Marriage & Divorce - 13 May 2007

Ladies your sitting at home watching T.V. when out of the corner of your eye you see your ex, and he's only three inchs tall, running across the floor. What would you do?

2007-05-13 22:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Stang 1

2007-05-13 22:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by mahal 1

I married my wife when I was 16; I have 8 kids who all vary from 1 to 10 years old. My wife and the love of my life past away last year in a car accident. You might find this weird but I am a marketing director with big thick wage packets (I don’t know how I have had 8 kids but I do know how I became a marketing director).

My wife wanted a big family so she kept popping out each year without thinking of any consequences and I just gave her it each time. Do you think I was taken advantage off?

Now I am left with 8 little disasters & a nanny who rips me off for £600 a week but that is fine; I have no time on my hands and no social life as I am always on the run for promotional ads.

Where do you think I will be in the next 10 years and also do I sound like a great catch; if a brought a woman home to my 8 kids “Do you think she will run for the door”. After all “I am 25 with 8 kids now you rarely ever see that ;o)”.

2007-05-13 22:47:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Met this guy at work on a week end. He became really very friendly and wanted to keep talking to me. By the middle of the day, he asked if he can take me home instead of my husband picking me up. I thought this was ok. Called my husband and told him I just met a new friend and that he was going to take me home. My husband was ok with this. We had a good time chatting over dinner. Come Monday morning,like this guy didn't know me, and even felt like he didn't want to talk to me. Instead of dining at the cafeteria like he used to, he ate inside his car. What's up with this? I felt like he liked me but was staying away bec. I was married. Am I right?

2007-05-13 22:24:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm divorced 3 yrs now. Many time he missed his maintenance payments. He pays an amount per child as well as the schoolfees. All into my account. Usually I paid the schoolf from the first amount that enters my acc. Lately he only paid a sum, equal to the schoolfees, nothing else. Am I legally binded to pay the schoolfees first? It's not stated so, anywhere. There is no way to keep my household running without the rest of the money. Last 2 months I did not pay the school, as I needed money in the house. Can he or his lawyer expect me to do so?

2007-05-13 22:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by Zettie 1

I am 32 and my husband is 34. We have been married for 4 yrs. no child yet.But my husband is not financially stable yet. As I am also earning we are pulling on somehow. My husband gets very less salary. If we have a child the expenses and commitments increases. Incase I am not able to continue with the job everything has to be managed with his salary which is next to impossible. Only thing is that he is having bit of property. having a child in this kind of a situation is it suitable. Everybody says that as you get aged it is very difficult. But I am not able to take a right decision in this kind of a situation when my husband is not financially stable and he doesn't have a savings of a single pie. I have made a little of savings

2007-05-13 21:43:49 · 17 answers · asked by janu 1

I want to take a divorce from my wife but she is pregnant.
how can i take a divorse from her please tell the sollution

2007-05-13 21:14:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have close friends who, like us, are going thru a tough time in their marriage. I never give opinions on their relationship unless I'm asked, but they are very judgemental of our relationship. One minute I'm told by both of them I'm too outspoken and b#itchy, and should "just let him do what he wants", the next they tell me I'm too soft and should "put my foot down with him". I feel like they are constantly judging and 'grading' me, as to who is to blame.

I get the feeling that they do it to make themselves feel better about their marriage - like, our relationship is worse than theirs and that makes them feel better. They are the same about parenting too. They are always telling me the 'right way' to do things with our daughter and how I'm always doing things wrong. They try to say they're just being helpful, but I don't see it that way.

Am I being oversensitive? What's your perspective?

2007-05-13 20:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by kmlloveplant 2

I am very unhappily married and I had a 5-1/2yr affair with a married man. We were very good friends and decided that this relationship would work for us as we are committed to raising our families and both of us did not want to divorce our respective spouses. Then I found out he was cheating with at least one other woman. His wife told me. I confonted the new girlfriend and found out so many lies he told me. I even found out he had sex with her and then to me and then to his wife all in one day. Instead of facing me and apologizing, he just avoided me. He lied his way out of the trouble he was in with his wife (she wants so desperately to believe he is faithful..) and is back to his normal life with absolutely no repurcussions. I, on the other hand, have been crushed and am having a hard time moving on. I want him to take responsibility for what he has done and not get off scott free. How do I get past these feelings of revenge?

2007-05-13 19:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by kovacgirl 1

my ex wrote letter behind my back to my boss about "our sitiuation" she made it look like I don't want to work in the new place and it's unfair that they won't pay for kids tickets (I had to move because of my job) I don't know what to do I never said nothing like that and even better we was just talking with her about kids airfare at that we will buy tickets (it was decided in the cour that she has to pay half for it)
my boss is looking at me strange I don't know what to do? how can I make her stop?

2007-05-13 19:31:59 · 14 answers · asked by frankie 1

My friend want to marry with a guy but he is already married since 2 years he has no child but recently his is pregnent he want to take a divorce from his wife and get mary with my friend tell how can they both married and how can he take divorce from his wife

2007-05-13 19:30:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why has my husband started hating me ?
I`m so hurt.
Why are guys so cruel. I gave birth to his two kids. he should be tolerant, shouldn`t he.
What makes a guy hate his wife ?

2007-05-13 19:25:23 · 16 answers · asked by Who? 2

i don't no what to get my husband for his birthday. i want to get him jewellery but what?

are id braclettes ok?

2007-05-13 19:19:43 · 13 answers · asked by cleo 1

2007-05-13 19:19:37 · 49 answers · asked by icy 1

My wife was never very keen on sex. Early in our marriage, I believe she saw it only as a means for having the kids she wanted. After that, I always got the feeling that she saw it as her duty and nothing more. Nowadays, it seems she doesn't see it at all. We haven't tried couseling, but I doubt it'd work since you can't revive something that was never there in the first place. I am thinking of going outside my marriage in order to fulfill my needs. What do you think? Should this be an option for me?

2007-05-13 19:17:25 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in iraq and believe it or not the idea of him jerking off to a nudie or porn rag irks me. He would never look at porn or anything like that here but I know its a fact that guys look at that crap. My husband is actually a decent guy who knows that it is, and that I strongly oppose and am disgusted with the woman who degrade themselves and continue the nasty idea that woman are just sexual objects. It would really hurt me if he looked at that smut while he is there and i know that his brother and cousin are sending him magazines and of course all the other guys over there have it too. So, my question for you is, would I be wrong to ask him what magazines he has got sent to him or he is looking at? Am I wrong as his wife not to want him to look at that nastiness while he is there when he wouldnt do it here either?

I love my man and want him to continue to honor me there as I do here.

NO, I am not Fat or ugly,maybe insecure but what woman is honestly not a bit insecure

2007-05-13 19:08:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

The above question is from a Man.

2007-05-13 18:49:17 · 11 answers · asked by lisa d 1

I have had a pretty good relationship with my husband's friend. We all hang out together, go fishing, he stays the night..etc. He is usually an okay guy. For some reason, he goes through these stages where he talks bad about me. The last thing he started was that I was in a relationship with my friend Angie. I've known him since highschool. He also knows that my hubby won't hang out with their other friend because the guy is disrespectful to me. Am I missing something? I thought we were all friends. I think maybe he gets annoyed that his best buddy has a wife and kids and can't always go and do stuff at the drop of a hat. But we've been married for 8 years! I'd like for him to just stop speaking about any aspect of our lives to other people. If he could do that, it'd be cool. I don't want my husband to not have his fishing buddy anymore because the guy is too dim witted to know when to shut up! So what do I do?

2007-05-13 18:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by MomOfThreeBoys 3

We have been dating for year and a half. He is unsure if he wants to have kids, will not tell me yes or no. He is 43 and I am 37. He just doesn't know if he wants them but he is sure he wants to be with me and eventually marry me. what should I do ?

2007-05-13 18:40:38 · 14 answers · asked by ala 1

the man of my dreams (literally) is now very much in love with me... every time i wake up, i feel it is only a dream ive been living... its been almost 3 years and were even more in love than before... he wants to get married... BUT im only 21... and sometimes i see my friends going out and having fun with TONS of guys and i feel like im missing out...
what would you do? would you give up your guy to have a little bit more hot single party time or see it an an investment.. and stay with THE guy...

2007-05-13 18:37:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend just found out that his wife never got divorced and they got married in neveda, so that makes there marriage void right? What does he do know?

2007-05-13 18:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why don't ladies from the Philippines marry Indian men.

2007-05-13 17:47:50 · 7 answers · asked by Alison 1

I was joking around with my husband and said that not only should the baby get me a present, but the dogs too. Again, this was a joke. My husband turned around and said, "YOU EXPECT A GIFT!"

I was a bit hurt. I didn't even get a card today. Zip, zilch, nada, NOTHING! He said our baby was my gift. Am I in the wrong to feel a bit hurt about this?

2007-05-13 17:15:45 · 51 answers · asked by Peanut Butter 5

I have a new wife. She is wonderful, caring, kind, every imaginable beautiful word that comes to mind describes her. My problem is that she is very hard on my two boys. They have suffered through a divorce in which their mother left and has moved five hours away by plane. My new wife loves my kids but is very strict in her care for them. She is responsible for them when I am working and therefore I feel she has a right to set rules, I am concerned that this change in style is hard on them. She claims that my lack of strictness is what could have contributed to the demise of my first marriage. We are best of friends, we love each other, but I feel a bit distant from my kids and it hurts. How do you balance your love for your kids and your relationship with your spouse. A tough question, not sure how someone can answer, just looking for some encouraging words...thanks

2007-05-13 16:44:22 · 21 answers · asked by hunter65 1

" I rather be hated For who I am Than be loved for who i am not"?
i heard that it is kurt cobain who said it...but we cant follow it as he already suicidal?what is the moral behind this?and why would he do this?he doesnt love himslef?

2007-05-13 16:35:58 · 10 answers · asked by truth set free 1

...he never thank me for the cards. We have been divorce for many years. Shall I stop the cards. I never hear from him on Mother Day.

2007-05-13 16:30:52 · 17 answers · asked by didibailey 1

Even on our wedding night, he didn't seem as enthusiastic as I thought. I'm feeling that he must have been disappointed or found me unattractive. I'm feeling really sad and that I've let him down.

2007-05-13 16:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by Newlywed 1

She cheated and left me about 7 months ago and we share our kids every other week together. I was and am still hurt but trying to hold the moral high ground. After talking to my kids tonight i asked for her and i told her happy mothers day and she said thanks. was that ok. oh and i also had the kids get her cards and pick out a couple of presents. she is still with her homewrecker.

2007-05-13 16:29:08 · 10 answers · asked by tyler d 1

In the Bible it talks about the marking of the beast and if you ecept it then there is no chance in getting into heaven, and that is the only way to purches food, so who decides for the kids to get one. and would you accept it to feed your kids.

2007-05-13 16:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband joined the army almost a year ago, and when he left for basic training, i didnt cry. i was sad, and miserable that we had to be apart, but i couldnt cry even though i wanted to. he came home for christmas, and when we took him to the airport to fly back to where he was having his training ididnt cry then either! he feels like i should be crying, and he thinks that i dont care that he is leaving, because i dont cry. it is a really sore spot for him too, i know that it bothers him so much! i mean, when we fight i cry so easily, but i dont understand why i cant cry when he leaves. I miss him desperately, and i cry into my pillow a lot at night when hes away, its not like i dont miss him. and to make things worse, his mother and sisters always cry a lot when he leaves, and it makes me feel like a really bad person! how can i cry?

2007-05-13 16:07:59 · 13 answers · asked by lorieu 2