2007-05-14 21:30:13 · 24 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Clearly there were finanial issues that stressed the marriage, but in the end, I'd have to say that it was her b/f that I didn't approve of or care for. Ya know ?
2007-05-15 06:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got divorced because I somehow lost my voice and got lost in the marriage. I was a mother and a wife. I was also the cook, the maid, the housekeeper, the nanny, the repair person, the launderer, the taxi, the neighbor, the seamstress, the doctor, the nurse, the schoolteacher etc...
The people in my daily life didn't see that I was still the poet, the music lover, the dancer, the date, the friend, a woman, the student, a person, and comedian: all time funny silly girl who just wanted to be hugged and loved at the end of a very tiring day.
When I remarried: I found a voice I didn't know existed.
2007-05-15 05:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by lamb1211 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I decided to get divorced when I realized that my wife was comfortable disrespecting me in public, in front of my family, and in front of my son. It just hit me one day that this is who she is, and that she is not going to change. She is an abuser, and while she never hit me she was verbally abusive, manipulative, and deceitful. We had been living in separate rooms in our house for about two months, and had not had sex in about three. From a health standpoint, I think that period was the worst that I had felt physically in my life.
As I continued to ponder what to do, I found out some rather disturbing things. She had tried to cheat on me more than once. She was already planning to divorce me behind my back. She had also begun to take money from our joint account and hide it in her private account. The combination of all these things led me to the realization that my life might be better without her in it.
And you know what? I was right. :)
Guy Getting Divorced
http://divorceandevolution.blogspot.com
2007-05-15 08:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by divorceandevolving 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm about to start the proceedings now...it's a lot of different reasons. He stopped appreciating me, withdrew from the marriage (I thought it was over the suicide of a friend). I caught him sending romantic IMs to a girl that he claimed was an ex from high school, but who I actually suspect was a woman he worked with. I've also heard rumors they're still together. He just came home one day, told me he wasn't happy with himself and told me I deserved better. He left three weeks after that, promised he was going to work on himself to make our marriage better. I haven't heard from him in over a month.
I'm starting to get some clarity on the situation and realize that all he cares about is himself, not us. And that I married far beneath myself. I gave him a black eye once because he came home drunk and belligerent at 4:30 am. I had no idea where he was and I'd been scared to death. After I did that, he told his friends that I was verbally and physically abusive. That was the first time I've ever hit anyone in my life...it wasn't right to do, but I think it's understandable.
2007-05-15 05:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married twice before, my first husband was in love with someone else, but she was too young (age 13) when I married him, we had been dating for so long that it was kind of expected of us to marry even though we clearly weren't suited. That's religion for you!! When I had been married for 3 and a half years I caught him in bed with her, so we divorced. My second husband went away on business and ended up sleeping with a girl there, he said it was because he was drunk, YEAH RIGHT!!!! I've been drunk many times and never ended up in bed with anyone I shouldn't have, so I divorced him also. I don't stand for cheaters.
2007-05-15 04:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never got divorced, but me and my girlfriedn broke up. And that was because I felt that we had 2 very different views of life, I also felt our christian lives wernt on the same page at all, no one better or worse, jsut different. And to me that was important.
She was very bossy over me, what i shold do, wear, study, live, friedns, etc etc.
and she lied to me severaltimes, and I couldnt trust her with personal info.
we never had really deep conversations that bring 2 people closer to eachother. I always found it hard to talk to her.
And now I'm going out with a Girl who totally blows my mind, she's jsut perfect, and I'm thinking maybe this is the one!;)
glad I broke it of with the other girl.
2007-05-15 04:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sued him for a divorce (and got it over 6 years ago) because he had an affair with his best friend's wife and also got her pregnant.
2007-05-15 07:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by QueenLori 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He left me for a 16 year old tramp.
So glad i didnt go through with the wedding as planned two months before I found out. Threw back the ring & never saw him again....neither has his daughter. He is just a selfish pig.
2007-05-15 04:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs D 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
divorce? its a sensitive subject.....
you cannot live anymore with that person...
everytime you try to get on with that person everything goes wrong. couple dont try to see a solution for them this solution is a better one...
un4tunately this is not the reason.
2007-05-15 04:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by colliekachu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because my ex husband decided to beat me almost to death one night. So I divorced his sorry *** and found a sense of self worth.
2007-05-15 04:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋