Marriage & Divorce - 14 May 2007

I really hate her

2007-05-14 04:41:21 · 62 answers · asked by broken 1

Please be honest.

2007-05-14 04:41:11 · 11 answers · asked by vinster82 5

for me to beat my wife, even when im not enjoying it.

2007-05-14 04:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

.."ur gonna be the only woman in my life but i know that i won't be the only man in yours and i accept that..." i cheated in the past about 6 months into our 4 yr. relationship N now i'm 5 months pregnant & he still brings that up. He now wants us to get married before the baby is born but now i don't want to. I was trully sorry for what i did but seems like he's not ober it. Shuold i marry him anyway and prove him wrong?? I love him very much & i know he loves me alot too but he feels that his looks are not enough for me not to look around anymore. I don't care for his looks because even though he's fit & intelligent but his face doesn't help i love him & desire him only & no other guy. I feel terrible!! Should i ignore what he text messaged me?? i'm 24 he's 29 & about to get married in Sept. What do you suggest?? and no after the first time there hasn't been any other problems with cheating on my end. He's never cheated on me (that i know of at least). HELP!!

2007-05-14 04:35:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 04:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-14 04:30:32 · 31 answers · asked by Arie 1

That probably sounds really bad, but it's true. I am 25. I have been married for 4 years and we dated for 5 years prior to that. He is the only man I have ever been with. I have been pretty miserable for the last year. He is disrespectful when he speaks to me and doesn't much care when he hurts my feelings. I have never gotten any real great pleasure out of sex with him. I've never been with another man, but i know it can be better.
There is a guy at my office that i have had a crush on for a while. It has always been innocent and one sided until about 3 weeks ago. In joking he asked me if I wanted to make out with him, in joking (kinda) i said yeah sure.... Not really sure how it ended up happening, but we kissed and it was amazing. Now we both want to go further, but I am worried and confused. I do love my husband, but i'm not in love with him any longer. The man at my work is married, but also unhappy. I don't know that there could ever be more between us... I am so confused. HELP

2007-05-14 04:23:39 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a husband that thinks its ok to lust after other women. I tell him its the same as cheating even if its in his mind,do you think im wrong?

2007-05-14 04:20:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

During a conversation a friend told me she had heard of one state but wasn't sure where it is. I have never heard of "legally" having two spouses.

2007-05-14 04:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by Catherine H 1

i hear and read all of these stories about couples being unfaithful to each other and it scares me and makes me not want to get married for that fact? because i dont want to put everything into a relationship and then end up getting screwed? is this weird? should i get over it and trust my partner?

2007-05-14 04:06:12 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly*Belly 4

Do women ever think of sleeping with another man if they are taken? And if you had that chance, would you? How would you want to be approached?

2007-05-14 04:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by brian w 4

My husband and I are separated 1.5 yrs but we have very correct relationship. I moved with my mother and father together with my son (4.5 yrs old). Everytime my husband is free from work (and he works alot) he is with our son, I support and gladly provide that.

This summer, me and my son will move in with another man, that is really supportive, loving, understanding and trusting to both me and my son, and also I love him and my son trusts him a lot.

Since my husband is very bussy man, I thought that he would accept that I take care of our child (we are going to discuss this yet). Knowing him, I think that we could make a good agreement that is in good interest of our son.

However, my parents scared me that he could ask for custody and get it easy because it would be considered that I put our son in "immoral" surrounding (living unmarried with another man).

Is there really something in this?

2007-05-14 04:03:09 · 12 answers · asked by Wintermute 4

I love my husband. Our marriage hasn't been perfect. I've been wrong on alot of things, but I've never cheated ever, and never will. However, a couple weeks ago, I accidentally found websites that he visited for internet porn. Not just one, but several. Infact, he has an online file upload account. Our sex life is good, but I did notice he did something slightly freaky, and when I asked him where it came from he said "nowhere". I knew he was lying to me. Now I find myself checking my computer and his everyday...knowing that it will be there. I'm not a bad looking woman at all, but I feel ugly. Porn doesn't bother me at all.....it's the lying, and hiding it. A few days ago, I found evidence that he attempted to secretly film us having sex. Unfortunately for him, I took too long putting our kids to bed, so when I found the camcorder and viewed the tape, it was just him setting it up, and laying on the bed until he fell asleep. What should I do? I feel scared and alone...

2007-05-14 03:55:17 · 15 answers · asked by allthewiserspouse 1

I am Male of Asian-Hindu origin of 33/34yrs; I would like to propose a girl for an engagement and later to get marry with her. She is within the same cast/religion/race & country.

By profession I am accounting qualified but apparently she is not that well educated and not sure on how she is able to speak or write English, a computer literate and other skills in general for life.

Down the line, will it make the happy match for me & for her, considering she being my wife, to brought-up kids bright and to spend whole life with her in future.

The other option is that, people go to India to get a wife because they are educated. It’s a big question for me to travel, as I don’t have ideas at all for India plus taking into account for time, money, costs and not to lose my job/work.

Dear all I am really very worried, serious & confused on the above matter and seeking your help in a realistic manner, as it’s going to be my fist & last lifetime decision.

I will highly appreciate to you all, for your positive responses and thoughtful answers for making my decision happy.

2007-05-14 03:53:43 · 9 answers · asked by Vips_5 2

I know a woman who is in her mid '20's about to marry a man in his mid '50's. She says she is deeply in love with him, but I feel because he has a lot of money (which he willingly spends on her) and a big house that she is "dazzled by the lights".

Does anyone out there have any knowledge or experience with this kind of relationship? Have you known one to work or did divorce come quickly?

2007-05-14 03:49:01 · 14 answers · asked by Tiger 1

He basically abandoned our son right after he told me he was divorcing me. He moved to another state and was remarried within 6 months. He calls our son every night, has since he left. Our son misses him terribly but considers him more of a friend than a father. Even when my ex was living here he was an absentee father. I am trying not to be bitter for the betrayal but we were married for 25 years and the only good thing to come of it was our son. He sent me a text message on Mothers Day, not a card, so was not sure whether I should do this.

2007-05-14 03:40:35 · 41 answers · asked by chetey 1

I was in an abusive marriage and my ex-husband was controlling and money-minded. I feel more free to make decisions now. I live with whatever the consequences are.

I wonder though because my ex keeps telling me that I have ruined my life by leaving him. I have been away from him for about 5 years.

Does life generally get better or worse after leaving a marriage? I know that it will vary from case to case also.

2007-05-14 03:39:50 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

First, let me say that I am not a jealous or vindictive person...and I have tried to always do things in my daughter's best interest. However, I feel the very essence of my motherhood is as stake, things keep getting worse. The down and dirty of the situation is that my ex's new wife broke up my marriage when I was pregnant. That positioned her to be my daughter's #2 Mommy from the time my daughter was 6 months old. My daughter is now almost 5 and she doesn't seem to differentiate between the other woman and myself. To make matters worse, they keep seeking more and more visitation with her. I don't mind my daughter having a relationship with her dad. I just want her to know that I am her mom. She's my only child and probably always will be my only child. My ex and his new wife have no children of their own...and since we're in our mid-30s, I'm not sure they ever will. Please don't say that my daughter will know I'm her mom in time...because I can't be sure of that.

2007-05-14 03:36:30 · 27 answers · asked by Jinx E 1

My married woman friend from work is having an affair with a man behind her husbands back. He seems to call all of the shots and only sees her when he wants to. She does his shopping for him and constantly goes to see him for an hour at a time. He only texts her back when he seems to feel like it and she also told me he has a picture of himself and another woman in his living room.
The thing is she has very little confidence, hates her husband and seems to go to the length of wishing herself dead if her new man wouldnt want to see her any more. I don't think she trusts him.
What do you think she should do?

2007-05-14 03:25:11 · 42 answers · asked by snapesbabe 2

when you knew you were with the one for you?

2007-05-14 03:19:57 · 19 answers · asked by GoodGirl 3

This morning when I dropped my 6 yr old son off at his fathers before work, he took forever to answer the door and then offered me a bottle of water (as if to keep me in the house for a second). When i was pulling out of the driveway i saw a girl crossing the street and getting into a car that was parked behind the house across the street. MIND YOU, IT WAS 6 AM!!
So I do believe that he had company and made them sneak out the side door as i came in the front!! EWE! He claims im crazy and that she wasnt there for him but, i dont get where she could of come from at that hour. He and I have been trying to work out our relationship since March, and I think this should be the last straw. What do you think!

2007-05-14 03:19:00 · 14 answers · asked by Me, myself, & I 3

It wouldn't be soo bad, but she smells bad and she drulls. I have tried to explain to my hubby that it's me or the dog. And I am afraid that "Man's new bestfriend " is getting more attention than me!





LMAO....whats funny is this is really happening!!

2007-05-14 03:15:07 · 21 answers · asked by jbe2176 2

My boyfrien and I live together for the past 3 yrs. the house is company rented and downstairs house is in my boyfriend's name. he has not been divorced. his wife and son live in the same city. Three weeks back, his wife has made the son who visits us once in few months steal some photos from my house for proof. I would like to know how she could use these photos against me. two months back she has agreed for a mutual divorce. I would like to know whether these photos will go against him in court and can she go to the cop station saying that he is living with. I would like to know all the repurcussions that will cause with these photos .

2007-05-14 03:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by manisha 1

Spouse claims they are just friends but I am having a hard time believing this. Claims that they have common interests but I know that spouse has been lying about parts of this relationship.

2007-05-14 03:12:00 · 21 answers · asked by J P 1

more details to this question :
ok i will give you all the short version .... it will be a year that hubby and i have been seperated we are now going for a divorce ... but in the year that we were apart .. he hooked up with a girl that was a friend of both of ours ... ( he is 47 she is 33) he is now moving in with her and my son is there with them .. i know for a fact and i have seen with my own eyes that she treats her kids like crap and i do not want my son to go threw this or even be a witness to it ... please keep in mind i am in canada and they are in the usa ... my son does not want to do school here cus his friends are in the usa ( my son is 13) .. my question is should i have some sort of invesigation done on her or if anyone has any idea let me know ... thanks "

I would love to move back to the usa but i can't the reason i was there in the first place was on my soon to be x husbands visa and i was not allowed to work in the usa ... thats why i came back home to canada

2007-05-14 02:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've always been the most responsible among my siblings and I try my best not to disappoint my parents throughout my life. I have been trying to help out every time my parents quarreled even after I got married.

More recently, we started our own family and I now have a baby. Perhaps due to the stress of taking care of my baby and managing our own family matters, I get very affected every time my parents have some problem between themselves. This is especially when my mum started calling me with all her problem with dad. Although I tried listening but it really feels like a heavy cross that I have to carry everytime...

This has even started to affect my husband and my baby. Just 2 weeks ago, due to the stress from parents' problems, myself have not been sleeping well, which also affected my husband and baby. Both of them fall sick because of this... I'm so stressed that sometimes I just want to turn a blind eye and live my life without being emotionally affected. Is this selfish?

2007-05-14 02:54:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question after question regarding complaints about the men and women people CHOSE to be their spouses.

I don't understand. There have got to be more people like me out there who cherish, respect and adore their spouse.

So who would be willing to put their spouse up against mine?

My wife is loving, tender, gentle and full of grace. She has character and integrity measured in megatonage, which forces me to constantly be a better man. She has an awesome sense of humor and never takes herself too seriously.

I love her beyond the limits of communication, but more than that I respect her, maybe even more than I love her. I am in aw of her.

Oh! And lets not forget, she is also GREAT in the sack!

So does anyone out there think that his or her spouse has got game?

2007-05-14 02:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by David P 3

Can a 21 years old Egyptian woman travel without her parents permission?
shes not married , she says that she has the right to get marry without her parents permission

2007-05-14 02:48:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ray N 1

How would you feel if you woke up at 3 in th morning to find your bloke in a different room pleasuring himself while watching porn? im hurt by it not because its wrong, i agree with it but because of doing it over other women and been sneaky about it, he turned the TV off and tried to pretend he want there thinking i was still half asleep and now he has told me he does this all the time but feels guilty afterwards. I feel that he would just rather pleasure himself because he makes no effort in our sex life and he obviously prefers to watch women on tv and then lie to me!

2007-05-14 02:39:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you a man or a woman. What was the "receivers" response? Are you still together and in LOVE?

2007-05-14 02:38:59 · 21 answers · asked by wayouthere 4