He went & got married to a woman from Bangladesh last summer & we had a nasty break up. As months went by he would still say flirty things to me when I would see him occasionaly. I ran into him the other day & we talked for a while & he expressed that he missed me & wanted to see me again. He asked why didnt I treat him better when we were together & was I seeing some currently. I agreed that he could pick me up so we could talk more Fri. I saw him Thurs. @ the store & I was with a male friend. He was very snappy when I asked him what time was he picking me up. He was throwing things around on the shelves. I called him last night to see what was up & he was upset & hung up the phone on me! WTF? I never said we wer together. If he felt that strongly about me, why the hell did he go marry someone else. He' acting as if I betrayed him. The guy I was with was just a friend who just happened to be going in the same direction so my ex jumped to conclusions. I dont owe him any explanations...
2007-05-12 04:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow...ummm he's just jealous because he wants what he gets. he wants to get the things he want./ basically he want things his way. but you are not going to let it happen because he will make the same mistake. hes not worth it. very immature
2007-05-12 04:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by baby boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is ur first real boyfriend then ur NEVER going to get over him. because im like that now. yes u have tried to move on but just to get ur mind off him im sure. at the end of the day ur always going to LOVE him. i wud be devastated if i found out my ex got married with out an explanation...were u his first love? and if so then he can NEVER forget u. i find it pretty shady that he has not said anything on account of the fact u guys stayed friends after the break. im not goin to tell u to just leave him alone and forget about him b/c GOD KNOWS U CANT...especially after this incident. my best advice is to find out from one of his friends why he hasnt told u, maybe he knew how u wud react if he were to tell u the news and he just didnt wanna hurt u...i say dont get mad like y did u do this nd y he didnt tell u b/c u 2 were not together so he isnt obligated to do so. but bit by bit stay in contact with him and over time [I KNO IT SOUNDS LONG] but he will open up and tell u y he did wat he did and u can also build on ur friendship at the same time. i know its hard sweetie but sumtimes things happen nd maybe it wont wrk out to make him realize there isnt anyone who can compare to u.. hope i helped and good luck......just take it slow :-]
2016-05-21 02:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is you must be a sweetheart because you got him good . So how long is the torture and revenge going to go one ? Maybe you should get some pics for memory sake .
2007-05-12 04:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your question girl. if you loved you, then why did he go and marry someone else? he doesnt sound like hes very good for you...
and heres some personal advice, dont waste your time having catfights on yahoo answers. whats the point in that?
2007-05-12 05:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by *never give up* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have kids together there is really no reason to keep any open communication with your ex. He needs to mind his own business and you need to not allow him to make flirty comments to you or meet you places.
2007-05-12 04:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lala 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who could possibly care? Personally, he should probably feel lucky to be rid of you, in my honest opinion. Something must be wrong with the guy. And something must be wrong with you.
2007-05-12 05:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has some rather antiquated notions about a woman's "place".
You owe him nothing
2007-05-12 04:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay away from this wacko. Sounds like he wants what he wants when he wants it and is use to getting it. He is bad news.
2007-05-12 04:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now , didn't his action bring back flashback to why he is your "EX". Let him stay your ex
2007-05-12 04:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope you do not just move on in your life and let time heal him.
2007-05-12 04:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋