2007-05-15 15:03:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know the whole situation, but you need to either leave, or go to some kind of relationship therapy, as you can't continue to be unhappy. It's very hard or even impossible to trust someone again after they've cheated on you.
2007-05-15 15:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Didn't you tell her that you would get over it and you two would move on? What changed? Happiness is your own responsibility, not hers. You are unhappy because of you. If you really wanted this to work and get past this, you would have. I think you have a legit reason, but it is wrong to leave a marriage since you CHOOSE not to be happy.
2007-05-15 15:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by SillierKimmy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong at all. SHe should have known better to begin with. She is an adult now, and has to take responisiblty for her actions. I wouldn't trust my husband if he did that and I found out about it. I would leave him too!
My motto is, once a cheat, always a cheat
2007-05-15 15:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by mag 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong to leave your wife if she cheats on you, but to simply leave because you no longer lover her, that is a personal decision. Only you can answer that.
2007-05-15 15:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by naejplman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you gone to marriage therapy? have you asked yourself if you still lover her? or is it because your so upset that she even did this to you? if you dont love her anymore move on...if she dosent love you move on...but dont let her change the way you look at other women cause we dont all cheat. And if you do leave her i hope you find your Mrs. Right....;o)
2007-05-15 15:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by cubanitaquebola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not. but try to get conseling or something first to see if you can resolve it. i stayed in a marriage in which i was miserable which actually lead me to cheat. we split up and a year later i finally filed for divorce. but im happy now and thats all that matters.
2007-05-15 15:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by grniz07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you forgave her then try counseling to understand why you aren't happy. If she's serious about you, although she really doesn't deserve you, you might need to give her that chance you gave her when you found out. It sounds like you never really did.
2007-05-15 15:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by J S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cheated before you got married and you married her anyway.....then you owe it to your marriage to get counseling to help you deal with it.
If you have children....you get counseling before you call it quits...you owe it to them.
2007-05-15 15:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that.
2007-05-15 15:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely...life is too short not to be happy.
This is your life, and you deserve to enjoy it.
2007-05-15 15:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋