I recently dated a guy for 2 weeks. We talked about sex and I have some pain during sex, but I have never had sex with him. I enjoy using a vibrator and this guy told me that he was uncomfortable with it. So uncomfortable that he broke up with me using that as his reason. He also gave that reason to his best friend. So I know that is the reason, but I cannot figure out why he would be SO uncomfortable with it.
2007-05-08 06:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by tressijoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he feels intimidated that you have to use a vibrator to feel pleased. You should have waited longer than 2 weeks to open that can of worms on him. I don't use a vibrator and never will, but I also have pain during sex. My man knows, but I wouldn't tell a new b/f that so soon. Maybe he just doesn't like bedroom toys!
2007-05-08 06:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by trisha l 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men can be such babies. Apparently, you have gone and hurt his ego. You use something that is comfortable to you but the real thing seems to hurt. I'm sure he is thinking: Now, I'm her bf and she is telling me that the "bob" feels better to her than the real thing. Gee how can I measure up to that! I'm sure he is thinking something to that effect. If thats all it took to break the 2 of you up then he isn't the one for you and the right guy is still out there looking for you so don't worry about this ex and just move on with your life. God bless
2007-05-08 13:27:25 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he felt that he would feel like less than if it took a toy to do the job and there are some guys who can get you there without a vibrator. Nothing is wrong with one, its just nice not to need one.
2007-05-08 13:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by wantajeannie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
that is his choice...move on u don't need him anyway...but that is a very graphic conversation to have with only dating 2 weeks....maybe in the future u may wish to wait until u have been dating for about 6 months to bring up that personal of an issue.
2007-05-08 13:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The big problem was he dated you for 2 weeks and you didn't give him any bootay so he move on because that's all he wanted so be glad you found out before you gived it up to him.
2007-05-08 13:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by bluemist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some men feel threatened that you would choose to have sex with the toy instead of with him. I am sure that he wouldnt have minded if you allowed him to join in. I can see why that was a problem.
2007-05-08 13:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by mama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are having pain while during intercourse, you need to get a pelvic exam.
It could be inflammation, fibroid, or the start of endometriosis.
Maybe your vibrator was a turn off because he knew if he couldn't please you, your toy would.
2007-05-08 13:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guess he is afraid he won't be as good, someone who talks about this kind of stuff with someone other then you isn't as good, stick with your vibrator hunny, that will at least be true to you and won't be kissing and telling!
2007-05-08 13:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by mrsmommaid 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because he is an insecure little brain jerk O** Be glad your rid of him and vibrate on girl!
2007-05-08 13:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because he's close minded. Not the kind of guy you want to spend a long time with anyway is it?
2007-05-08 13:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋