I'm fifteen, and barely so. You, twenty, nearly a man. Yet here I sit, yearning for you. Is it wrong to be so madly in love? Is it wrong to desire you and me, creating children? For I do love you Kyle, and wait breathlessly for the day you take me away, fix me and make my life... Is the age gap a problem, or can we fight this?
2007-05-13
02:23:07
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asked by
EbonyRose
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Family & Relationships
➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know they claim it is infatuation, simple young love but they do not know me. They do not know us. I know this is genuine, it has lasted forever. Distance is slowly killing me, but I can wait for you, I can wait an eternity. I am only so thankful you feel the same. Forever cherish what we have, for this is reality.
2007-05-15
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update #1
you are underage, he could go to prison for that. if you loved him, you'd stay away until you were old enough
2007-05-13 02:26:14
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answered by hana woo 4
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The age gap at this age is a problem for he could be charged with rape if he does anything with you. I would say that at your age you should be concerning yourself more with
school then a guy that is too old for you. I would also say that you should consider going into poetry because this is a great start to a very loving and touching poet. I think you must consider that at your young age no matter how old you may feel you are too young to be involved in any serious
relationship.
Meaning that do not screw up and become another teenage parent statistic I know you may feel like experimenting but best to wait until you marry.
2007-05-13 09:48:14
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answered by Livinrawguy 7
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Love is never wrong it never fails , but by the look of what people out there call love,
it just create many questions that need to be answered, I say to you i love you, and the next thing i hear that you got involved with someone i Kill you and take my life tell me is that love some of the feeling we have for other people may be really sincere but does the person feel the same way or they just want to use you and leave you empty, I love you if i want to see you happy no matter what! dont listen to those that say he killed her because he loved her as is always the case, love does not hurt love brings joy
Just be sure he feels the same way about you or you are very valnurable and that could hurt you in the end
2007-05-13 09:36:34
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answered by Mighty M 1
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It's a beautiful thing to be in Love. But you must determine the difference between love and infatuation. It could be because he's older that your attracted to him. 5 years isn't so bad, but your not of legal age yet to be with someone older like that. You should wait until your 16, and I'm sure that he will want to wait until your 16 also. This will give you a year to date other guys your own age and decide if it's really someone older that you want. They say Love can be Blind!!
2007-05-13 09:49:07
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answered by 24Special 5
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I don't think it's wrong on your part, because that's what girls your age do(fantasize). It's wrong on his part, he experienced life after high school, you are just starting. Enjoy high school, have fun with your friends, love and finding the right one can wait. You don't need a man to fix and make your life. That's
what life experiences does for you. The age gap can be become problem, if not already so. Your a kid, he is grown. You'll be put in situation where you'll have to make grown decisions.
2007-05-13 10:00:54
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answered by lene 1
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No, it's not wrong to love anyone. But remember this, and I know you are tired of hearing people say this, but you are only 15. You are going to grow and mature so much that later you will really know what love is. Yes, you can be in love at your age, but there is so much for you to learn and experience that sometimes you can be confused with puppy love and infatuation. You can love him, but slow down and understand that he is in a different place mentally, physically, spiritually and pychologically than you are. And age does make a difference; especially, when you are fifteen. You are not old enough for him to date you. He can not legally date you. You are underaged.
2007-05-13 09:34:07
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answered by YaYa 2
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You are too young to fall in love. Very often that happens it is term as INFACTUATION.... You have many other choices in life that you have not seen yet. Why are you limiting your choices at such a young age.
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Having children and marriage is a whole different matter all together. Ir needs responsibilities such as financial and emotional stability. So if you do not hav ethat..please STOP day dreaming. Why don't you focus on your studies so that you can provide a better life for your children...
take care..
2007-05-13 10:32:41
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answered by trymejames 4
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I don't think it's possible for a boy to "fix" a girl. If you have problems you have to figure them out on your own. You gotta love yourself and respect yourself, then others will love and respect you.
There is nothing wrong with you being a girl (child) in love. But you are still just a child (not legal) and you don't need to be moving in with him, or having babies yet. But, that's just my opinion. I'll let your parents handle you.
In 5 years you'll look back and then you'll know what it's like. You'll be older and wiser, and you'll know. And you'll wish that you would have waited longer.
Cheers
2007-05-13 09:31:22
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answered by Daft One 6
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You've got the title to a good love song, "Is it wrong to be so in love?" Now take some of those words and write the lyrics. Then you'll always have the song you wrote to remember these best times of your life! Someday someone will come along to add the music to your lyrics and you'll have a number one chart buster hit song.
2007-05-13 09:28:12
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answered by bobweb 7
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you have it all wrong Kyle is not responsible for making or fixing your life you must do that for yourself... see you are still a adolescent and a 20 yr male is way to old for you at this point in your life.... You must grow as a young woman in order to offer something to someone Else's life... Grow up first....
2007-05-13 10:20:19
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answered by MJ 6
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stay together for a while then he can take you away. my parents are have a 5 1/2 years difference. wait until u are older
2007-05-13 09:26:56
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answered by ayybaybayy 3
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