I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it
2007-05-15 21:34:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. That is one fantasy that you should keep to yourself. You seem to be having homoerotic thoughts and you are using your wife as a means to legitimate them. Focus on pleasuring her - put some effort into it.
2007-05-15 21:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with ClCalifo. She said it in a nutshell. Leave the fantasy in your head. Every fantasy does not have to be acted out. I'm sure nutty people think of nutty things all the time and that is probably why they wind up being put in nutty places. PLEEEEASSEE keep it in your head.
2007-05-16 05:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by TargetPractice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So a "hot studly guy" turns you on?
Maybe you should tell her about that.
2007-05-16 05:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by ModerndayMadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that is why this is called a fantasy.
When you married you promised to love honor and cherish and be faithful to each other.
Don't mess up your lifle. Go ahead and enjoy the fantasy where it belongs......in your own head.
2007-05-16 04:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't this is a normal fantasy for a guy but you have it, and it's ok. I think you'd better tell your wife casually and see how she reacts.
2007-05-16 04:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised at how many men (and women) love and I mean LOVE it....watch some DVD with her mention it lightly..Would you like that..god thats so horny etc and dont forget to mention you like the idea of women too it can be the deal clincher!
2007-05-16 04:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys have this fantasy, but when it turns out to come true for them, they feel awful and regret it. Just so you're warned. If I were you, I wouldn't tell her.
2007-05-16 04:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't tell her, keep it your personal little fantasy. I wouldn't want to hear that from my husband....just because I know he would want me to share one of my fantasies and that isn't going to happen.
2007-05-16 07:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her: she'd think you don't love her anymore. No woman would ever feel loved if her man wanted her to sleep with another man.
2007-05-16 04:50:52 · answer #9 · answered by Love_my_Cornish_Knight❤️ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude! You need help!
So imagin you told her, and she loved it too, and then turned it into reality.... She would love it! And then it would happen over and over, and in the end, you'll be the one suffering!!
2007-05-16 05:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by Afro Den 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋