if ur wife wanted a kid between the two of you so bad that it caused fight after fight in ur relationship and then she stopped taking birth control, got pregnant, and decided she was going to have an abortion what would you think? it was like everything to her and as soon as she knew she was pregnant she immediately said "im sick and i don't want this baby. we have to much to do with our lives? Whhhaaattt? Why the 180? she had an abortion 2 days ago. I can only think of a number of options why she turned around so quickly? See if you can figure them out. Either she is not planning to stick around or she screwed around on me. Why else would a woman that argued everyday with me about having a kid of our own change so quick? seems real fishy to me. A woman who truly loves her husband and wanted to be around i'm thinking would never want to end her pregnancy especially if that's all she was complaining about for months.
2007-05-12 17:50:20 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, this seems very unusual... but none of us on here are definitely going to know.
2007-05-12 17:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were to do that my husband would drag me to a mental hospital and have me be evaluated (I'd do that to him to if this question were applicable to him, but it can't be). It could have something to do with pregnancy hormones, they can make women really crazy unpredictable, the kid might really have been yours.
What I'm more concerned about is that you two had fight after fight over all this for months on end... if you two are going to stay together you're definitely going to need some couples counseling to learn to treat each other with respect, learn to communicate in non-fighting ways.
2007-05-13 01:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be right but it could be because she felt it would cause problems between you and her. The only way you will get the truth is talk to her. She is going through a lot right now and she may need someone to talk to so try talking things out before thinking the worse.Regardless of why she did it , the fact is it is a hard thing to deal with and a little understanding will help you to be able to talk to her better.
2007-05-13 01:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by tami j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have felt guilty for pushing it on you, and decided that it wasn't fair of her to have gotten pregnant when you so obviously didn't want her to. You both need to sit down and talk about this, it may hit her really hard later on... counseling could only help in a case like this.
2007-05-13 01:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you need to go to couseling and get to the bottom of why she did that. It sounds like more than she is telling you. You have a right to suspect. I would. Find out now before things exculate to the point of divorce.
2007-05-13 01:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is soo sad! I am sorry to see your going thru this. Sit down and talk to her and find out whats going on in her mind. Good luck!
2007-05-13 00:57:53 · answer #6 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably got pregnant with someone else
2007-05-13 01:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very strange,have her seek counseling and you should go with her to.It sounds to me like there is more to this story
2007-05-13 01:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like your wife isnt to bright of a cookie. in my opion if i was you i divorce her and find a woman with some sence. she dont have any. in my opion?
2007-05-13 00:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotional problems
2007-05-13 01:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋