My husband and I just barely found out a month ago we are pregnant!!! We are so EXCITED... But we really want a boy. I keep telling myself that we have to stop doing that, cause what if it is a girl? we will be crushed... How do we get excited for a gril too?
2007-05-14 21:48:45 · 14 answers · asked by src8784 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the baby is healthy, so matter what sex it is, you will not be crushed. If the baby has health problems that require an extensive hospital stay, you may very well be crushed. Try to keep things in perspective.
2007-05-14 21:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Normally people will accept whatever they get for their first child. Maybe they hope to get what they want for the 2nd. But can we guarantee - like 100 % that we will get (even with techno help) what we want??? Dont think too much on the gender. U should wish 4 a healthy and perfect (meaning not handicap) child. U should be thankful and contented with that. At least I do. Good luck.
2007-05-15 05:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by ni2penang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will he cope with his being pregnant? Seriously though
you will be delighted as long as the child is born. Believe me. In this case God knows best. If you have normal prenatal care you will know when they scan you anyway. It may be twins! Having had both they each have their unique ways. God's timing is perfect. Learn to understand this and you will get excited. Just view the baby as a new friend.
2007-05-15 06:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by pwwatson8888 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, when the moment comes that your baby is placed in your arms, the only thing you will be worried about is that your baby is healthy, not the sex. There are people out there who are unfortunately not able to have a child at all so you should realise just how lucky you are.
2007-05-15 05:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Scorps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you have a 50/50 chance. Some parents never accept a child, because he/she is not the preferred sex. Maybe you will just be one of these parents and have to try again. If I were you I would just hope he/she is healthy. Our first child (a boy) was/is not. (cerebral palsy)
2007-05-15 05:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congradulation! learn to accept it, very soon, you will learn to accept that you are a mother and he is a father. In a long run, many things will come in so differently from your courtship and childless days, that is life, accept it as it come ya.
Prepare milk, pamper, babycot, babyfood, clothe and also argueing over baby matters, nite waking etc etc, coming soon...learn to accept it happily.
2007-05-15 06:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural to want a child of a certain sex. just dont keep on about it. but even those who have chidren of the sex they didn't prefer generally come to love the one they got. i think that is possible because choosing to be a parent means u already have all the love u need in ur heart.
2007-05-15 05:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by kiki68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be grateful for ANY child you get. I have a 9 month old girl, and she is THE most precious thing in my life.
2007-05-15 04:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got to kidding ? You would not be thrilled if you had a daughter ? Wow ! Ummm, Are you sure you are ready to be parents ?
2007-05-16 02:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by Justin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, you will get excited no matter what sex the child is!
2007-05-15 04:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by Barticus 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋