Just yesterday He was on the computer listening to all of our old songs. One of the songs he dedicated to me and stopped me and said to you remember this song blah blah blah. Just wondering.
2007-05-14 00:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to decide whether you took the steps to save the marriage, and if the marriage is worth saving. He is reminescing about things that were good in your lives. Talk to him, find out what he is feeling--maybe communication, or the lack there of, was one of the reasons that your marriage is or did fail? Have you been through counseling? Talk to him, for the simple fact, that if you are thinking about his second thoughts--maybe you are having some of your own. Or you wouldn't be so concerned about "your song" and the memories attached to it!!! If you were truly done-it wouldn't matter.
We as a society have made divorce as easy as getting a happy meal--drive through and it is done. Instead of putting the time and effort into making a meal, just like making a marriage work. It takes patience, time, honesty, understanding and most of all communication. Talk to him try counseling and if you are both willing to save it--it is worth the effort. Unless he, or you, have done some heinous unforgivable thing--rediscover why you married in the first place! Good Luck!~~
2007-05-14 00:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How hard did the two of you work to save your marriage? Even in the face of divorce there were good times and memories in the marriage or you never would have married in the first place. That doesn't nessecarily mean he doesn't want the divorce. But if you feel there is a way to save the marriage and you're both having second thoughts about divorce you may want to give counceling a try.
2007-05-14 00:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First what was the cause of your seperation/divorce.
Probably not, he was just asking you a question.
Sounds like you don't care too much with the blah blah blah....
2007-05-14 00:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by steinerrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him? What does blah blah blah mean? Is that how you see his conversation, as of no importance to you? Sad.
2007-05-14 01:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always going to be second thoughts. That is a major decision. Just ask him how he feels and what he thinks. You might be able to save your marriage.
2007-05-14 00:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband hasn't grown up yet and nonetheless decide to be carefree and have relaxing. he's irresponsible and not waiting for a dedication. the certainty that he would not care sufficient approximately his very own toddler to pay toddler help and he's out partying and hasn't talked to you in a protracted time, exceedingly a lot says all of it. His mom says he would not choose a divorce, yet movements talk louder then words and his says, he desires to be unfastened. i comprehend what it is decide to divorce somebody you love. My first husband became into like a brilliant toddler. He needed each and all the reward of being single and each and all the reward of being married, yet not one of the ordinary jobs. I enjoyed my husband very a lot as quickly as I divorced him, yet I purely could not stay interior the loopy insecure, so referred to as marriage and did not choose my toddler to be forced to strengthen up contained in certainly one of those atmosphere. confident it injury to flow away and for a protracted time I missed him, yet finally got here to my senses and found out that I made the proper selection for the two my toddler and myself and have been given on with my life. the affection died and that i found somebody else. via ways, my ex under no circumstances paid toddler help or ever had something to do with our toddler. as quickly as he found out i might under no circumstances flow returned to him, he disowned his toddler and moved to a distinctive state. this is all i wanted, to attain he became right into a loser and that i did the splendid difficulty as quickly as I divorced him. enable your divorce to alter into very final. if your husband did not decide to lose you, he may be calling and continually coming to your place to purpose to renounce the divorce. yet he's not doing that, is he? If he cared approximately your toddler, he may be paying toddler help with out being forced. He might choose visitation and notice he toddler as usually as conceivable. Get on along with your life and a few day you will locate somebody greater effective.
2016-12-11 08:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just thinking about the settlement that he has to pay once the divorce got thru. Dont be fool by that little trick! But r u also having 2nd thots?
2007-05-14 00:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by ni2penang 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
na he just asked a question
2007-05-14 00:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by bluelitttt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sure is reminiscing a lot. Could be.
2007-05-14 00:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably wondering why he married such a b.i.t.ch.
2007-05-14 00:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Carlos G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋