store? This woman was my "store friend..she was a mere accaintence to us both but when I was married he The ex looser JO would come home and try to make me jealous! Believe me from 1-10 she is truly like -3 and I am like a 9 and I am getting married at the end of August to a WONDERFUL man who isnt a wife abuser ya know....
I put up with 10 years of BS and quite frankly she can have my leftovers ya know! What do you all think?
2007-05-08 06:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Labelfree,
first congratulations to you for moving on. As for your first concern - let her acknowledge you first, then reciprocate as though "nothing were amiss" - in other words show nothing but kindness and keep your real thoughts to yourself.
Best of luck and congratulations again on your forthcoming marriage in August.
2007-05-08 07:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gerry 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
WOW this is a really difficult situations. I can't even imagine how this must make your kids feel or you. But I give you alot of respect for trying to figure out a way to see them together cause that's way better then what I could do. I think first you should speak to him and explain that you don't want to make a scene or embarrass your children so to give you time before you have to interact with her around the kids. If he can't understand that then he really needs help. Next bring someone supportive when ever there is an event like this knowing she'll be there. This is gonna be a long hard road for you but just know you are not the person that is wrong or messed up he is. I say do things for yourself to get your life together outside of him. I'm so sorry you are going through this but just be good mother I'm sure you are and maybe go see a religious counselor or therapist cause maybe they can give you another perspective and better advice on how to deal with this.
2016-05-18 02:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would speak to my ex husbands girlfreind if only to warn her that she was going out with an abuser if women as i would feel guilty if she had landed up getting abused by him and i had not warned her about what he had done to me as i would feel responseable if anything happend to her and i had said nothing
2007-05-08 07:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happy and glad to be rid of him, then why not be cordial. There's no need to be friends and hang out, but the mature thing to do would be smile and say hi and keep walking.
2007-05-08 07:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen to that one sister just think she is going to inherit a spousal abuser . that one you can sit back and laugh on . I am so happy for you cause you are getting married to a wonderfull man . congrats to you .
2007-05-08 08:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would put on my best smiley face and say hello - you know what you left and what she's getting - that in itself should bring a smile to your face
2007-05-08 06:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD KILL HER WITH KINDNESS TWLL HER HOW HAPPY U ARE AND ABOUT GETTING MARRIED TO A GREAT GUY THIS TIME AND NOT TO A DUMB LOOSER AND SMILE AND SAY HOPE U CAN HANDLE HIM BETTER THAT ME I JUST DECIDE I DESERVIE BETTR GUESS YOU ARENT THERE YET!!LOL!1
2007-05-08 07:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ridiculous for you to feel anger or jealousy towards someone who so obviously lost out. Be nice to her. Why do you care so much?
2007-05-08 07:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by mzadamz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you seem to care a whole lot for someone who proposes not to care!
2007-05-08 07:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no i wouldn't , fotget about them go on with your life and
have a good one, congratulations
2007-05-08 07:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋