Marriage & Divorce - 15 May 2007

to wash my hands in the bathroom. Just because I ate a whole bag of barbecue potato chips, I shouldn't feel guilty, right? It's not healthy to be ashamed of eating, right?

2007-05-15 06:24:13 · 18 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

As of this moment, my husband has atleast 10 unfinished projects around the house. The worst one is the bathroom, which he completely gutted without my consent, and hasn't finished. It's been torn apart since late February. We took a week of vacation time in the hopes of getting everything done, but he spent that week starting more projects and not finishing the ones he already had. I am at my wit's end, and am feeling completely overwhelmed by my torn up house and garage. I just want it to look nice and organized!! HELP!

2007-05-15 06:19:22 · 14 answers · asked by Another Nickname 3

My husband and I have been married for 41/2 years, we dated for 8. He is part owner of a family bussiness and runs the office, for the past 9 months I have been working as his secretary, I was only supposed to work with him until he found someone to be there full time.
We have been fussing a great deal. I know he loves me, and I have learned that his job is very stressful, I'm just wondering if any of you work with your husband/wife, and if you do, how does it affect your relationship?

2007-05-15 06:15:27 · 28 answers · asked by Cresha B 4

I love my husband with all my heart but I am slowly coming unglued. If I talk to anyone I am cheating, I set an acount up on our computer left him the password and he still accused me of wanting to find someone else. When I go to work he thinks I am cheating or trying to get with people there ( I am a waitress). I never do anything without him I go to work and come home and stay here unless he wants to go somewhere. His first wife had several affairs and I know that hangs in his mind but I am not and he always accuses me. Then there is him he will leave and go to his moms for the day and never answers the cell phone when I call, has another cell phone that his mom gave him and I don't even have the number. I don't t6hink he is cheating because he is always at work, home or moms but all of this has got me a nerous wreck. Having a lot of issues with my ex and if I get upset he says it is because I still care and I dont I only love him. What can I do.

2007-05-15 06:07:37 · 14 answers · asked by mandj_stahl2006 2

"A GUILT TRIP"?

2007-05-15 06:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by FYIIM1KO 5

2007-05-15 06:02:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-05-15 06:01:59 · 20 answers · asked by hae 1

if i have been with someone for 14 years and am planning on moving out with our two children, and recently he was awarded a settlement that he has had going on for 5 years now, am i entitled to any of this money, legally through child support court?

2007-05-15 06:01:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been through some very hard times in my life. My life would be easier if I married him. Right now I can't pay my bills and I am so lonely. I used to have a good job but I got fired 3 years ago and I have never found a job to my eduational level.
I've tried breaking up with him, but he said he would do anything for me.
People in other countries have arranged marriages and they learn to love their spouse.
Can I learn to love him?
Should I marry him. He has had his share of bad luck too and we seem to do better together

2007-05-15 06:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Sally 1

2007-05-15 06:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands ex wife is now one of my best friends.. As strange as it is for me to say this I swear its true.
I know that in every situation there is two sides to every story, but I have to say that she is SO NOT what he (hubby) led me to believe. Aside from the fact that she is his ex, she enjoys the same music , movie genre, and other out door interest. Hubby doesnt seem too upset about the fact that she and I are friends. So I think its cool, but I would like to know if I am going into this friendship with eyes wide shut.? Hubby, the Ex , and I have discussed the ODD situation going on, but in the best interest of All of our children, We do agree that a "truce" of sorts is necessary. And just in case you are wondering, the reason hubby and the ex divorced is b/c for one, they were too young in the first place and for two, the military and marriage do not mesh well together, as I am sure you are aware of. I just need some reassurance. Please Respond Quickly..

2007-05-15 05:59:45 · 11 answers · asked by heatherclhn 3

i moved in with him right when i met him and rushed to getting married 6 months later when i was only 18. i feel it was a mistake now because im so young and i wasnt really experienced with being an adult when i married him. how do i end it now?

2007-05-15 05:53:55 · 10 answers · asked by sweet T 1

He has 4 children and wonders if he is doing the right thing for them. His ex had an affair and wanted the divorce. Since then she has said that she wanted to reconcile. She put him and the children through alot of pain. I want to stay with him because we have such a great relationship, but he has not been able to move on and make a commitment. I am completely in love with him, but I don't want to keep hanging on if I am going to end up getting hurt even more in the end.

2007-05-15 05:45:53 · 18 answers · asked by macknboo 1

my husband and me are staying separately from past 6years and my daughter was with my parents from her birth.now his mother and sister are threatening me that they will take my daughter if i dnt stay with my husband .

2007-05-15 05:40:52 · 15 answers · asked by swathi n 1

She is taking me back to court

2007-05-15 05:29:11 · 15 answers · asked by Tony 1

the reason is...which i posted on a different relationship site...duh to me. they are texting a person from work has been going on for a while now, both parties are with someone..both say nothing is going on...my partner is sticking up for this person and cannot see a problem with this...there has been history between them. it has cause rows on both sides, break ups and getting back together. am really confused at the moment

2007-05-15 05:28:47 · 22 answers · asked by toddlfc 2

I am just wondering what the protocol is for pictures of exes when you get married.
Is it OK for you to keep pictures of old girlfriends or boyfriends in the bedroom when you get married, as long as they are out of sight.

2007-05-15 05:27:50 · 24 answers · asked by amrp 1

At what point did you realize that your marriage was over?

2007-05-15 05:27:43 · 10 answers · asked by casper 5

Will getting married affect my husbands child support that he pays to his ex?
At the time the child support order was issued he was not married, nor living with anyone and he makes pretty good money. He and his ex were not married, they had just lived together for some time, so there were no other orders issued at the time. Now we have a child and are getting married this saturday. His child support is WAY HIGH, more than our mortgage and electric bill combined and we're having a hard time making ends meet. I am wondering if anyone out there, espically in Ohio (which is where we live) has had experience with this same situation.
Thanks and God Bless!!

2007-05-15 05:22:42 · 6 answers · asked by Cassandra K 2

Do any of you man regret divorcing your spouse?

2007-05-15 05:17:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says "we must work out a code: if I want sex i'll stroke your breast, you reply by tugging my penis once for Yes and 150 times for no!"

Star if you like

2007-05-15 05:17:21 · 1 answers · asked by Sonell 3

hi my parents got a divorce a while ago and i have not been able to get oveer it and i am really hopping tht someone can help me. so can you?

2007-05-15 05:01:35 · 22 answers · asked by Dawn G 1

Is it greed? Is it fear of looking incompetent? Is it a misled belief that any couple can make it work if they just try hard enough?

2007-05-15 04:59:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think my husband is gay because i say him in a gay strip clud.

2007-05-15 04:56:18 · 24 answers · asked by CECE 2

I make my own decisions but it sure is helpful to have a "panel" of non-biased people take a look at things objectively. After years of someone telling you you're crazy, you almost start to believe it. Thanks to all who give honest, REALISTIC answers. Has anyones life been improved and in what ways after posting questions?

2007-05-15 04:54:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to figure out why my husband won't divorce me. It's quite obvious that he detests me.He seems incapable of speaking to me in a decent tone of voice(when he speaks to me at all), we have not been affectionate in about a year, sex is very few and far between(and is just that-a piece of a**),leaves a room if I walk into it. The nicer I am, the more he is a d*ck. I could go on and on. It's long and complicated. The only thing we agree on is not wanting to be with each other. So WHY won't he let me go? Does he enjoy the maid service? Is he a sadist? When I tell him that I'll leave as soon as I figure out how to, I get a dirty look. If I tell him "fine, you don't want me, I'll find someone else", I get a dirty look. I think it's the whole "I don't want you but no one else can have you either" thing. Again--WTF?

2007-05-15 04:51:45 · 40 answers · asked by fairygodmother 3

and have kids, have been so tainted over it that you that it effects your dating lofe now? (Like zero tollerance on drug use or questionable behavior) And makes it more difficult for trust in a relationship?

2007-05-15 04:51:09 · 10 answers · asked by Common Sense 5

does it make u happy , hot ,pleased or u just do it because ur man want it

2007-05-15 04:49:06 · 9 answers · asked by quietmoon 1

My Ex-Fiance is still wearing her engagement ring after a week of breakup. She says she will wear it until I find someone else. This makes me kind of uncomfortable. But I told her she can keep it.

Is this just part of her healing process of letting me go possibly?

2007-05-15 04:47:22 · 18 answers · asked by Rider1536 1

I do not fell so secure about myself anymore. I want to feel secure again. I want to be pretty for my husband.I know he thinks i am pretty but i dont want to be a plain jane pretty anymore.How can i boost me self esteme?

2007-05-15 04:44:45 · 18 answers · asked by wispersindarkness 1