What if he has changed? What if I couldn't notice that over the phone or the internet? wedding can't be postponed: Cultural issues...
2007-05-13 04:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by Shereen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What have you gotten yourself into.
2007-05-13 04:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the wedding "can't be postponed" and it's an arranged marriage from cultural issues, what can you do about it? Listen, you are one step ahead of the game. You actually know what the purpose of marriage is. There was a question not 10 mins ago that asked that very thing. What's the purpose of marriage? Consider yourself a step ahead of the western world. We've regressed so far that the evolution of the family unit has actually reversed in the direction of destruction. This what happens when we let the youth run the show. Do me a favor, you are ahead of the game with marriage, please use your wisdom to keep your future children on track! People like you, even though you're stuck in a culture that may, to you, sound archaic, are our only hope for sanity for the future.
2007-05-13 04:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you thinking?
Everything and anything can be postponed. Stand up for yourself. You obviously have doubts.
Maybe he has changed, maybe not.
But it seems that YOU have changed. Think of yourself and what YOU want. Just you.
Better to have a short-term fallout with yours and his family because of "cultural issues" than a lifetime of misery and being trapped. Once you're married, that's it. It's a one-way street.
2007-05-13 04:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the wedding cant be postponed then all the answer in the world cant helpyou now,unless you have a way out. Sounds like youre stuck no matter what you think now or what anything appears now. Lots of luck
2007-05-13 04:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you seeing him in the next two months? If so, you may find that your fears are groundless - all people change over time, but I maybe the things that made him special to you haven't changed. All I can say is, if you are not sure then don't do it. You will regret it for the rest of your life. My Best Wishes go with you.
2007-05-13 04:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dippermouth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you knew him very well before he left, then you'll be able to roll with the punches. All people change , all the time , you've changed as well. If you truly think it can't be resolved then I think the only decent thing you can do is not get married, cultural differences or not.
2007-05-13 04:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why haven't you seen him for a year?
I would be very hesitant about getting married.
If possible, you should postpone...
2007-05-13 04:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Clicker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just think of all the passion ahead. If you really loved him you should be excited about this not wondering if he's changed or not plus you never lived with him yet so you don't really know if there is any change or not. Your just getting nervous don't try to analyze it. Everything should be fine. Enjoy!!
2007-05-13 04:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't postpone the wedding dear, there's not much we can tell you...Hope for the best?
2007-05-13 04:33:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i wouldn't get married in your situation. Marriage is something special and if you don't feel totally keen about it DON'T DO IT! If he is someone special I'm sure he'll wait till your ready.
2007-05-13 04:34:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well try to see him within those two months or if you can't do that just Marry him and if you don't like him do a divorce
2007-05-13 04:33:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋