my wife left me and my son for another women, i divorced her.I got my final papers in the mail making me single again..i feel hurt..sad...
lonely once again..even though she left us,and i am trying to see other women, i still have strong feelings for her.is this normal..am i the only one that feel this way ?
2007-05-12 17:54:50 · 9 answers · asked by whtmt501 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I loved my wife when she married me and I loved my wife when she divorced me and I loved my wife when she begged me to take her back and I loved my wife until the day she died. Now I miss her.
2007-05-12 18:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I cried, but it was out of relief, it had been a long draw out ordeal, no children involved, unless you count my ex-husband as a child. I felt like the world had been lifted off of my shoulders.
I got a bottle of white shoe polish and wrote "Just Divorced" on my truck windows and drove around town honking my horn, including taking a spin through the parking lot of my ex's place of business. It felt really good in a "trailer-trash" kind of way. That was eleven years ago. I have since remarried, and have a new standard of tolerance (low), and have a much better life.
2007-05-12 18:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is, you loved her for a long time right? I hate to hear your wife left you like that. But, you were right to let her go. In time, you will feel better about it, and realize it was for the best. Give it some time.
2007-05-12 18:06:23 · answer #3 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty sick and sad. I am sorry that this happened to you. And yes it's normal for you to feel this way. Hopefully you will be able to move on and meet the right person for you. n
2007-05-12 18:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time pal things happen that many cant explain this i know for a fact. i divorced in.2002. myself . but mine was almost as what you have posted . in time you find the right woman this i know for a fact . good luck and never say the word . cant. you can . my opion?
2007-05-12 18:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to give it some time. You lost someone you loved even if she cheated on you it is still hard to get over. Take your time- don't be in any rush to date again. Spend some time on yourself.
2007-05-12 18:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by hsmommy06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was really excited to get my papers . not to say i didnt have my moments of feeling sad here and there, but it is so nice to imagine you can now go on dates, have first kisses, romantic summer strolls w/ someone new. etc... its a feeling of freedom and new possiblities. i really enjoyed getting mine. it was wonderful.
2007-05-12 18:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a wonderful lobster dinner with wine and a slice of "death by chocolate" cake and celebrated with friends.
2007-05-12 19:09:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sang, I danced...
course, I was married to an abusive man....
2007-05-12 22:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by sylvery_fae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋