On sundays he is either sleeping or is with his friends, dining and drinking. I am married for 7 years, have a kid and am working. Ours was a love marriage of which only marriage remains, love has evaporated. I am frustrated and want to end life. wht do I do
2007-05-13 05:13:19 · 10 answers · asked by mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just tell him that its not fair that he gets to spend time with his friends and you stay home and watch the child and that you should be given that right to spend time with your friends to(without the child). Once he realizes that you want time to spend with your friends he might decide you both should be doing things together as a family.
2007-05-13 05:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why the romance has left. That's not as difficult as it sounds if you consider that you too may be at fault. Most marriages that turns the husband into a workaholic stem from a lack of desire. Either he has gained weight that he doesn't like himself or you have gained weight. He may have slipped into a casual lifestyle that reeks of hole ridden sweaty stained comfort shirts, oil stained jeans and worn out tennis shoes, OR you are doing the grunge thing. Sweats for slacks "everyday", showers every forth day, mascara never used.
If this rings a bell, then you need to fix this problem. I mean Wal-mart can be the answer even. Get him new shirts (comfortable only) new jeans, new tennies, get yourself the same! Go on a blasted diet!!!! Workout in front of him and don't mention that you are on a diet even if he asks. Just say it's time you lost the baby fat you've gained since child birth.
2007-05-13 05:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont end your life! Your life is precious to you and to your kid. When love goes because of lack of real communication along the way. Keeping up to date and discussing any altercations along the way on an almost daily basis, is very important I think, to stop any drifting apart. Have you really sat down and talked together - and if so how long ago was it? I dont mean have a row. If communication only ends in rows, its because things have been hidden and building up for a long time. Perhaps seek someone like a marriage counsellor - neutral territory. If things have gone way beyond any hope of reconciliation and if all love has truly gone - then the next step is to perhaps discuss an amicable parting of the ways. But whatever you do, dont both of you just sit in misery for the rest of your life!
2007-05-13 05:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say there not alot you can do, cause as anyone who seem to addicted to something, they have to realise on their own that they need help....chance are you have talked about it, and maybe even fought over it, but that didn't solve anything. and without doing things that can cross into straying from the marriage, i think you need to let it ride for while longer, but dropping hints here and there. then if it really gets to you, try going out with him, or maybe plan a getaway for the 2 of you. i don't want to tell you to leave him , but sometimes we don't know what we have untill it's gone! so hmmm talk to him about it seriously and give an ultamatum
2007-05-13 05:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by jmayerlicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out the problem of ur husband. talk to him about the future of ur kid. talk to him about ur feelings. if he dont cares u then u take revenge. do the same what he did. do this until his mind changes. show him that how much painful it will be. make him understand ur feelings indirectly. also u can try this with ur kid.
its a bad idea to end ur life.
2007-05-13 05:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by anderson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no no-
The wrong words are I want to end life. Make your self happy!
Email me and we can talk about this mess
spirit
2007-05-13 09:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your husband
if you cant talk to him about Everything, you have no marriage
2007-05-13 05:19:34 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy mothers day
and find someone that really cares about you
2007-05-13 05:17:40 · answer #8 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him,maybe he has a problem ,open things to him ,and try checking yourselves too
2007-05-13 05:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by rrymil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a a boyfriend
2007-05-13 05:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋