I'm always thinking and wanting sex!?

Question

well my husband and I have been together for 6 years and all I can think about is wanting to make love to him all threw the day and night we have children together so it makes it difficult but when we do have the time I start touching him he says not right now he dosen't even hold me at night he says he does give me affection and love but I don't feel it and when we do have sex I am not completely satisfied what can help and what should I do I love to have sex!

Answer 1

maybe you guys need to sit down and have a really serious talk and you need to express yourself and let him know how you feel about the situation actually for being together for 6 years and still thinking about having sex with him all day he should feel dame lucky usually girls give it alot in the begining and then it fade he should be cherishing what he has and th fact that after all this time you are still passionatly in love with him thats awsome to me so yeah talk to him let him know how you feel

Answer 2

Job, wife, kids, home, cars, insurance, food, cable, cell phones, telephone, water, trash, power, clothing . . . that is a lot of stress for any man to deal with, even if it is only paying for half of it. SO I am sure that has a lot to do with his thinking he is giving you enough . . . .

In my relationship we stopped everything and started a date night, no talk about work, kids or bills, it was just us, doing whatever we want, dinner, a movie, a long walk a few hours in a local hotel, whatever it takes to escape from the world for a few hours and just be together. We make sure we carve out a time when we will be free, if not we make that time at least once a month and don't cancel.

It works for me and I have a very great sex life, have had it for years and counting. A little romance can go a long way.
Good luck!!

Answer 3

"I don't feel it and when we do have sex I am not completely satisfied what can help and what should I do I love to have sex!"

Just call me, I'll help. :-)

Seriously, mismatched libido is a difficult problem. Men are used to getting rejected but for a woman it is much harder to accept.

You need to set aside some time to be alone together, somewhere that you can talk about this. He may have a problem induced by stress, medication, erectile disfunction, low testerone or other issues.

He may not find you all that attractive anymore (it happens and it may not be your fault). He could be having an affair or he may have developed religious convictions or other hang-ups.

Unless you talk about it there will be no improvement. If he won't talk then talk to your family doctor.

If you are going through a period of life where your hormones are making you horny more than usual then set aside some quiet time for yourself and masturbate (maybe buy a vibrator).

Good luck.
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Answer 4

Your husband should be happy to know that you have such an appetite. Sometimes husband and wives can be on different wave lengths when it comes to bedroom activity. Perhaps it is time for you and your husband to have a real heart-to-heart so that he has a better understanding of your need to be with him. Perhaps more affection from him would help. You need to tell him what you need and he needs to respond so that together you will continue with a happy marriage. The worse thing a husband or wife can do is ignore the other and act as though your needs don't count. Talk to him.,

Answer 5

First think of all the needs that you have that you don't think are being fulfilled. If it helps, write a list of everything you need out of the relationship. Then sit him down and say here are some things that you would like in their relationship and offer compromises that fit those needs. The more straight forward and specific you are, the more he is likely to get it. And do not attack him or blame him for anything. Just say these are some things you would like and ask him is there is anything he would like different. The best thing is to have a good talk about it.

Answer 6

Sounds to me like you are not get getting the soul connection you need from him. It's not just about sex. Something is missing in your relationship. You better talk to him about that and try to fix the problem before you land in bed with someone else. Get some marriage counseling before you grow further apart from him. It takes work and effort to keep the romance alive in a relationship! People grow too 'comfortable' in the relationship and think that they don't have to try any more once you've been together for a while, but that's exactly when the fire dies out!

Answer 7

Your husband sounds like a woman lol do what a lot men and women do find some one to fulfill your sexual needs just don't get attached emotionally to the other person it's a proven fact this can save your marriage as long as you do not get caught.

Answer 8

People will always get into certain situations where one craves sex more than the other.

If there's nothing medically wrong with your partner it could just be work stress, or other worries.

I'd say leave the poor dude alone.

Buy a dildo or something and work it out by yourself.

Answer 9

i know where your coming from,i have the same problem,only it's my wife.I won't cheat,so masturbating helps,but some times theres nothing like the real thing.i wish some of you would rub off on my wife.but i've just learn to deal with it.

Answer 10

Try getting a weekend to yourselves. And when you're alone try doing new things in the bedroom. Maybe he's bored. Try role playing, talking dirty, toys, videos, etc....