my husband has two of us as wivies and does not want the other woman to know about it, so he stays with her all the time negleting me and my baby. what do i do
2007-05-14 22:52:12 · 13 answers · asked by Frances 2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get a good lawyer
2007-05-14 22:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to got to be kidding? Your sharing this guy with some other woman and your complaining that he spends more time with her? Did I read that correctly?
This guy is not the problem here. IT'S YOU!!!
I become livid when I read something like this, because of the fact that you mentioned you have a baby! I don't care about you, apparently you have to learn the hard way, but is this the way your going to raise your baby? Your letting some jerk, HE IS NOT A HUSBAND, disrespect you to the max! What is wrong with you?
You can't complain that some jerk is neglecting you, because he doesn't want the other woman to know about him cheating, WHEN YOUR THE SECOND WOMAN!
You obviously have no idea what love and marriage even is, so I can't even answer your question "what do I do", but I will write this: YOU BETTER GET IT TOGETHER LADY, ESPECIALLY FOR THAT BABY!
2007-05-14 23:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell me this is a joke? where are you from dear? I dont want to question or insult your beliefs but what is your religous belief and what country are you from? You dont think it should be one woman and one man? Its your belief and preference but dont you think you and your child deserve a hubby/father all your own? Its not legal in most states to have more than one wife sweetheart. You can ask him to leave his other wife which he doesnt sound like he will if he thinks hes doing nothing wrong, you can put up with it or you can leave? all your choices will end up in a lil heartache, not as much as staying though. Give yourself and baby a chance for more .........there is more in life...
2007-05-14 22:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a bigamist, and if you live in the US, it is against the law. Do the right thing and turn him in. Not because you are bitter or because you seek revenge. But, before he takes more wives and has more children.
Then move ahead with your own life. There are good men out there waiting for good women. Good luck!
2007-05-14 23:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that bigamy (having more than one wife) is illegal in many countries, so if this is the case in yours you can have him locked up you know. He has a requirement to provide for you and your child. Don't sit there and take his rubbish, don't keep his dirty little secret either, this woman needs to know you also exist, and he needs to live up to his responsibilities
2007-05-14 23:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you out of your mind? Why would you get yourself into something like that? Leave that jerk, file for child support and get your life in order. Have you no self respect?
2007-05-14 22:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the legal arrangements worked out well in advance. In many countries, bigamy is illegal. I hope you know your rights and you have ensured that you are not being swindled. good luck!
2007-05-14 22:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you let this happen, he has the best of both worlds so he isnt going to change anything , why should he ? i hope you didnt know he was married when you married him ,because that is just plain stupid , i would tell him that he needs to chose who he wants to be with , and he better do it quickly.
2007-05-15 00:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am just 14 yrs.old... i am just sad about that...
i just want to ask if you really love and care for each other..
and i think things will happen if you two really are the ones meant to be...
2007-05-14 22:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by muzixlover_05jesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask us come on so what you are saying is you share your husband with someone else leave his *** for good dont let him play you
2007-05-15 01:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋