He is a nice guy to be with. We know this relationship is not right and we need to stop seeing / calling each other. But we can't get rid of each other because there is business involoved. What should we do?
2007-05-12 03:37:15 · 20 answers · asked by Rainbow House 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In the first place, you already know it is wrong. So stop it NOW before things get worse. Remember that one can't play with fire without getting burned. You can always look for ways out of that situation IF you have the determination. That means, even with the business transactions you have with him, you can always detach yourself if you are willing. The bible says, resist the devil and he will flee from you.
2007-05-12 03:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your supplier is cheating his wife , do you really want a relation ship with somebody that is cheating ? I think you need some support you know very well what the right things would be otherwise you would not have asked the question in the way you did . So be a man and tell him to get lost , find a new job , find a new supplier
2007-05-12 10:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by joris14us 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know the relationship is not right. Just stop. There is no reason why you cannot be in a strictly professional relationship and if he can't then you need to find a new supplier. Plain and simple. There is no other answer to it. Affairs are wrong and if you stay in it you are wrong and a disgrace to yourself.
2007-05-12 10:47:03 · answer #3 · answered by princess0205 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of you is going to have to quit your job or relocate. Business and romance do not mix well. When something happens to end the romance, the business relationship is also damaged.
The one who wants to keep the relationship going is always going to use "business" as an excuse to see the reluctant partner. It is a "no-win" situation and is always very painful to be in.
2007-05-12 10:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Act indifferent with each other. Pretend as if nothing has or has ever happened. Just stop it. Since it is a business world be strictly business with him. Or you'll get hurt. It is for your own benefit.
2007-05-12 10:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Elswith R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why go there in the first place,do you not feel guilty? his poor wife probably hasnt a clue whats going on,why cant you finish it and go back to a working relationship,i have done it myself in the past when i was much younger,now im older i couldnt do that to another woman,as far as im concerned married men are off limits-no matter what the attraction
2007-05-12 10:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both have to agree to cut this off cold turkey because this can easilyspill onto your work relationship and cause one of you to get fired. Just dont have sex with him any more and try to keep your distance. It is a huge headache on dealing with somebody that is married, trust me I know from experience.
2007-05-12 10:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Transfer.
Or ask him to give the account to another salesperson.
Or go with another supplier.
2007-05-12 10:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
start looking for another job. Why doesn't ADULTERY cross peoples mind before they ruin other peoples lives.
2007-05-12 11:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new supplier.
2007-05-12 10:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋