Can someone just throw you out of the house?

Question

ok this is going off of the question i wrote earlier some in there said that she can not just throw me out with out legally evecting me i need to know is this true and what would she have to do to do this and how long would it take? I am needing to know this because i have been just a stay at home mom for the past 2 months i do not have the money to leave anytime soon she said i have 2 1/2 weeks to get out but i cant find a job and save up money in that time frame. so please help me

ok if its not legal then what should i do just basicaly tell her to kiss my *** and she is going to have deal or evect me?

ok she is my partner i moved in with her everything is in her name but me and my daughter moved to MO almost 3 months ago its not like we have lived together for years but i am stuck I have no family to turn to i have not worked (my fault) and hve no money and she wants me out in 2 wks everything was going good i thought nothing negative till about a week ago then she went back to being her old self and said she was sorry then again everything was good until this morning she told me i had 2 weeks to get out

to swejj if it was just me i would go and live in my truck till i could figure this out but its not just me i have no where to go and have an 8 yr old daughter to think about if it wasnt for her i would be gone trust me its not like i am begging to stay because i want to change her mind that aint going to happen but i will not be stuck out somewhere in a state that i do not know anybody very well with my kid

Answer 1

Sorry, I missed how long you have lived together / if the house is in her name... definately call an attorney listed as "free consultation" in the phone book. In my circumstance, once my things were in the house, the other person couldn't throw me out without giving me 30 days written notice, then go to court and file a petition for eviction which usually gives you another 30 days.

If the attorney agrees, an idea is to wait until she leaves and move back in... though if you've been gone a while it may be more difficult.

As far as shelters, open your yellow pages to women's services - mine had shelters listed.

Best of luck,

Wildflower

Answer 2

if you pay rent or ever paid rent at these place and can prove it you should just let her take you to court and in mean time you should use some wisdom and get on your feet and get yourself in a position where if worse comes to worse you can get out and you will be able to stand on your own two feet and be a good example to your daughter find a morning job or an overnight. also explain to this person you need some time because she knows at this point you can't in all responsibility move with no place to go. and it is not legal in most state without a court order and she can't even lock you out with you not having your belongings. so check into to law in your state. this answer may be a little late but i hope you have learned something out of this experience and that is what you should take it as a teaching and move on. thank the lord that you have life and your daughter!

Answer 3

NO in the state of California You will have to file for and eviction with the Courts and that coast money. once filed the Court will send a civil service person i.e. Sheriffe to your home to serve you the papers. after which you have 48 hrs to answer to the eviction and file to go to court. Its in court where the tables can be turned either way depending on who argument is the stronges. so its only than the eviction can be handed down from the judge. and than the judge gives you 30 or 60 or how ever many days you may need to leave.
Thats when you can get evicted.. Or he can rule in your favor and you stay...

Answer 4

You need to tell her to kiss your *** and leave. Surely you have friends, family or there is always shelters. Anything is better than staying where you are not wanted, especially if you have a child who is very aware of all that is going on around her. Put your child first, it is hard, I know, I have been there, but for your own good and the protection of your child, just go.

Answer 5

what state are u in, because most states you can't do that. At least here in California.. If I were you I would call information and ask for legal aid in your area. Or call the local Welfare office, and ask them if they have any idea where to get a hold of some legal advice for free. There is always some free help out there, to find out your legal rights, and if you have to find out what papers to fill out to keep you safe and secure. Most states will really protect you especially with kids... Don't panic, because when you make that call, you can feel a lot better...Poor thing.

Answer 6

do yuo pay rent?? well- don't pay her- depending on where you live she has to give you 30 days. If she takes you to small claims for not paying rent then you have 90 days to move out. Stay where you are. She can't take you out even with the cops unless she has a formal court eviction notice and that could take a couple of weeks to 2 months to happen but in some cases even is she does evict you you have to pay back for all the money you don't pay her during the court trial etc. Don't leave yet until you get a formal eviction notice- look into your local city hall housing regulations. In CA you have to be given 90 days before they evict you house, apartment etc.

Answer 7

No.....she can't just throw you out the house without court order...she need to file an evecting paper to court then wait for the court date then you tell to the judge everything why she want you out the house...then Judge will decide what should happened.....theres a law but not sure if its all the States....if you stayed in the house with in 24 hours you can't be kicked out without court order........

Answer 8

SInce you didn't sign any documents, and everything is in her name, she can do what she wants. Go to a women's shelter. I think you can look up women's shelters online. The YWCA has women's shelters. They may be in the phone book. They will help you find work as well. My advice is to not get involved in any more lesbian relationships. The fact that you were able to have sex with a man leads me to believe you aren't lesbian. I would also advise not dating again until your child is 18, because bringing men in and out of her life, and one woman in this case, WILL screw her up since it appears you don't pick men well. In the meantime, take advantage of all the counseling you will be offered at the women's shelter, and better yourself until your child is 18. Get a degree in something. There is so much you can do until your child turns 18. Go for it, girl.

Answer 9

Yes she CAN legally evict you, you can either leave voluntarily or she can have the police come and escort you from HER home. I suggest you start looking into homeless shelters in your area to house yourself and your child. It is HER home, you didn't contribute to the finances of the home, you simply moved in. At the shelter they will help you look for work and child care. Next time THINK before you make a decision that is going to affect not just YOUR life but the life of your child. Obviously you gave no thought to your daughter when you decided to move this last time.

Answer 10

Hold on..who is "she"? Your mother? Are you paying your own way there? Rent, food, utilities? Do you have a written agreement? If you do not have an agreement with her, she can throw you out whenever she wants to. At least she has given you some time. Why don't you try to work it out during that time. Make a big effort to get a job and pay your own way, she may change her mind. If you are freeloading, I guess she has had enough.
Good luck, it's time to get your stuff together.