2007-05-14 01:29:27 · 33 answers · asked by khalid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make ger understand that in order to be happy you must realise that a person cannot be happy all of the time about everything.
Americans are very fixed on this idea that they should be happy all of the time...and that makes them unhappy.
Good luck.
2007-05-14 01:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by O C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS!?
1) Cater to her EVERY needs. PAMPER her EVERY needs.
2) Make her feel safe and secure.
3) Make her feel special.
4) Make her feel needed and wanted.
5) NEVER argue with her. Or let her win the arguments.
6) make sure you are always wrong (even when your right)
7) Wine and dine her. (even if you have to get a 2nd job)
8) Cry during chick flicks.
9) ALWAYS listen to her.
10) ALWAYS be there for her.
11) Take her shopping.
12) Lose all your friends.
13) Don't go out with your friends. (Especially the single ones)
14) On top of your 3 jobs to maintain her needs, you have to find the time to be with her.
15) During sex make sure she has an ORGASM way before you do. (And make sure you do it WELL)
16) Cook for her.
17) If shes still not happy, then buy jewelry and/or flowers.
18) DO NOT FORGET their birthdays, your anniversaries, the song that was playing during your first date, first kiss, first everything.
19) And since you didn't forget their birthdays, a damn good present.
20) And if you can fit in a 4th job, you still have Christmas, New Years, Valentines day, Mother's day (mother's day), absolutely no time for YOUR birthday, Easter, Thanksgiving, and again Christmas.
Theres 20 ways.....you cant just pick a couple of them, because you ask how to keep them happy ALWAYS.
And if she isn't happy yet, then you should find a different girlfriend. because usually just being your self, should keep her happy "most" of the time. After all that's why she got interested in you.....right?
2007-05-14 01:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the biggest woes of marriage is when there is no trust.
Trust is so important that as long as you have your sex totally alive and Trust, your marriage will work and she will be happy always.
If your wife said she wanted to go out with the girls for a fun night out. Let her go.
never get mad. You don't own her. She has a right to be human too!
That's where most Men go wrong and argue that fact and they lose in the long run.
When my wife wanted to go out,. I gave her the car keys. kissed her on the lips and said "be careful."
I stayed home watched the kids and ate popcorn ...turn the groove tube on after the kids went to sleep and watched porno movies.
When my wife came home, I never questioned her about what she did.
All I say is did you have a good time and she says yes and comes up and gives me a big wet kiss all hot and been drinking too.
She peeps in the room to see the young ones asleep.
Then I make love to her and we get along just great.
As long as you give respect you will get respect and the trust issue, why bother even bringing it up unless you have a known fact of something occuring or happened otherwise, leave it be,
Today I know for a fact that my wife went out on me. I never said anything about it and you want to know why?
We have been married 23 years, maybe she wanted something strange or for whatever the reason why she chose to fool around one night,.
She and I have never argued and I gave her no reason to do it. So she must of had issues within herself and I let her work them out, but I stayed loving to her and guess what.
23 years later were still here and she loves me truly.
It takes more from a Man to totally understand a Woman than you can imagine.
People have to understand people/ We are human, Men or Ladies it makes no difference we are all human. We make mistakes.
Never make a Woman feel bad about something she did.
I showered my girl with love regardless what ever she has done bad in our marriage and today she is happy. I love her and give her love always and that is all she wrote:
That's all I have to say about that,.
2007-05-14 01:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She will always be happy if you just give her your 'honest self." Love her with all you have, respect her with everything you have to give, be true to her and I believe you will get the same from her, in all the years to come.
What a sweet question for you to ask. It shows THIS lady, that you are probably a very caring and loving person. So if you are the one with the wife...she is probably ALREADY happy, just having YOU by her side.
2007-05-14 01:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by HeatherM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her grow and accept her as she is. You said you would honor and cherish her in good and in bad, sometimes her changes might not be to your liking, stick it out. Life changes on a dime & change is ever changing. Leave enough room for each of you to grow and working at a marriage is a tough job. No one ever said it was bliss eternal. Roll with her and let her have her path. AND always have a date night, about once a month, go out and do something, anything, away from home, it will keep love fresh.
2007-05-14 01:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by SALSA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol@ yeah good luck with that......too funny
By realizing that nobody is happy 100% of the time. By knowing that she shouldn't rely on you for her happiness.
That being said, you can certainly help her be happy most of the time. How? By supporting her dreams, being there for her, being the most stable rock in her life, laughing with her, letting her know how much she is loved and treasured. Be an equal partner in her life, lend a hand when she needs it, back off when she needs it, be receptive to her wants and needs.
Hope that helps! :)
2007-05-14 01:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't make someone happy. Only that person can decide that they are happy. Whether you are talking about material things or emotional things, only your wife can decide she is happy. There will always be some other woman younger, prettier, thinner, bigger house, nicer house, smarter, etc. Happiness is a state of mind.
2007-05-14 01:34:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all she needs to be happy already. But I would say if she is normally happy person you shouldnt have to do alot. Just make sure you talk to her. I love my husband he is like my best friend and thats what makes me happy.Dates and gifts do help out.
2007-05-14 01:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by Michelemomof3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep all of the things you did in the beginning of the relationship to win her love alive throughout the marriage.
It is the little things that mean the most sometimes.
Treat her with all the love you started out with...do the things like a note or flowers for no reason...call to say I love you ...like I said, the things you did in the beginning....hold on to them and keep them going.
Make a date night just for the two of you once a week every week...take her out.
be cool...
2007-05-14 01:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never make expectations of ur spose too high. If she works... leave her be for bout 15mins after she gets home from work.... let her unwind. Stay true to her and true to youself. Be open to her suggestions. Depending on her and urself... you dont have to spend alot of money to woo her.
But then again she married you right?! So you're obviously doing something right ;)
2007-05-14 01:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋