fact of their man cheating just because he's putting food on the table.

I don't agree that every marriage should break up because a man/woman cheats. If the two decide to work it out and rebuild the marriage, I do not see anything wrong in it because you are to love for better or worse. But there are some marriages, where the man will cheat openly and dare his wife to say anything about it. He'll have other children outside of the marriage, stop helping in the home, etc..and some women accept the behavior, thinking one day he'll change because of the vows they have made.

What I don't understand is, how can someone else (husband/wife) cheat and jeopardize your health AIDS, STD's, etc..and think that it's okay? I also don't understand, if a husband/wife, is not satisfied in the marriage, why not get out of the marriage instead of cheating? Why put another person through misery just because you're miserable?

Answer 3

Great attitude... except how do you know if he's the cheating type?

I don't know very many people who got married thinking they would cheat. Cheating usually doesn't happen because people planned it, but because they failed to plan against it.

A lot of things can happen. How many wives turn cold sexually after they've got the wedding ring? On the other end, how many men are clueless about the women (other than their wives) that are trying to seduce them?

For a woman, my advice is always simple: if you wouldn't notice a decrease in your sex life if your husband took another lover, then it's time to have more sex. For men, my advice is to be totally honest about everything that happens with every other woman in your life, tell her everything. Obvoiusly, this requires a reciprical: a man has to put forth the effort to make his wife happy so she's willing to sleep with him, and the wife has to be understanding and not go off the deep end every time she finds out that a woman put her hand on her husband's shoulder.

But usually I find that the women who say what you say ("I wouldn't marry a man who is the cheating type") are the self entitled type who will think they're entitled to have a man who is totally commited to them (meaning he won't seek sex elsewhere) but they aren't going to be totally committed to their husband (meaning they're not going to make sure he stays sexually fulfilled.)

Answer 4

I dont think people get married, with expectations of cheating. At least I hope the dont! I wouldnt stay with a man who cheated either.

Answer 5

If people only got married for the right reasons, they would not cheat. But life is not so ideal, and most people get married for all the wrong reasons, so why be so shocked when they are unhappy and cheat.

Answer 6

Yes! you should only marry prince charming that will fall on your lap from his white horse. He's handosme, educated and rich. He's also monogamous and perfect. By the way, he doesn't exist.

People don't get married to cheat or to get divorced. Things happen and relationships change, and there is no way to predict the outcome of any relationship.

If you don;t choose carefully and patiently, you will end up witha frog instead of Prince Charming. Unfortunately, you will have to kiss many frogs to find the real prince.

Good luck

Answer 7

There is no point in getting married, I'd say have a lil ceremony, wear a ring, NEVER get the paper, Divorce's always end shitty no matter how the ball bounces. I don't agree with marriage but I do agree with living with someone the rest of your life, wearing a ring and just verbal speaking that you are married, it's not like you show people that paper anyway you show them a ring. I'm not getting married EVER

Answer 8

You really have to trust your partner. Before getting married, you go on dates right? Well the point of those is to realize if you can really be with this person for the rest of your life (when it gets seriuos of coarse) The point of getting married can only be decided by the couples not anyone here! If you really feel love with your companion then you will know that they wont cheat on you!

Answer 9

I have NEVER cheated but women and men cheat cause they are not getting something they need. BAD EXCUSE but that is what they say. I think if you have problems the last thing you need in your relationship is a 3rd party. Date and date for enough time to know your spouse will not cheat. or at least till you think they wont

Answer 10

There is no such thing as the cheating type. All of us are capable of cheating. Some are more willing to follow through than others