Ihe problem is I don't really know anybody here and don't know where to go if I leave our home.
My husband cheated and is still cheating on me with an ex-friend of mine that he idolizes.?
I confronted him about it but he denied it all. I don't really know what's he expecting from me and our marriage. my life is miserable, what should I do?I did not catch him on the fact, but all his body language, his behavior towards me is very telling. He ones told me that my friend told him that she will come over and taste when I am not around.he will come home with scratches on his back and will tell me that he did it himself....
Thanks for u guys who answered my last question
2007-05-12 04:31:54 · 7 answers · asked by cfaith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave. Now.
2007-05-12 04:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by whitexsaucer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are convinced that he's cheating. Scratches on the back are telling, especially if they in a location that he can't possibly reach. Either way, you deserve an honest relationship. Marriage can't survive this way. Look up support groups and find someone to talk to. They will also help you with leaving this guy and help set you up in a safe place. My advice is to leave this guy. You might also consider ditching any friends that would sleep with your husband. It's all about trust, in all relationships.
2007-05-12 11:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Christian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about your friend telling him she will come over and taste..etc...That`s BS, he`s pulling your leg and he's being mean to you. At this point, I would not even care if he cheats or not, I would not want to be with a man who treats me like that after only 1 year of marriage. You`re not mentioning children so pack your bag...call your mom and tell her you`re coming home for a little while, don`t even tell him you`re leaving, let him figure it out on his own when he comes home. He doens`t deserve that small consideration.
2007-05-12 11:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are in this situation. You KNOW that you have to leave him,right??? He's only able to do to you what you allow him to do. Please get some sort of counseling and try to move on. This is only damaging to you and your overall frame of mind. A woman always knows. Please try to get some support from family and friends, even if it is long distance. Good Luck.
2007-05-12 11:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by prego 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him don't tell him just get up one day when he is not there take your things and go to your mom or who ever house tell you get yourself together so when he comes home you will not be and he is going to see how he don't have anything without you
2007-05-12 11:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by sweetnsour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into some marriage therapy so you can get some help with what you feel
2007-05-12 11:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come live with me.
2007-05-12 13:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by seahorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋