MY friend and I are both separated but both of us want our marriage to work, our spouses are not so sure that is what they want. We want to sleep together should we
2007-05-12 17:36:41 · 13 answers · asked by dj83164 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no harm if sleepings all you do
2007-05-12 17:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by pestie58 the spider hunter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you really want your marriages to work you should just allow yourself to lean on each other as friends and not complicate more things by throwing sex into the picture. Keep the friendship until some things have been worked out - if one of you losing their spouse and the other one doesn't and you did sleep together, makes for a very odd gathering of friends.
Keep it friends until you both know where you are going from here.
2007-05-12 17:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Interestedinknowing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your marriage to work you wouldn't be considering sleeping with someone else...
If you both love your spouses, then why are you even considering this?
Is this fair or honest to do to them?
Sorry But I think you should put all your eggs in one basket here, and that is your marriages..
The sex is a selfish, spur of the moment thing...
At the very least wait until you know whats going on in your marriages, it is your first obligation....
2007-05-12 17:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Innisfil g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to close one chapter before opening a new one
'dont you think. if you both want the marrige to work then'
sleeping with someone else will not work. but it sound like
all you need to get off the fence and do what is right time
get together once and for all or time to move on.
2007-05-12 17:41:37 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both want your marriages to work why would u want to sleep with someone else. Bad idea
2007-05-12 17:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by lcox65 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seperation is NOT a disillusionment of marriage. You are both STILL married. if you want your marriages to work then don't phuck around.
2007-05-12 19:18:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you both already made your minds up if you wanted your marrage to work you wouldnt do this to your spouses. in my opion?
2007-05-12 18:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-05-12 18:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleeping or actually sleeping sleeping together
2007-05-12 17:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by Patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want your marraiges to work but you want to cheat with each other?
Make up your minds.
2007-05-12 17:39:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋