Marriage & Divorce - 13 May 2007

i got two children with my husband they is 4 years old and 3 months old ,,, now he told me his x wife come back to him ... i know all is lie , actually the lady never go before , still together with him ... when i was married to him he told me he is divorce

2007-05-13 06:10:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found email messages going back to 2006 between my husband and an ex-girlfriend/friend from high school (15 yrs. ago) most of his emails and actually bashing me. I got so mad at him for lying to me about her. I feel very angry and hurt when I read those emails, like my heart dropped. I am a very giving and loving wife and mother of two and I cannot believe I have read what I found. He apolozied up and down for it. I even asked if he has called her and he says no, but in one of the emails he states from her "thanks for calling, sorry i could not talk long, my husband was coming out of the shower" seems very sneaky to me. So he lied. I accepted his apologize, but every time i wake up, i am so mad at him, i dont talk to him and when i do, it is very nasty. Unlike me at all. I cannot forget this. Any help???

2007-05-13 05:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by GQ69 2

I filed for divorce with my estranged wife who I havn't seen for 7 yrs and lives 1000+ miles away and she responded with a restraining order. Whats Her problem?

2007-05-13 05:35:42 · 11 answers · asked by ski 2

Okay, even if you have not kept up with the entire story. my wife of 18 years has just told me she does not want to be married, nor does she ever want to be with another man...EVER. that includes me...It would be imposible to give you all the details here, a short version I will try.

The fighting has all been about money...I took it all away.

I go to find out that her psychiatrist told her that in doing that, that I had taken the role of my wifes dad, and that my wife now feels I have fallen into the role of her dad. Now, he has helped her rememberd every little detail that my wife had experianced about her dad raping her. Ultimatey, it may end our marraige

OK...I'm confused.wouldn't his role to be to help her cope with the child abuse and get on with her life? not help her remember something so horrific? he has also refused to concill us together, claiming "conflict of interest."

My wife is lifeless...there is not a stitch of passion. Would U want to remeber? OR FORGET?

2007-05-13 05:33:38 · 20 answers · asked by not for now 2

When my son was 3 mo old, my husband got a vasectomy even though I want another child. He thought I would get over it, but it's 6 mo later and I'm no where close. He says he can't be happy with two children - I don't think I can be happy with only one - but now I'm trapped. What do I do?

2007-05-13 05:28:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

On sundays he is either sleeping or is with his friends, dining and drinking. I am married for 7 years, have a kid and am working. Ours was a love marriage of which only marriage remains, love has evaporated. I am frustrated and want to end life. wht do I do

2007-05-13 05:13:19 · 10 answers · asked by mommy 1

My husband and I got married last July. He emigrated here from a small island in the caribbean where we met. I filed for him and he's been here a year and a half. Once he arrived, I found out that he fathered two children back home and that he dropped out of highschool. When we met he told me that he had no children and that he's an engineering student at the local university. He says he lied to me because if he were truthful I wouldn't want to be with him. I probably should've done my due diligence but I did not. Most of my family and friends warned me that he was using me for a greencard - but I was so caught up in love that I didn't heed their warnings. He hasn't worked since he's been here and all of the bills are on me. He can't get a job because he has no GED. I paid for him to go to a GED prep course and he took the test and failed. That was last June. Now I'm just tired and fed up and think my marriage is a mistake. I'm only 26 years old and I can be doing so much better. Help!

2007-05-13 04:37:56 · 17 answers · asked by Clicker 2

What if he has changed? What if I couldn't notice that over the phone or the internet? wedding can't be postponed: Cultural issues...

2007-05-13 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Shereen 1

She admitted to seeing someone over a several month period, going out on several dates, kissing quite often, and having mutual oral sex once. When I found out, I asked her to move out. We have 2 girls aged 3 and 1. She's the only person I've ever been with sexually and I don't want to be with anyone else. She told me the other day that she has been missing me and wants to get back together, but later admitted that he broke up with her two to three weeks ago. Her mother has been married 4 times and doesnt have long gaps between marriages. Im not sure if my wife misses "me" or being in a relationship. What really hurts is that for the last several months I've felt emotionally starved for her affection and to think of her giving it to someone else while we were married hurts me deeper than I ever really knew it could before this happened. She says she's sorry, but she doesnt really go out of her way to show it. I'm hurting a lot, and the thought of them together really bothers me

2007-05-13 04:08:57 · 27 answers · asked by Brian 2

We can live off of my income, but sometimes I feel like I'm being taken for granted. I know it takes a long time getting a business established sometimes (It's been 6 mo. so far). Should I set a deadline for financial support to his dream? If so, how do I break it to him gently? If not, should I continue to foot almost all the bills indefinitely?

2007-05-13 03:49:17 · 14 answers · asked by Ky 5

2007-05-13 03:31:56 · 26 answers · asked by ala 1

I found her contact info on his cell phone and deleted it. He freeked out. I think he's still talking to her. Does anyone have any other ideas on finding out if they are still together? I can't ask him because he'll just lie.

2007-05-13 03:30:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been together for 11 years split up 1 time for about 8 months thought it made our relationship stronger.So we had a child,3 years down the road i get depressed stopped having fun and she left with my child.And she is staying at a mans house i dont know who or where or if there is a wife involved?Or if they are tring to have a relationship?But i know its killing me very hard to get up and go to work now.Any helpful advice would be appreciated thanks,Nathan

2007-05-13 02:57:10 · 13 answers · asked by emaxxjunky 1

Iam feeling extremely bored now. Coz morning i get up at 6.30
and prepare myself to reach office at 8.30. At eveing 7'0 clock i reach home and then cook for the next day, have a bath, eat food and sleep. Because of this repeated shcedule iam totally
weak physicaly as well as mentally. My character itself has changed and my husband is also worried about it.
HOW SHOULD I STAY HAPPY AND MAKE EVERY DAY BEAUTIFUL.
Waiting eagerly for sincere replies

2007-05-13 02:47:48 · 7 answers · asked by abina s 2

Could that happen? She's very depressed, and loves him, but she feels she would be better to be divorced and still live with him.

2007-05-13 02:46:47 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

what made you decide to make her your girlfriend or wife?

2007-05-13 02:35:03 · 10 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3

I'm fifteen, and barely so. You, twenty, nearly a man. Yet here I sit, yearning for you. Is it wrong to be so madly in love? Is it wrong to desire you and me, creating children? For I do love you Kyle, and wait breathlessly for the day you take me away, fix me and make my life... Is the age gap a problem, or can we fight this?

2007-05-13 02:23:07 · 22 answers · asked by EbonyRose 2

Im 1yr old in marriage and ive not been able to disvirgin my wife. im able to go in but not happens.shes always been afraid of the pain but even when im able to get inside, cant feel any obstruction,it just goes in straight. help out!!

2007-05-13 01:59:51 · 18 answers · asked by BA 1

i'm in need of some emergency cash right away and i'm told not to go to a pawn shop to sell my diamnd engagement ring that i no longer need because i am now divorced... i still have the original certification of my diamond engagement ring that was originally appraised at $7,500 - but the actual purchase price was only $3,995... where would i be able to get the best sale price, at the local newspaper classified ads, a local jewelry store, or a national chain jewelry store?

2007-05-13 01:46:57 · 11 answers · asked by Maikah 2

does the husband have 2 say 'i divorce you' 3times'or can he jus say it the once?

2007-05-13 01:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-13 01:17:08 · 25 answers · asked by 24Special 5

What are your thoughts on this?

2007-05-13 00:57:20 · 17 answers · asked by GrnApl 6

Ok, here's the situation.Me and myhusband have been together for 12 years. We are both in our thirties. We love each other deeply and are loyal to one another.Of course we get angry at each other, but its just normal married stuff.
Here is the problem SEX. I just had a baby a couple of months ago, we didnt have sex while I was pregnant, and still have not since. Why is he not going out of his mind? The whole pregnancy thing turns him off big time, he's just weird like that, so that's why we didnt have sex while I was pregnant, besides I wasnt too intrested in it either, I didnt feel real hot.My sex drive is alittle low, I take antidepressants, its a side effect, but I still want to have sex.His sex drive seems too low for his age.Don't suggest he's gay, there is nothing gay about him. And I'm pretty good looking, even after having the baby....Although I do got some more pregnancy weight to drop yet.But its not like I'm a turn off....What is wrong?

2007-05-13 00:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he asks his kids to get something for their mom on mother's day..even if they were divorced for 6 years and she is married now.

2007-05-13 00:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by missy 2

Is it customary to keep your last name as your middle name once you get married or to keep your given middle name as your middle name and drop your last name all together once you get married. I've heard several different things and I think it also varies by what part of the country you are in as well as religion. My whole family has taken their maiden names and used as their new middle names and dropped their given middle name all together. Any help?

2007-05-13 00:10:21 · 10 answers · asked by lvsgal86 1